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I don't go to clubs anymore for that. I find it best one on one. I'm all about trying to make the girl laugh & finding some common ground. I've found meeting people in other places such as while they're working, while on travelling, taking a class, etc. I can only think of twice from a club. Only one of those times was a sure bet. All the other times were in other places...

Just curious...why only "some" gentlemen?
 
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Just ask a guy out on PERB.

You're surrounded by 1800 plus men on a monger site, and you need to ask how to meet men for just a date?

Hey guys, you don't have to pay $200 an hour, does anyone want to meet Stephi for just a date? No obligation, go Dutch.

I'll fix you up with Hamster, but don't fall in love, don't smell like a rabbit, don't mug him, and bring some wart ointment.
 

vicgfelover

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Usually meet new people through friends. I have good friends, so if they see something in that person at least I know they aren't psycho stalker type material. Maybe host a dinner party and ask a few of them to bring their favourite single person? Something simple like byob and you provide the appies?
 

stephi_bryn

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That sounds like a kewl way. I was thinking one day,it must have been kewl in the barbaric days. You know way back when, just have a male come and club you over the head and feed you at his camp.
 

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I just tried a "speed" dating thing, was actually a fun way to kill the night. Not too productive considering I live in Langley and almost everyone there was in Vancouver though. Do a search on Google, there's at least 3 varieties here.
 
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I'm pretty much against getting hooked up by friends. Bad experiences, considering I consider myself fairly open-minded...I get worried about the speed dating thing too.
 

stephi_bryn

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Interesting so far what I have observed is that most long lasting relationships are developed out of the same peer circuit, give or take a little periphery. How do you meet someone outside of that same old circuit? Ya think maybe this is why marriages don't last? It's just not exciting after awhile..... just my own 2 cents...............
 

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Interesting thread

Stephi - have found a pretty good forumula for meeting interesting people - instead of looking where I am comfortable, I go where I get asked out which pushes the comfort zone.

For example, last 1/2 dozen or so "relationships" of any length of time were all situations where I was approached first. Where? Language course. Bike tour of wine country. Whale watching. Museum etc. None remotely resembling the clubs of my youth.

I agree that getting outside your circuit is important to push yourself. Much more interesting too.
 

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That's why you need to have some space for both, and of course, show a little bit of romance to each other is a great way to make it last. My 0.02!




stephi_bryn said:
Interesting so far what I have observed is that most long lasting relationships are developed out of the same peer circuit, give or take a little periphery. How do you meet someone outside of that same old circuit? Ya think maybe this is why marriages don't last? It's just not exciting after awhile..... just my own 2 cents...............
 
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What is the right man, as I seem to meet nothing but attached women? (not just intended for Vancouver Julia)...
 

oberon1999

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Re: Gee thanks but I am in the buis but getting out, no thanks to you

Vancouver Julia said:
I am a woman I just have intel in my geans
Really, a word of advice if you are going to say stuff like that check your spelling :)

oberon
 

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I am currently dating a girl from Lavalife, we have been together for 3 months and I cant get enough of her. Shes not the first too, I must add.

I have met several girls at the Country bars as I like a girl who appreciates Country music, most of the ones I meet at other places dont care too much for Country.

Hmm, reminder to self, time to go back to one, its been months. The Calgary Stampede dont count!
 

HowieMeeker

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Hey Julia - Genetic Pants and Some Advice

If your intelligence is in your geans, what do you have in your jeans or, for that matter, in your genes?

Just curious?

What was that saying, oh yeah "If the hole you are in is getting too deep, stop digging".
 
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bigdman

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Maybe we all should join lavalife and maybe one of us will be the lucky guy that Julia will be dating....hehehehehe

At least one of you guys will get good massages.....etc...........from Julia
 
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No such thing as bad publicity?

Vancouver Julia
"Just looking for the right man, I am sure it is not you........... and do not pick on hamster,"

Vancouver Pulia.

Are you trying to scare someone?

I date fat chicks.
I fight fat chicks.
I eat fat chicks.

P.S. Hamster has legions of lurking fans on this board, but very few well-known members will admit to it - I’m one of them. I even coined the fan term Hamsterite.
 

Massagegirl

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Please don't quote things at the end of the thread when they have just been said 2 seconds ago! It fills up the thread way too fast. Also if you have forgotten to say something you can edit your last post instead of having 3 in a row.

I must say, Julia you win the record for the most posts per thread (9) yet not saying much of substance. And NO neither I nor anyone else are trying to pick a fight with you so please don't respond, the hole IS deep enough!

By the way stephi, I agree through friends, that way you get a reference and you can always go back to that person and say "Who the hell did you set me up with?" There was an article in the TC a few years ago where Thrifty foods was voted the #1 place to meet people, can you imagine? "Hello there cute guy, do you think these melons are firm enough?" But I forget who else made the list, I think Starbucks maybe...
 

stephi_bryn

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Well this was an interesting thread, let's stay on the topic, keep the nitpicking to pms. We were on the topic of dating and meeting people outside of your normal circuit, expanding horizons...
 
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