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Help! Pooning etiquette

skirtchaser

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Hi, I am new to this hobby. So, it goes without saying that I am gonna unknowingly break a few business etiquette rules. Anyways, my problem is that I called Daryl from the Georgia Straight and ask her the details of her service. More specificaly, if she offers bbbj. I was told that it was rude of me to ask her of that and then, she told me to "go fuck myself". Was it really wrong of me to ask her if she offered bbbj? Was it taboo? Did it warrant such a rude send off from her? Seeing that I am a newbie and I do not know better, I am going to withhold judgement on her. However, being told to fuck off when I asked a sincere question is bad business practice. She is in the sex industry after all. Any comments from my upperclassmen and other sp (especially sp's. I'd like to see it from your perspective) will be greatly appreciated. Someone save me from myself before I stumble into more situations like this.
 

maverick73

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skirtchaser said:
Hi, I am new to this hobby. So, it goes without saying that I am gonna unknowingly break a few business etiquette rules. Anyways, my problem is that I called Daryl from the Georgia Straight and ask her the details of her service. More specificaly, if she offers bbbj. I was told that it was rude of me to ask her of that and then, she told me to "go fuck myself". Was it really wrong of me to ask her if she offered bbbj? Was it taboo? Did it warrant such a rude send off from her? Seeing that I am a newbie and I do not know better, I am going to withhold judgement on her. However, being told to fuck off when I asked a sincere question is bad business practice. She is in the sex industry after all. Any comments from my upperclassmen and other sp (especially sp's. I'd like to see it from your perspective) will be greatly appreciated. Someone save me from myself before I stumble into more situations like this.
Did you use code words or the actual words? If you used the actual words, depending on how you said it, it could have come across the wrong way.
 

Yman

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You have to wonder about the calibre of the women if she told you to go f--k yourself-- regardless of whether you were rude or not.
 

westwoody

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Use discretion in your conversations or the lady might think you are trying to set her up for a "Communicating for the purpose of prostitution" charge. A conversation on a cell phone, which is what most SP's use, is deemed to be a conversation in a public place.
 

skirtchaser

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In response to your question, Maverick 73, I asked her plainly and politely. I treated the conversation like a customer would ask a business provider about the specifics of their service.
 

Fudd

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Hey skirtchaser

For your first time out I recogmend staying with a known reputabe SP. For a list follow the thread.

List of Reputabe SPs

Save yourself from a bad first experience. You can TOFTT later.
 

Jodie

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skirtchaser said:
Anyways, my problem is that I called Daryl from the Georgia Straight and ask her the details of her service. More specificaly, if she offers bbbj. I was told that it was rude of me to ask her of that and then, she told me to "go fuck myself". Was it really wrong of me to ask her if she offered bbbj? Was it taboo? Did it warrant such a rude send off from her?
For various reasons, some ladies prefer not to discuss the details of their services; however, there are certainly much more polite ways of conveying that to a potential client! You did nothing to warrant that sort of verbal abuse.

In future, to avoid making a girl feel uncomfortable, you may want to start by asking, "Is it okay if I ask a few questions about the services you provide?"
 

skirtchaser

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Thanks for the replies. One last favour. I did a search of sp's that provide bbbj and, to my surprise, there are a very few to choose from. A lot of the reputable SP's on the list posted do not provide this specific service due to the activity's inherent risk (which is slightly over exaggerated...i have no scientific proof, just a hunch. I still have yet to hear of someone die from a blowjob). So, my favour is - can anyone suggest an sp that provides this service? Preferably an attractive, athletic brunette. Thanks again!
 

maverick73

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Jodie said:
For various reasons, some ladies prefer not to discuss the details of their services; however, there are certainly much more polite ways of conveying that to a potential client! You did nothing to warrant that sort of verbal abuse.

In future, to avoid making a girl feel uncomfortable, you may want to start by asking, "Is it okay if I ask a few questions about the services you provide?"
Skirtchaser, listen to Jodie. With all her degrees, if she says something, it MUST be true :rolleyes: :D
 

Jodie

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maverick73 said:
Skirtchaser, listen to Jodie. With all her degrees, if she says something, it MUST be true :rolleyes: :D
Damn straight it is! :D

...now quit pickin' on me, you bum ;)
 

David in Van

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Pooning Etiquette

As long as you are polite, you can ask any question you want.

If they don't answer the question professionally, even if it is evasive, think of your question as a screening mechanism and their response as a strike.

Being evasive is understandable, though I am not sure I buy the illegality excuse. I think that they are just reluctant to committ to something that they may regret (YMMV).

You can always ask to meet them in person for five or ten minutes. Then it is up to them to make a sale. If they refuse, move on.
 

richmann

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David in Van said:
As long as you are polite, you can ask any question you want..... .....You can always ask to meet them in person for five or ten minutes. Then it is up to them to make a sale. If they refuse, move on.
This is something I have often thought about. Since I don't have unlimited funds, is it ok to meet an SP briefly, just to see if she fits your own personal expectations and to see if the two of you click with each other. I woulkd like to hear from SP's on this. Maybe there would be too many looky loos and time wasters.
I have made appointments that when I arrive the girl just wasn't my type or we didn't click for what ever reason and it ends up very mechanical and I much perfer it when we enjoy each others company as well.
Even picking the best reviewed SP's here (althought it helps a lot) there is no guarantee. However if I could breifly chat with a few in person and pick one to arrange an appointment with, I would make the most of the 1 or two times a month a can afford to do this.
 

Very Veronica

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this is not lavalife, richmann

Sp's already get dicked around with guys who call/email with no intention of booking...i would never meet a client pre-session. You can find out pretty easily via an email if you're on the same page and the rest is all part of the fun. Btw, your handle's a bit of a misnomer.
 

richmann

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You can be rich in many different ways Veronica.

Very Veronica said:
this is not lavalife, richmann - Sp's already get dicked around with guys who call/email with no intention of booking...i would never meet a client pre-session. You can find out pretty easily via an email if you're on the same page and the rest is all part of the fun. Btw, your handle's a bit of a misnomer.
AS i said in my post, maybe it's not a good idea because of the guys that would waste your time. I tend to go to MP's and AMP's for the very reason that you can usually have a look and maybe a short chat with the ladies available first. And although they must get their share of looky loos too, I always pick one. You are very right. You can learn a lot through email. What for example would I learn about you from your response to my polite question here in 411.