Sometimes I think I really missed a lot of opportunities. Here I am 55 and I have never pleasured myself on a lactating breast. I have always wondered what the experience is like. Can it be erotic and sexual for the lady to have some guy having that kind of fun or does it just conjur up other thoughts in the ladies mind? Is the breast and nipple much different when a lady is lactating? Are the boobs a lot firmer? Are the nipples puffier? Anyone know a sp that is lactating?