I agree with this, if you like sports like Tennis networking to find hitting partners with is priceless. You know how many people bullshit when they say they want to get good at something that takes actually getting out of the house to do?
How to get out of "friendzone"?
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I blame it on the testosterone. They cannot help themselves. Other woman get mad at me for saying that, but's it is true.
http://www.laddertheory.com/laddervideos.htm
Hilarious - every woman says yes - men and women can be "just friends" and every guy says - no way.
Then when the interviewer explores further; every woman admits that their male friends would sleep with them if given the chance.
Women, so cute - yet so much denial.
Hilarious - every woman says yes - men and women can be "just friends" and every guy says - no way.
Then when the interviewer explores further; every woman admits that their male friends would sleep with them if given the chance.
Women, so cute - yet so much denial.
Simple, stop replying to her texts and phone calls for awhile, if she texts or whatever regularly that is. Pretty soon you'll get the "are you ok?" or "what's wrong" texts/calls, and thats when you tell her straight up that you're interested in more than friends, and if she isn't, then walk away because those feelings will never go away for you. I've been there and done that.
Wow, these sorts of questions seem to induce a quaint sense of deja vu about the poster......
Once in the "friend" zone you are unlikely to get out, and moving on makes the most sense. To avoid being placed in the friend zone, it is usually best to start to being clear in your intent when you are interested in someone.
The only likelihood of moving out of the friend zone seems to involve changing the woman's perception of you by subsequently having her noticing you being around and hooking up lots of other women. This event is should be considered a fortuitous byproduct of the primary objective-which is meeting and possibly hooking up with as many women as possible. The underlying theme is "if at first you do not succeed with a woman, move on to the next."
As a side comment, the ladder theory is amusing but seriously flawed.
Once in the "friend" zone you are unlikely to get out, and moving on makes the most sense. To avoid being placed in the friend zone, it is usually best to start to being clear in your intent when you are interested in someone.
The only likelihood of moving out of the friend zone seems to involve changing the woman's perception of you by subsequently having her noticing you being around and hooking up lots of other women. This event is should be considered a fortuitous byproduct of the primary objective-which is meeting and possibly hooking up with as many women as possible. The underlying theme is "if at first you do not succeed with a woman, move on to the next."
As a side comment, the ladder theory is amusing but seriously flawed.
Be friendly but don't make her a priority. Go out looking for someone who is not looking for a friend.
If you try too hard the female's natural response is to push you away. Play harder to get and only look to her if you are in need of a friend to hang out with or take to a party etc.
If you try too hard the female's natural response is to push you away. Play harder to get and only look to her if you are in need of a friend to hang out with or take to a party etc.
In my/our situation, I am always encouraging my 'friend' to go out there and meet someone. I've even introduced him to some of my girlfriends. Sometimes I think people are just lonely, and they need a friendly response in a text or a call. So I still think that honesty is the best policy here. If you both know what time it is, then you can both make informed choices about what your relationship is going to be like.
(speak of the devil, he just sent me a hello text!)
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westcoast555
Very hard to do... almost impossible. The only way is to be totally chilled and exhibit no desire so that one day she will look at you and think "maybe he'd do in a pinch for a no strings backup fuck"
Of course, the kind of guy that's trying so hard to get out of the Friend Zone can't be that chilled. And the guy that can be that chilled isn't worried about being stuck in the Friend Zone.
Ironic...I just read a woman's post in another forum asking "Can a man and a woman just be friends and hang out or will there ultimately be expectations? What do you think?"
Most of the women are saying "no, no, not possible, in your dreams.." Most of the men are saying "sure, absolutely, why not?"
the reality is that in certain cases friends, who have known each other a long time, may actually come to love each other and commit to a relationship (that includes sex)...
Most of the time it's called "settling" because they are old enough to figure out nothing else is gonna come along, and hey! they actually get along.
But, you probably don't wanna wait that long to have sex
Most of the women are saying "no, no, not possible, in your dreams.." Most of the men are saying "sure, absolutely, why not?"
the reality is that in certain cases friends, who have known each other a long time, may actually come to love each other and commit to a relationship (that includes sex)...
Most of the time it's called "settling" because they are old enough to figure out nothing else is gonna come along, and hey! they actually get along.
But, you probably don't wanna wait that long to have sex
I don't think this is possible. Anytime I have had male "friends" in the past, it has eventually come out that they had feelings for me, and then it got awkward knowing this and knowing that I didn't and never would have feelings for them. And now we aren't friends. I don't believe that men and women can truly be friends (unless the man is gay) because I think it's like When Harry Met Sally, and the sex part always gets in the way. Even if the women don't think their male friends want them, they either do or they would if the opportunity arose. Can you honestly say you count these women as friends if you have ulterior motives? I think this guy sums it up pretty well: http://youtu.be/5rZu-tBi7DM
Nice one...thanks! I like the way this guy expresses himself; I could listen to him for hours...oops I just did!
I think you make it clear at first sight there is no such thing as friend zone in your books.
Unless it is like your best friends wife or some such thing.
Guys have guy friends, we don't really hang out with girls just for the hell of it, Especially if your single and looking,
Unless it is like your best friends wife or some such thing.
Guys have guy friends, we don't really hang out with girls just for the hell of it, Especially if your single and looking,
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westcoast555
The only time I think it works... is if the guy has already had sex with the woman. You may end up as friends after that and even if you'd like to get back in her pants, it's not a big deal because you've at least been with her. But it you've never been with her? No way...
I totally agree with that, its the only way it could work for me. Id have to do her at least once just so I can get my mind off it. Ive had female friends that I didn't want a relationship with but I've wanted to fuck every single one of them. According to this thread I guess I'm normal, thats a relief.
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How would you even know?
How would you even know?
This is a big subject and I was not in the mood to write a full essay on it but can give you a few thoughts.
First off, when women "decide" whether a man is a romantic option or not, this is not really a decision or a rational choice, it is more a function of chemistry and genetics. After the fact there is a lot of rationalization about the "choice", but you do not get to pick who you are attracted to-it tends to develop organically.
Secondly, it implies that a woman's primary drive in terms of a romantic partnership is financial (i.e. rich guy), and the exceptions that want the outlaw biker are doing it because they cannot find anyone rich, and they are psychologically damaged.....
I could not be more misogynistic if I tried......
Basically, the subject is pretty broad canvas, and the ladder theory notices a few of the behavior patterns and presents them as core and universal motivations.
Exactly.
The thing is he's just desperately wanting anyone. His question wasn't about a girl but 4 or 5 he says have him in the friend zone. There's never going to be anything 'cool' about a guy who has nothing else on his mind whenever he meets a girl. Women smell desperation from a mile away. That's not something you can fake either. There will never be anything attractive about that mentality so that's what's got to go before following any other advice.
