Mistress Rains - Question

[spbkbc]

I recently replied to an add from a lady looking for a long term submissive partner as that is something I've always been interested in. She wanted some information about experience and desires in the relationship and photos sent as well.

I wrote a couple paragraphs about myself and said that I wouldn't have a problem sending photos as long as she replied. She got back to me saying that pictures would be a good start and asking me where I live. No other questions or anything.

I'm just wondering if I should stay away from this? Maybe she is just trying to weed out people who are not serious? I'm not sure.

Her email name says Mistress Rains. I'd just like to put this out there in case I have to be careful.

Thanks

 

[sub882]

I recently replied to an add from a lady looking for a long term submissive partner as that is something I've always been interested in. She wanted some information about experience and desires in the relationship and photos sent as well.

I wrote a couple paragraphs about myself and said that I wouldn't have a problem sending photos as long as she replied. She got back to me saying that pictures would be a good start and asking me where I live. No other questions or anything.

I'm just wondering if I should stay away from this? Maybe she is just trying to weed out people who are not serious? I'm not sure.

Her email name says Mistress Rains. I'd just like to put this out there in case I have to be careful.

Thanks

You should supply us with a bit more info:

-how did you connect with her?
-were is she based? ie. what province and/or city?
-where are you based? ie. what province and/or city?

 

[spbkbc]

Oh of course, I would always meet someone in public first.

I was asking more so if it would be wise to continue talking with her. She obviously wants me to send her photos. She seemed very adament about it. I'm not sure if her intent with the photos is malacious or if she just wants to weed out people she is not attracted to.

That is the main reason I asked on here to see if anyone had heard of her.

 

[sub882]

Okay... I have done some research....

She has a profile on Fetlife.

No photos, not much info, seems to be new at the whole things, and advertising that she is looking for the following:

-a lifetime relationship
-a relationship
-a sub

I would say from my intuition that she looks like she is "on the level".

In my experience you have to take some risks with this kind of thing, but you also need to know what your "risk boundaries" are.

I've sent photos to females who I have never met before, but I've also not sent photos to a whole bunch of ads that look suspicious.

Personally, if I was you, I would go for it.

 

[sub2u]

Okay... I have done some research....

She has a profile on Fetlife.

Funny how much of a resource Fetlife can be??

 

[spbkbc]

Thanks for the replies everyone.

 

[uncleg]

If she is local why not arrange to meet her a munch if there is any interest. That way at least you are meeting in the community and it can give you some idea how well she knows the scene.