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How do you not fall in love with an SP?

Poseidon

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Ok, there are a lot threads regarding falling in love with an SP, becoming emotionally attached and romantic with your ATF. A lot of you pooners have fell in love with an SP. Some of these relationships have become successful but most have not lasted.

It's not a relationship to be proud of. You certainly wouldn't be bringing an sp home to show mom or dad. So how do you avoid falling in love with an SP that gives such believable GFE experiences? And a question to the Sps, where do you draw the line when you offer a GFE session and how do you keep pooners in "reality check," that you are not in love with them.
 

spaceghost

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Poseidon said:
It's not a relationship to be proud of. You certainly wouldn't be bringing an sp home to show mom or dad.
Speak for yourself Poseidon... I would have no problem bringing Saffire, Victoria-Lee and a few of the others home to meet Mom or Dad.

Poseidon said:
So how do you avoid falling in love with an SP that gives such believable GFE experiences?
When you feel yourself falling into this trap WaterGod, call up Saffire and have her remind you that Victoria-Lee is doing what you pay her to do. She's doing her job, and apparently she's doing it very well.

Saffire can be your reality-check. I would do it, but I already know you wouldn't listen to me.
 

Poseidon

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Spaceghost wrote:
Speak for yourself Poseidon... I would have no problem bringing Saffire, Victoria-Lee and a few of the others home to meet Mom or Dad.
Why do i get the feeling that you've already done this?

Spaceghost wrote:
Saffire can be your reality-check. I would do it, but I already know you wouldn't listen to me.
What makes you think this, do you know something about Saffire that I don't?

PS. I always listen to the taunting whispers of the Spaceghost
 

spaceghost

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Saffire is the one who wrote in another thread that an SP is doing what you pay her to do. She's doing her job, and apparently she's doing it very well.

She is a smart cookie.

PS... 'taunting whispers'?... Hey, I like that one.
 

Poseidon

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Vancouveman wrote:
I will concur with spaceghost, first ... I have no problems introducing ANY of the SPs that I would fall in love with, to any of my friends, and family.
I know escorts can look like normal people. But if your family and friends somehow found out what she does for a living, I think it would be harder to maintain that relationship. It will also force you to choose between being with your family and friends or the SP, if she is not accepted.
 

Poseidon

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VM,

No I am not in love with VL....I think I am more in Lust with her but thanks for the advice.
 

regal1947

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This is a world of fantasy where you get to be anyone you want for the right price. Personally I fall in love with every SP I like to be with (for the hour). That’s my fantasy. If I ever lose sight of that I move on.

I know a few retired ladies at a very personal level and they can be no different than anyone else (no horns or pointy ears) . Perhaps a little more cynical, you know like cops! However, chosen vocation is not usually the family dinner topic. If you do want to get personal do it for the right reason. IMHO! Frankly the ones I know live regular lives married kids etc...some people know about their history and others do not.
 

hitrack

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been there done that, and no thank you to allowing it to happen again. When it comes to real GF's if you will be so kind as to point me to the chicks who I don't have to spend a months sallary on getting to know first.

Seriously dating a SP is a recipe for disaster. To those who have made it work more power to ya.
 

HAMMER

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Hey Pose, How do you not fall in love with an sp? --Go out with an ugly one-- if you want to be sure you won't. If you go out with a beautiful one you have to take that chance.
 

Retired

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but who wants to pay money everytime they want to shoot their load? sure the initial cost is expensive(wedding, house, kids, etc, etc,) but it's more real than the hour you pay for. who wants to always wear a rubber when having sex?
 

Poseidon

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Hammer wrote:
Hey Pose, How do you not fall in love with an sp? --Go out with an ugly one-- if you want to be sure you won't. If you go out with a beautiful one you have to take that chance.
LOL....who do you suggest?

L2L wrote:
Pos... here's another tip for you... tip 100% on top of the fee every visit.... you won't fall in love.... I could explain it to you, but you'll figure it out.... I think it's a lesson best learned by experience....
Tip 100%!!!!...This is a sure way to retire quickly from this hobby. I don't want to retire just yet, nor do I want to fall for an SP.
 

Poseidon

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Hi Alexandria,

Of course all sps are worthy of love from anybody. If you read further down the thread, I stated that family and friends implicate a relationship with an SP especially if they don't accept the SP for who they are and what they are about. It forces the person dating the SP to choose between her or his family. If it weren't for social boundaries and I had my way, I would actually consider dating an SP if I fell in love with her, hypothetically speaking that is.
 

hitrack

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vancouverman said:
but if will be really difficult to find a real GF's experience spending $20 on the track
This is mostly why I just spend a green or two. In the begining I was the two brown guy too, well back then it was more like a buck 80. Problem was, I was to lazy to play the field. Found a friendly nice SP and took her out to much for my own good.

You might say outta the girls I did see I OD'd on 3 of them and eventualy they crossed the line from business to pleasure and became GF's. To make a long story short the relationships crashed and burned, and I said 3 strikes I'm out. Keep the SP's for what they are made for. A wam-bam-thank-ya-mam encounter. Whether it's the back alley, or a penthouse, 10min, or an hour this is not how you create a relationship.
 

Storm

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Some people need a reality check because...

paying for it is pretty much a reality check to me to not fall in love.

Another thing are you really in love with her? I mean the real her? SP's are selling a fantasy and the good ones never show you their bad side. They reveal to you what they think you want to see and that's what they're paid to do. You'll never know the true her unless you became a fly on the wall so to speak. So you have to honestly ask 'are you in love with her or the fantasy she's selling...?'

Ignorance is bliss I suppose. :rolleyes:
 

spaceghost

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Re: Some people need a reality check because...

Storm said:
Another thing are you really in love with her? I mean the real her? SP's are selling a fantasy and the good ones never show you their bad side.
:eek: You mean Saffire, Gina, Victoria-Lee, Avarice, Julia, Meaghan, et al.... you mean they have a bad side? :eek:
 

iamkennie

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Its very easy my friend

Easy! If you are really falling for an SP and if the experience is a damn good job of being a GFE. PSE or whatever you fancy... just ask her to stay for another hour after the session and tell you you dont ahve money to pay for the extra hour.. that will bring ya back to reality.. hahaha INSTANTLY I gurantee you..
 

Storm

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haha good one SG,

but I know you know what I mean. ;)

I'm sure the ones you mentioned people pay for the 'good' bad side, although with recent events I guess it wouldn't be too much of a surprise to me some people would pay to be treated like shit. I have seen stranger things. :D

Originally posted by spaceghost
:eek: You mean Saffire, Gina, Victoria-Lee, Avarice, Julia, Meaghan, et al.... you mean they have a bad side? :eek:
 
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