Is there really love after an SP’s career?
Can a long term SP really settle down into a life-long relationship after their ‘careers’?
This was a topic which came up while I was sitting around a bonfire with friends at a lake in southern Massachusetts last week.
My friends, whom I showed this board, and I had a hearty debate about this.
After a career of ‘professional sex’, can an SP really bond with any one man?
And by bond, I mean into a solid relationship (which survives over the long term) wherein their chosen companion is fully aware of their past and in which a meaningful bond is formed bound with the glue of sexual intimacy.
Unfortunately the only ones who can really answer that are the ones that have left escorting and are now in their senior years.
(although I am sure many of the fine women here will take issue in the positive, and I can already hear ‘Adventurer’ typing away at his keyboard).
One of the driving points that came up was that these are women who have spent countless years in sexual ‘scenes’ with man after man, men with whom they often have had little desire to know longer than the allotted hour.
Sex is reduced to theatre, those ‘scenes’ really one-act plays.
Can any man ever set aside that they are involved with a woman who specialized in selling dreams?
I mean, these are women who have probably mastered the art of fulfilling those wildest dreams and most enigmatic wants.
Some SP’s even consider that they are not far from playing the role of psychotherapist, enabling men to fulfill themselves.
But after years of ‘playing a role’, can you ever really know the woman behind the mask?
And can you ever know for sure if the role hasn’t continued… and you are just a passing actor in the ongoing play?
More importantly... does that seed of doubt create problems which one day tear the relationship apart?
We had a fascinating debate and I promised to put it to this group.
Care to comment?
Can a long term SP really settle down into a life-long relationship after their ‘careers’?
This was a topic which came up while I was sitting around a bonfire with friends at a lake in southern Massachusetts last week.
My friends, whom I showed this board, and I had a hearty debate about this.
After a career of ‘professional sex’, can an SP really bond with any one man?
And by bond, I mean into a solid relationship (which survives over the long term) wherein their chosen companion is fully aware of their past and in which a meaningful bond is formed bound with the glue of sexual intimacy.
Unfortunately the only ones who can really answer that are the ones that have left escorting and are now in their senior years.
(although I am sure many of the fine women here will take issue in the positive, and I can already hear ‘Adventurer’ typing away at his keyboard).
One of the driving points that came up was that these are women who have spent countless years in sexual ‘scenes’ with man after man, men with whom they often have had little desire to know longer than the allotted hour.
Sex is reduced to theatre, those ‘scenes’ really one-act plays.
Can any man ever set aside that they are involved with a woman who specialized in selling dreams?
I mean, these are women who have probably mastered the art of fulfilling those wildest dreams and most enigmatic wants.
Some SP’s even consider that they are not far from playing the role of psychotherapist, enabling men to fulfill themselves.
But after years of ‘playing a role’, can you ever really know the woman behind the mask?
And can you ever know for sure if the role hasn’t continued… and you are just a passing actor in the ongoing play?
More importantly... does that seed of doubt create problems which one day tear the relationship apart?
We had a fascinating debate and I promised to put it to this group.
Care to comment?