Not interested in Asians

tantalizeme

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What's there not to like about Asians?

I did go through my "Asian stage" many years ago but just have zero interest in Asians now.... I was curious whether any other pooners felt the same way.
Congratulations, Guy, on launching what promises to become PERB's very own "We-dislike-Asian-girls" club.

With a bit of luck, and the right publicity, your membership base could swell to 10 in the Vancouver area alone—not even counting disgruntled Caucasian SPs and Asian pooners whose ego craves Western pussy.

Obviously, to the extent that your "zero interest in Asians" is a purely emotional "done that—overdosed-on-it—something-else-please" sort of thing, you don't need reasons why you would want to join this kind of club.

But perhaps you'd like some real ammunition for recruiting members to your club: generalizations which I think tend to be true of Asian women, though with many exceptions. Some of my points apply to SP-pooner dynamics, but others would only become evident in longer relationships.

So, broadly speaking, what's there NOT to like about Asian women?

1. Let's admit right off the bat: Asian women who grow up in the West (or come from affluent social strata, especially in cities like Shanghai, Hongkong or Taipei) tend to share all of Western women's most unappealing personality traits.

2. Those breath-takingly lovely and maddeningly sensuous yet humble Asian women who're still uncorrupted by Western frivolity and conceit are rarely very fluent in English at a level that allows communication to get beyond the infantile.

3. Quite a proportion of Asian women have strangely crooked teeth and, almost invariably, rather tiny titties; and relatively little erotic imagination (though most can learn). Asian women seem rarely interested in exploring the potential of group sex or anal sex—and often aren't anatomically very suited for it, with a normally endowed Western man.

4. Asian women tend to put their family first and, for my taste, are far too preoccupied with pleasing their parents and relatives, in often very time- and money-consuming ways.

5. Asian women tend to be status-conscious, conformist, unabashedly materialistic and uncritically conservative—which doesn't sit well with someone who thinks radical steps are necessary to save our planet's ecosystem and promote global justice; and who doesn't care about driving a Mercedes.

6. I'm sorry to say this because it sounds arrogant; but, based on my experience, very few Asian women are given to psychological self-reflection that would make them understand where feelings come from, instead of being impulse-driven in an unintelligent way, which in relationships manifests itself in such behaviors as petty nagging, displaced anger or self-righteous jealousy.

7. Asian women tend to be fiercely marriage-minded and associate commitment with sex, which can lead to amazing vindictiveness in case of philandering on the man's part.

8. Asian women generally want at least one kid, ideally a son, and give their kids relentless priority over a man; and their second priority is usually not the man either, but a money-making career; or else she expects the man to carry the burden of breadwinning.

9. Shacking up with a none-too-educated Asian woman who stubbornly sees the world through the lens of her own cultural upbringing is amusing at first, conflict-promoting soon after, and eventually boring, boring, boring.

But forgive me, Guy, if I'm not ready to sign up for your "We-dislike-Asian-girls" club just yet. The disadvantages of dating (or banging) Asian women have to be weighed against the disadvantages of dating (or banging) non-Asian women.

And paraphrasing Churchill, for some of us the conclusion is that Asian women are probably the worst type to pick—except for all the others.
 

TheGuy

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Congratulations, Guy, on launching what promises to become PERB's very own "We-dislike-Asian-girls" club.

With a bit of luck, and the right publicity, your membership base could swell to 10 in the Vancouver area alone—not even counting disgruntled Caucasian SPs and Asian pooners whose ego craves Western pussy.

Obviously, to the extent that your "zero interest in Asians" is a purely emotional "done that—overdosed-on-it—something-else-please" sort of thing, you don't need reasons why you would want to join this kind of club.

But perhaps you'd like some real ammunition for recruiting members to your club: generalizations which I think tend to be true of Asian women, though with many exceptions. Some of my points apply to SP-pooner dynamics, but others would only become evident in longer relationships.

So, broadly speaking, what's there NOT to like about Asian women?

1. Let's admit right off the bat: Asian women who grow up in the West (or come from affluent social strata, especially in cities like Shanghai, Hongkong or Taipei) tend to share all of Western women's most unappealing personality traits.

2. Those breath-takingly lovely and maddeningly sensuous yet humble Asian women who're still uncorrupted by Western frivolity and conceit are rarely very fluent in English at a level that allows communication to get beyond the infantile.

3. Quite a proportion of Asian women have strangely crooked teeth and, almost invariably, rather tiny titties; and relatively little erotic imagination (though most can learn). Asian women seem rarely interested in exploring the potential of group sex or anal sex—and often aren't anatomically very suited for it, with a normally endowed Western man.

4. Asian women tend to put their family first and, for my taste, are far too preoccupied with pleasing their parents and relatives, in often very time- and money-consuming ways.

5. Asian women tend to be status-conscious, conformist, unabashedly materialistic and uncritically conservative—which doesn't sit well with someone who thinks radical steps are necessary to save our planet's ecosystem and promote global justice; and who doesn't care about driving a Mercedes.

6. I'm sorry to say this because it sounds arrogant; but, based on my experience, very few Asian women are given to psychological self-reflection that would make them understand where feelings come from, instead of being impulse-driven in an unintelligent way, which in relationships manifests itself in such behaviors as petty nagging, displaced anger or self-righteous jealousy.

7. Asian women tend to be fiercely marriage-minded and associate commitment with sex, which can lead to amazing vindictiveness in case of philandering on the man's part.

8. Asian women generally want at least one kid, ideally a son, and give their kids relentless priority over a man; and their second priority is usually not the man either, but a money-making career; or else she expects the man to carry the burden of breadwinning.

9. Shacking up with a none-too-educated Asian woman who stubbornly sees the world through the lens of her own cultural upbringing is amusing at first, conflict-promoting soon after, and eventually boring, boring, boring.

But forgive me, Guy, if I'm not ready to sign up for your "We-dislike-Asian-girls" club just yet. The disadvantages of dating (or banging) Asian women have to be weighed against the disadvantages of dating (or banging) non-Asian women.

And paraphrasing Churchill, for some of us the conclusion is that Asian women are probably the worst type to pick—except for all the others.
Having spent more than twenty years in Asia - I just don't agree. For me it is just a case of been-there-done-that. Just not my cup of tea anymore. I understand what you see there. As i said been there - just don't see it the same way anymore.
 

Pantherdash

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If you dig Mexican females, check out the flick Y Tu Mama, Tambien, it's an interesting soft core porn flick in Spanish.
Actually, the lead female role in that flick is played by Maribel Verdu, who is originally from Spain and her character is Spanish, not Mexican. Big difference in my opinion.

Panther
 

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I'm a third generation Asian lived all my life in Vancouver. Can't say I've ever been attracted to an Asian female ! Sure there are beautiful Asian ladies but for some reason I've never been interested in them. For much of my adult life I was a blonde model type guy. Slowly been drifting to brunettes and redheads. I just like 'em tall and slim. Not too many Chinese/Japanese/Filipinos like that.
 

moi

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As for Asian's, there is one here in Edmonton I'm real sweet on. Intelligent, strong willed and motivated...and she likes sex. My kind of woman, but that's just moi. ;)
thanks!! hehe... i don't think i fit the stereotype of what the majority of guys are saying here about asians, mostly because I'm mixed, and have lived in both Canada and Asia and came to a medium inbetween. Not only that, being in this industry, I feel much better being able to support myself and have learned not to depend on others financially.

It really depends on how you are brought up. My mother is a very strong woman and taught me well, keeping a proper balance between asian and western values.

When I was growing up, I never fancied asian men. When I lived in Asia, I began to explore it, and was really infuriated with how "invisible" I had to be. Now, back in Canada, I don't mind dating either caucasian or asian. It depends on their personality, connection, communication and compromise.
 

indian_boner

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Honestly, Asian women/girls are not all that. as an canadian born east indian male growing on the east and south van in the 90s, ive seen my share of multicultural situations and life experiences which has lead to major in sociology/social sciences: la ho ma hong kong girl, mabhuhay filipina, andalay andalay latina mamacita! We are predisposed to culturally define feminine beauty. The fact of the matter is that the only reason why non-asians go for asian women is becuz sometimes in some areas there is a lack of feminine high maintenance caucasian non-asian women while alot of white women want to be more free-spirited, tree huggers, post-materialistic, cut their hair short like a guy. hence, when there is lack of attractive feminine white women, the white men go after the asians who try hard to look good in order to not appear inferior in anyway and thus make great efforts in entering mainstream society.

I mean there are more asians in american cities like seattle, san franciso, but americans have not generally enfranchise the asian women to the center of beauty in mainstream american media. all those asian girls just get publicity from import car/acessories industry while the white women continue to rein supreme in hollywood/advertising/mass media etc.

only a small majority of white men actually go for asians due to their upbringing and difference in perception the same way that not all white men are gay. besides, what makes ppl turn out to gay? a small minority of white men like petite small women rather than the tall, hour hour glass american concept of beauty. John Lennon was the first white male in the mainstream to after something other than the american beauty.

in america, the idea of beauty is blonde/brunette hair, sharp feautures, slim nose, oval almond eyes, lean and tall hour glass figure with nice cleavage-characteristics that asian women lack esp. the cleavage and butts. Asian women are racially different and in a nation like american, obsessed over racial purity, american beauty, etc. asian women become a exotic fad substitution.

And this is beyond the physical, as white women have different mindset and psychological disposition to sex, masculinity, romance, etc. white women are more into romance, lusting over the male bodies, lovemaking while i dont think asian women are like that and are more reserved. when i mean asian i mosty mean immigrant asians not the westernized asians to a large extent but they have the similar behaviour and mindset. maybe its asian culture, asian concepts of feminitity and masculinity all plays in a role here. the stereotype of asian women is that they are like "starfish" and like to be received rather than give affection, whereas, white women are more into caressing, giving that affection (no, i dont mean cbj), and the physical romance. the attractive asian women are too materialistic, have not content, are less social aware, have no sense of intellectual culture (high arts, post-materlistism, philosophical, ethos, etc). they dont care about men and loving a man, they only love money. no sense of appreciation of any culture or ethos.

yes asians are kinda exotic but we are likely to accept beauty from our own cultural predispositions. If vancouver had more attractive american TNA women as sp and just regular women, there would not be over-rated lust over asians. just look at internet porn these days, all the asian pornstars are just cute but lack the body ie. lucy thai, charmene, aveena lee whereas american white pornstars have the big tits and nice butts ie. ava lauren, sienna west, austin kincaid, puma swede, etc. white guys in reality or in pooning go after whats available in mass quantity, as in vancouver theres more asian girls who are wearing that sexy TNA pants instead of white girls who are wearing some vintage enviro friendly wear. besides in canada, only metro vancouver, greater toronto, and edmonton have large concentrations of asian (westernized/immigrant) while the rest of the 20 million white canadians live outside of areas of asian population. so we cannot judge 1000 cases of asian white fever as the predominant relationship going in Canada.
i just go for asians micros becuz i cant trust those incall/parlour white sp's who upfront and all that other stuff.

couple of fellows commented on latinas (accento latina tijuana, hey mister, want my sister), if we replace the asian chinese population of 1 million in canada with 1 million central latin american population, then there would be a lust for the latina heat like the ones in low-rider magazines East LA. so it all comes down to whats available, whats exotic, etc. this is not stats Can
 
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SeekSteadyRegSP

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I did go through my "Asian stage" many years ago but just have zero interest in Asians now.

I was curious whether any other pooners felt the same way...

just curious how many others are not attracted by the Asian experience.
No, I've never had an asian stage... and the element that stands above all else is the patriarchal society in which they've been raised.

A lot of guys in this arena want women who will be or seem almost 2nd-class citizens, and that is the last thing I want.

Hope this makes sense.
 

tedsweettangv

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I am not enlightened but

I am not saying this because I am enlightened, but more because I am a horn dog. I find women from most races attractive. My only beef with Asians is only with the recently landed, and that is that I can´t communicate with them. For me that detracts from the attractiveness. It isn´t their fault. I am a boorish English only speaker, but it does hinder things.
 

seoul921

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As a white guy, over the years what I've noticed is that I like skinny girls, and definitely no fat asses, so Asian girls tend to come high on the list. Before I thought I just had the fever that I couldn't get rid of. Then I went to Sweden and Russia and had a whole new experience. There were plenty of skinny, large-racked lovely women, but serious about locking in the relationship right away. The Chinese, Japanese and Korean girls have given me more space and seem up for general fun without having to lock in. But all in all, it is very hard for me not to fall in love with a Chinese chick - that attention to detail in bed and curiousity. Japanese girls are okay, but there is a distance there, where the Chinese girls get very close and passionate. The Chinese girls tend to be better educated too, which I think helps a lot. And what about those super-tight Chinese pussies. Just outa this world.
 

Harmony-bc

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I have rarely had problems with rude, obnoxious, smelly or pushy clients. Could count them on one hand. There was no particular race that stood out as the 'winner' in these categories.

One of my all time favourite clients is Japanese and is by far the most sensuous man I've ever been with. Is it his culture that makes him this way? I really don't know, as I don't have a big enough 'sampling' of Japanese partners to get any kind of statistic ;)

I've found myself without actual preference to race.
There are so many types of people, and I'm blessed (or cursed?) with a true love of diversity and variety. I really like getting to know different kinds of people and their cultures. It interests me.

xoxo
Nina
Absolutely, I couldn't agree more. I think a lot of people just notice what other people are doing more, when the other person looks different. I have met nice people from all cultures. I am Caucasian
 

jakey_edwards

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My 2 cents

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I've found myself without actual preference to race.
There are so many types of people, and I'm blessed with a true love of diversity and variety. I really like getting to know different kinds of people and their cultures. It interests me.

Nina
Loved Nina's post. I'm in the same boat as she is. I've made a slight yet, in my case, vital change to her quote :)

I love women of all races, and thank God for that. I am as shallow as you can get but find that sensuality and chemistry trump race every single time.

Jakey
 

xoxo Amie

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I've NEVER had any problems with asian clients...
always polite and well mannered

white guys.... the odd one can be awkward for many reasons,
demanding
socially out of sync with my values
funny smell
innocent/or not so innocent curiosity about me & my private life becomes always the ones to be the ones who are invasive of the time limits

met some very sweet endearing india men & persian men
maybe the old world values helps with our connection
lovely guys

if i dont click with someone,
well, i jus roll with the punches...
make the most of our fun time together
and i'l decide never to see them again
 

indian_boner

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lol not interested in Asians? i would usually answer with 3 words " go f urself" but since that's not very useful in any possible way! let's just say their demand is still high in this market!:D
The reasons they are in demand is that the asian community is strictly large in metro vancouver due to the greater urban condo-living lifestyle that provides asian girls a haven to the business. Also the price factor and easy mobility within these micros provides pooners with greater convenience.
 

Noob888

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the white washed asian sp's are ok.
the fob's that seem to fill the amp's can be a bit crude , as they are horking up a mouthful and spitting it in the bathtub , and when they say "you pay money now"
but that can be over looked when you put a cock in her mouth and shut her up. spin her around ,smack her ass and cum on her face for 100 ,hmmmm do i like em? yep!
lol. that's funny planetman...and true :D
 
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