I visited Lilith for the first time last weekend (first time to a MP in quite a long time). I found Lilith to be very outgoing and we kept up a good conversation throughout the session. Just went for a basic as it was the first time with her and a good time was had by all. Those peircings are fun to play with if you are into that!
She was fine with a relatively slow start as we were new to each other. She mentioned that she prefers this....so the fiery part may not come out the first time round. But by the looks of the extra "gear" in her rolling luggage bag...I have no doubt about the fiery being in there waiting to come out!