Is money and cost your biggest concern in this hobby?
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Absolutely. Unfortunately. But it also makes me research harder and think more carefully about what I am looking for. Limited opportunity = thinking more about quality and what is most important to me.
I came back to it after a long time this year, and I decided I'm only going to try ladies who genuinely love what they do, are open to the type of encounter I want, and I would repeat if we had a great dynamic.
I came back to it after a long time this year, and I decided I'm only going to try ladies who genuinely love what they do, are open to the type of encounter I want, and I would repeat if we had a great dynamic.
Money is definitely not a concern for me. I'm very young. The quality of service from the girls my age in this industry have been "too good" to the point where reality and future is questioned... I'll create a separate thread if anyone is interested.
Your post makes little sense. You're very young, how would money not be a concern for you unless you made an app and sold it for a bunch or you're pooning with your parents money.
How young are you? And what quality of service are we talking here. Also share some intel on these "girls your age"
I wouldn't go so far as to suggest his post didn't make sense, but it definitely implies that he has money from somewhere, eg. parents or sold an app. It comes across as being written odd because he couples his statement that cost most definitely isn't an issue for him with the statement that he is very young, which suggests that somehow the two are related, which obviously they are not.
In any event, I do not have endless financial resources, and it is certainly the biggest concern for me, or else I'd probably visit escorts (plural) daily. I imagine I'd be something akin to Tyrion Lannister, except less witty, less suave, less cool, and a bit taller.
BTW op do you differentiate between money and cost, or was that just poorly worded also? Not trolling, serious question
Money is ABSOLUTELY my biggest concern. My dream is to be wintersurfer, be able to afford to poon everyday with multi-hour appointments. That's the life.
This hobby actually motivates me to work harder in my career to make more $$$!
This hobby actually motivates me to work harder in my career to make more $$$!
I had to re-read the question a few times...
While money/cost/price matters (a lot), I think the biggest concern (for me anyway) is what kind of experience I have in this hobby.
When I was a bit younger, I was known for a serial pooner where I would visit SPs a few times a week (up to 5 at some point). If I liked a SP, I would go see her almost every time she was available. I did make good $ earlier than most of people, but I also didn't have a lot of responsibilities (family to support, etc) back then.
Just last the past week, when I don't have a lot going on with my schedule and if I don't get satisfaction from visiting a SP I get into a serial mode of hoping from a shop to shop.
As I get older, it is less about MSOG or CIM.
it''s about quality time I get to spend with someone I enjoy.
Hard to put into words ... other than 'how I feel when I walk out that door after my session'
While money/cost/price matters (a lot), I think the biggest concern (for me anyway) is what kind of experience I have in this hobby.
When I was a bit younger, I was known for a serial pooner where I would visit SPs a few times a week (up to 5 at some point). If I liked a SP, I would go see her almost every time she was available. I did make good $ earlier than most of people, but I also didn't have a lot of responsibilities (family to support, etc) back then.
Just last the past week, when I don't have a lot going on with my schedule and if I don't get satisfaction from visiting a SP I get into a serial mode of hoping from a shop to shop.
As I get older, it is less about MSOG or CIM.
it''s about quality time I get to spend with someone I enjoy.
Hard to put into words ... other than 'how I feel when I walk out that door after my session'
^+1.... but the money; not the cost, but having the money is a very close second. :/
I am curious about where your going with
the post in ref to Reality and Future is
questioned. So def start another thread
if you feel the need. No judgement from
me but i will forewarn you. There is often
people on these boards that make a lot of
silly assumptions or try to read between
the lines and look for something thats not
there. Just check my posting history and look
for a thread i started. It got wayyyy blown
out of proportion to the point of ridiculous.
Good on you for wanting to get into windsurfing. I recently retired a lot younger
than most. Im an avid hiker so hike, climb everyday and planning some trips with ATF.
not being a rich person,
I would have to say yes.
but the decision comes down to quality of life.
I stand around with a bunch of guys over lunch and bs,
and you know guys it comes to sex.
one fucking bastard in particular likes to needle guys, demean them when it comes to their sex or lack of he is merciless
when he knows he can get under your skin.
he just looked at me and started in, I just laughed at him because I had a beautiful weekend with my sp,
what it does to your self confidence seeing sp;s is amazing,
as opposed to being horny and doing with out.
and it is a choice I made, I work overtime every day, I do with out a car,
I actually have a pretty simple life, except for my sp.
it is funny there are cars and trucks pushing 100 k in the parking lot and those guys either complain about being broke all the time or brag about the money they have,
I kind of just smile and laugh and think about my sp
we all spend money, in a lot of cases too fucking much,
it is a choice on what we spend it on.
its funny but the older you get the more money you have, if you keep working that is
it is true what warren buffet said, you want more money keep working
I could retire but im still going, still working ot,
never had so much money in my life,
something to look forward to, find a job you enjoy more or less and you can work at forever, and eventually you will be rich
I would have to say yes.
but the decision comes down to quality of life.
I stand around with a bunch of guys over lunch and bs,
and you know guys it comes to sex.
one fucking bastard in particular likes to needle guys, demean them when it comes to their sex or lack of he is merciless
when he knows he can get under your skin.
he just looked at me and started in, I just laughed at him because I had a beautiful weekend with my sp,
what it does to your self confidence seeing sp;s is amazing,
as opposed to being horny and doing with out.
and it is a choice I made, I work overtime every day, I do with out a car,
I actually have a pretty simple life, except for my sp.
it is funny there are cars and trucks pushing 100 k in the parking lot and those guys either complain about being broke all the time or brag about the money they have,
I kind of just smile and laugh and think about my sp
we all spend money, in a lot of cases too fucking much,
it is a choice on what we spend it on.
its funny but the older you get the more money you have, if you keep working that is
it is true what warren buffet said, you want more money keep working
I could retire but im still going, still working ot,
never had so much money in my life,
something to look forward to, find a job you enjoy more or less and you can work at forever, and eventually you will be rich
I still have various experiences I want to try out but yeah, as I get each thing ticked off (and often discover it's not as arousing in real life as it was in my head or when I see it in adult movies), it's more about the quality of the companionship.
I've more or less got out of my system the want to see a "perfect 10" in looks. When I came back to seeing escorts this year after a long hiatus, I decided I'd be more choosy but also build a relationship (by repeating) with those who had a really good dynamic with me.
This. Yup. People sometimes try to make you feel bad about paying for sex saying it's not a real relationship. Sure it's not but it beats getting rejected by girls who are often too bitchy or stuck up or have too high an opinion of themselves. Or going on endless dates that go nowhere. Or being someone else's wallet. At least escorts are up front about you paying for their company and that's a sort of real honesty.
Now no one I see makes me want to get their number. Looking back, almost everyone I had the hots for... after a while watching their behavior, I always feel like, "thank God I didn't get involved with them -- totally dodged a bullet".
With escorts, we know just enough about each other to like each other, and (here's me being maybe idealistically hopeful) enjoy each other in non-judgmental intimacy.
My new goal is for the escort I see to get wet thinking of the wonderful time we had.
Maybe those are leased. LOL
I read this a few times and still have no idea what you are trying to say.
For me it is often hard to justify the expense considering the return. I am not looking for companionship or a nice chat while sipping a Cab Sav before a lengthy foreplay session where I spend 45 min of a 2hr session on DATY.
If the session was mind blowing that would be different but the best times I have had are with non working women. It is the biggest misconception imo that SPs are better in the sack...and I have been with some very highly reviewed women. There is absolutely no comparison with my on and off FWB to my best experience in the industry...and she is an early 30s married mom whose marriage is pretty much sexless and her husband probably thinks she is a frigid prude who is not interested in sex.
Bottom line is that it sucks to pay for lesser experiences than the ones I have for free
most i assume are living a bit of "la vida fantasia". more money more bookings, more bookings more options, more options more deeper into it, more deeper more fantasy vs reality. it's pay for sex, not this is my new hot loving adoring woman i met and want to take home to friends and family grow old with one day significant other. if it is costing too much past the pay for sex fun it is, then your idea of reality is more fantasy than reality. enjoy your "sexo temporado"
