Hi ya Maxx, no I won't raz you about drinkin bud, my promise, I already
did that !
Hey, anyway I'm not sure if you're talking about your gf
or an SP, but whatever I take it you mean your GF as you say she just
wants to cuddle up afterwards and go to sleep. If it is your GF, then I
don't really see a problem if you love her to the point that you being
satisfied sexually can happen at another time. I find that when I satisfy
my fav girl it's like you say, it's all about her I couldn't care less about
me being satisfied as just pleasing her (to me) is such a turn on and I
love being able to do the same to her (DATY) in my books there is nothing
more satisfying than watching her movements its such a rush and I love it
better than having an orgasm myself.
Maybe I sound like a nutcase to some of you guys but I'm gonna ask you
to listen up as well.
The shear pleasure of going down on a woman
that you love to be with to me is the total reward because when you
adore someone, you care about her, it's not about me, it's all about her
and making her happy. Because?........I want too.
When I go down on her it's to completion and she loves it to no end as I watch her body movements and smell her delicious aroma she moves in unison to the key spots you hit when you hit those oh so sensitive spots especially. God I love that !!
Watching her lay there in the throws of passion as she runs her fingers
through your hair and pushes her pussy up ever so gently accepting
totally the pleasure you are giving her. She coos and moves her arms
to feel your passion with her hands, yours fingers entwined
taking small breaks to kiss and lick her inner thighs and move back up
feeling the soft skin of her belly and back to her sweet honey pot
to get her to that pinnacle of no return. At that point her arms are in the
air she is totally lost in the moment, then her back arches and her hands
come gently down on your face and you feel her quiver, her body temp
rising and the final O of ecstasy !!
Are you getting horny yet?
Well after my session tonite I write this to answer your question Maxx
as it's fresh in my mind........But first.,
(Too my sweety, Yah I love you dearly babe !)
Ahhhhhhhh, sweet bliss !
Now seriously,
I understand that you want to pleasure the girl and don't mind cuddling
and falling asleep beside her but instead of going down on her first,
(try to resist the temptation, I know it's difficult
), go for FS first and after you are done then proceed to pleasure your sweety Maxx and finish
her off in grand style. It's just a matter of what you choose to do
during your session as from what you said the girl you see likes to pass out after being given oral on her.
One other thing and I know this doesn't count for everyone but after a
couple of times or so of pleasuring her the next encounter has and been
all about myself being pleasured and with great vigour by her as well.
It does make sense to not be selfish ( I'm not saying that you are Maxx)
in the love making process as what goes around comes around and in this case when it comes around it can be more glorious than you can imagine !!
Yes, good Karma has its way of coming around as well, it's the yin and
yang of good and bad Karma. Part of the true balance to all things.
Love making from my point of view is not a random selfish act but an
act of making the one you care about the center of attention and
eventually that attention comes around full circle especially when the one
you are with knows you respect and care for her deeply.
That is my experience with this fav girl of mine and hope it has given
you some insight on what to do.
Best of luck dude, don't worry it will happen as I'm sure your sweety
knows that you adore her very much. Mine does !!
............QM'r