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How Many of you Guys Negotiate

Jonesy

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A request first that SPs do not post to this thread. I know you will all say that your prices are non-negotaible. If you start posting some of us will post who we have negotiated with and that includes tons who have "non-negotiable" on web etc.

How many of you guys negotiate? I have found that almost every SP will negotiate price or time. This is particularly true if you get them at an odd time or when they are not busy or had a cancellation or I guess a lot of other reasons. I know some of you will call me a cheap bastard but I figure I have saved an average of 10 to 15 percent over my pooning career and that adds up to a significant amount of dollars. My best all time negotiation was with someone who is quite prominent on these boards and I got twice as long at two hours at half the hourly price so essentially 75% off.

Just curious how many of you do this?
 

BOBST

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I agree with Tom for once!!! I pay what is asked or I will move on I do not negotiate!!!!! The Ladies set the price and "we" by our attitude set the experience!
 

Jonesy

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tom25 said:
I pay what's asked!!!

Tom
Can you please give me your number. I have a car and some furniture I want to sell. Plus, I am a killer carpenter and I know you need a reno. Just give me the details and don't worry about the price as I know you'll pay me whatever I ask.

Tom, I am looking forward to doing business with you! :D :D
 

tom25

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Jonesy said:
Can you please give me your number. I have a car and some furniture I want to sell. Plus, I am a killer carpenter and I know you need a reno. Just give me the details and don't worry about the price as I know you'll pay me whatever I ask.

Tom, I am looking forward to doing business with you! :D :D

That's funny ... you going to vegas with that Act!!! :p

You asked the question ... so why be so sarcastic when you get an answer!!!

Tom
 

Jonesy

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tom25 said:
That's funny ... you going to vegas with that Act!!! :p

You asked the question ... so why be a sarcastic prick when you get an answer!!!

Tom
I wasn't being anything Tom. I asked and you said you pay what's asked. I figure if you will pay a SP anything, you would do same for other things.

I am neither sarcastic or a prick. I think you are probably a nice guy. I guess you would rather post something mean than take it in the spirit intended.

Have a nice Sunday Tom. Watch out for pricks. :eek:
 

tom25

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Jonesy said:
I wasn't being anything Tom. I asked and you said you pay what's asked. I figure if you will pay a SP anything, you would do same for other things.

I am neither sarcastic or a prick. I think you are probably a nice guy. I guess you would rather post something mean than take it in the spirit intended.

Have a nice Sunday Tom. Watch out for pricks. :eek:

I edited the "prick" comment out ...

Have a good Sunday too ...
 

BOBST

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Jonesy said:
Can you please give me your number. I have a car and some furniture I want to sell. Plus, I am a killer carpenter and I know you need a reno. Just give me the details and don't worry about the price as I know you'll pay me whatever I ask.

Tom, I am looking forward to doing business with you! :D :D
You did ask the question and you did get two serious answer's!!!!
What bother's you about the reponses!!

Yes I see lot's of Ladies, and I never argue about price and from what I can gather Tom does not either.

On such a personal level as this business is I hardly think a comparison to carpentry is appropriate.

I could count my number of bad sessions on three fingers and I like to think that it is because I treat my lady friends as real friends, not comodities! or notches in my belt!!!!

You might be suprised one day to find out that it is not all about money!!!
 

eljudo

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Well, I have to say it. I do negotiate!

Why?

Not trying to be disrespectful to the ladies, or trying to be a cheap ass bastard.. However, whenever I have the urge to poon I do not get Full service and I always mention this fact to the potential SP i want to see. Even although I am the one requesting for just a cbj and not full service, I believe the cost of the date should match the level of service being asked by the client , pooner, pervert, john , whateva.

I am willing to risk it as far as a cbj, thats just my personal limitation. Hence, if I dish out 300 bucks or whatever for FS but actually not getting it.. is like paying 40 bucks at the KEG for a nice juicey steak dinner but just chowing down the rice and the glass of watered down coke. I know some sp mention that you are paying for their time and the such. However, how many of you actually pay 300 boners to go for a chit chat? Not me thats for sure.

Some SP will not negotiate at all, and thats their right. I fully accept that and do not press on trying to get a deal. I just hang up the pay phone ( ya i dont use cell phone! too cheap! Ironic isnt? ) polish my rocket until it shines in its full glory and head back to the bank to deposit the 100 boners...

 
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tom25

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I agree completely with that ... if what you're talking about in terms of negotiation is making sure what services are going to be provided for the money -- and negotiating the price down if FS isn't on offer -- then that makes sense.

I only see independents and its clear what's on offer right from the beginning. So i don't worry about negotiating price. I can make a judgement right off whether the price is what I'm willing to pay for the expected service If the menu items aren't there at the end of the day, I won't go back.

Tom
 
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Jonesy said:
I know some of you will call me a cheap bastard
You're a cheap bastard
 

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David in Van

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Negotiation

If you have every been to an MP and not negotiated, you are very likely paying to much.

If someone has a website etc and has a price, I make sure that they are worth the price before I go to them and just to make sure, I am not afraid to cut my losses (only time) if I don't like what I see (or feel) when I arrive.

However, that said, my decision on whether to go back will be based on the session and a clock watcher will almost always be disqualified (I usually pay for one hour but stay for an hour and a half if permitted). I won't complain, in fact I will be polite and thankfull for the time, I just won't go back.

That, I suppose, is a kind of negotiation.
 

yogi

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I negotiate by checking out reviews/prices, & going to an SP who sounds as if she's worth it. Then I pay her asking price.

On the other hand, if reviews/web photos aren't to my taste & she seems to not be worth her fee, I don't bother calling her in the 1st place.

So that, in a way, is a manner of negotation.

I believe that if I were to chisel down an SP on $, my service would be less than her best.

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A guy takes a dream trip to Bangkok. He meets an SP, asks her how much, she says $300 US. He says "Omigod! I don't have that kind of of money! C'mon, give a guy a break. I've dreamt of coming to Thailand all my life, I'm here in paradise spending all I have just to get here...how about it?"
She says "All right all right already, I'll do it for $150...but I have to tell you: I'm not making any money on this deal!"
 
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Lolita

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Jonesy

With a thread like this, you can't escape being called a cheap bastard.

Anyways, anybody who feels they should negotiate when it come to ass, should really reconsider the activity. After negotiating with an SP, you are for sure going to get a less than stellar performance from her, and with your board background you will in no doubt, write a poor review.

If you can't really afford it, move on to the rubber blow-up variety that will provide you with sexual entertainment that's pretty much paid for itself the first time you use it. What's even better, is that with the doll you'll never have any complaints about how your gut smothers her face when you climb aboard for a BJ. And cleanup is a breeze!
 

El Tigre

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My point of view.....

I would never negotiate...
If I'm attracted to a girl, I'll do my research,which includes the donation, and if I want to jump in, then I'll go have fun, be a gentleman, and not give a thought to cost. Having said that, however, I really think that this market is quite over-priced for what we generally are receiving. Yes, the girls are entitled to ask whatever they want, and more power to them.
As an old-timer who still enjoys playing with the ladies, but is no longer obsessed.....I used to be...big time, I would love to see the guys be a little more demanding as far as service and competitive pricing is concerned. As long as we follow our little head blindly, the balance of power will be with the ladies.....shouldn't it be a little more give and take ? I guess that I kinda hijacked this thread, and went off on a tangent...but I've been looking for an excuse to bring this up..... ;)
 

BIGblackstudd

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I've never negotiated, but I've got no problem with someone who does either. I'll haggle over the price of a truck, boat, snowmachine, or home renovations, but not a woman. Just not my style.
 

Massagegirl

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Jonesy, I think it's ok to try to negotiate over the phone, thereby taking advantage of someone who could be needy at that point and time, but showing up and negotiating is not only cheap, it's manipulative and rude. I hope that's not what you do, but if so prepare to be unpolitely shown the door, or receive half assed service for your half assed payment.

Btw, people expect to negotiate when selling their car/boat/house so they usually start with a higher asking price, just so they can negotiate and end up close to their expectation.
 

therealrex

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I have negotiated in the past but I have never had a great session with someone I've negotiated with. It just seems to piss them off before you've even started and things never seem to go well from there. I always try and get the price in full ahead of time and I don't pay until I'm sure there won't be any extra costs and if there is I walk.