Thanks everyone for replying/voting, the results are pretty much as I expected.
L2L, lol, I already know as much if not more than the ladies here as I've been offering massage/bodyslide with HJ ONLY for 8 years already. Plus none of them have a penis to give me the straight facts. If I want to know how a woman likes it I will definately ask. Hmmm maybe my next poll.
I really want feedback from the fellows since every man has different preferences. It's the quiet ones who don't speak up and say "ok for the finish go hard and fast" that I want to figure out. Some who do speak out want it very light, which the poll is leaning towards. Very informative! Time will tell me more! I have been thinking lately that a form with the questions above, would be handy to hand out at the beginning of the session, but might ruin the mood and/or seem too clinical? Opinions please!
Wow 108 votes, yet you guys like everything! It's not giving the most specific answers I'd hoped for but then my previous assertation was that everyone is sooo different it's hard to generalize.
I guess I'll have to keep going by body language and verbal hints. So to you quiet ones out there, time to make some noise!!!!! I find it so much easier when people gasp "yes keep doing that, now harder, et cetera". Nothing wrong with giving directions, especially if the girl is off base in what she is doing. After all it's for you're own benefit!!!
And yes I recently learned to keep stroking albeit slower as you are cuming, and not to stop til the orgasm passes. Good hints everyone!
I agree Massagegirl that you quiet ones need to make some noise! I doubt there are many girls who would be offended and I'm sure most of us are thankful for it as you are all unique! And all we (personally speaking) want is for you to be satisfied as well as us to be personally experienced (for YOUR benefit!).
I think the sexually egotistical woman who has a leg to stand on must be the best of lovers.