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kimargan

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So I've been goin' out with this Canadian girl for 3 months now, and I told her I love to smoke weed and go snowboarding, I had a season pass last year and not only do I love to show off, but I'm realy good at it so I enjoy goin' up on my days off. I went up Thursday for some night ridin' at cypress, starts at 4 I was there at 4:10, ends at 10, Thursday was ugly it was raining hard so I looked over the conditions and concluded I didn't want to destroy my phone so I left it in my car, a reasonable thing to do I persume. Long story short I had fun on the mountain with my buddy brian who just finished his 5th year of electrical and graduated from BCIT, since he's been on lockdown for the last 4 weeks studying I took him up my treat as a reward for finishing his shit. I get to my phone and I missed 17 calls, 4 texts all her, explaining how me being upset was no reason to ignore her, I was surprised because I didn't know I was upset with her. So I call her to explain I wasn't upset I was just away from my phone, I called 5 times durine the 1 1/2 drive home, and she never picked up, so basicaly she assumed I was upset so I was avoiding her calls, but when I tryed to call her she was upset and wouldn't pick up the phone. So I texted her explaining what had happened and she responed with "I'm so sure, how's you're girlfreind", I said she's realy upset with me because I missed her call while I was snow-boarding, to which she said, I'm not your girlfriend, how's the bitch you cheated on me with. and I was like fuck I'm gonna make it clear I was just showing a good friend who's a guy a good time cause he did something that's realy difficult so I had brian call her and explain it. she didn't belive him, so I texted her "have fun, delete my phone #, I told the truth from the start but you chose to read what you wanted into it, so I'm out don't bother calling, now I'm upset and will ignore your calls"

She's called me 12 times, texted me 18 times tryin' to appoligize in the last two days, but I guess that's how girls opperated, they pull these bull-shit games to try and take control of you so they can monitor you every second of everyday. But when you tell them something that's true they won't belive you, so you tell them off and all the sudden they're crawling back to you. If I ask my girl what she's upto and she says I'm eating dinner with megan from work, then I have no reason to belive she's not eatin' someplace with a girl named megan, I don't just jump up and say she's fuckin' some dude cause I can trust a person to tell me the truth.

Ohh and I call her a "canadian girl" cause I'm from Atlanta and she's the first Girlfriend I've had up on this side of the border, please tell me they're not all this crazy. Sorry bout the long read, and the gramatical error's I wasn't so good at payin' attention in school.
 

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I love to smoke weed too! :D

I think all girls are kinda crazy, one of the things I love about them. ;)

But you know, if this girl is worth it you should accept her apology and see where things go. Not only do they like to pull bullshit games, they also like to test us. For all intents and purposes you have passed this test, trust may come much easier from this gal now. Give her a call and give her a chance, if nothing else you can fuck her one last time....isn't that a game we guys like to play. ;)
 

kimargan

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Well she's called me twice in the time it took me to post this, and read your reply so mabey I'll pick up call #15, and listen to what she has to say, but I'm listening to the words and judgeing what she was tryin' to do by basicly power trippin' and calling me a liar, but I'll be calm when she calls again, I'm smokin' a blunt right now and at the rate she's been calling it'll be like 1:45-2 when she calls.
 

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well to be fair I am 21, and she's 20 so she is young but I seriously don't like playing games and realy hate it when someone reads things into a situation when that something is just simply not there, and can be explained by a simple misunderstanding. I dunno if I'm trippin' cause she went haywire or my thoughts are correct and that I should leave it at what it is, in that it's unacceptable to accuse your partner of infidelity when not only do you have no evidence of that fact, and they tell you otherwise and can back up there aliby with a withness that she has known for a longer period of time than I have.
 

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Guys do similar and worse things for sure.
Ever had to deal with a stalker?
 
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Hubba is here for you with a simple message.....

well to be fair I am 21, and she's 20 so she is young but I seriously don't like playing games and realy hate it when someone reads things into a situation when that something is just simply not there, and can be explained by a simple misunderstanding. I dunno if I'm trippin' cause she went haywire or my thoughts are correct and that I should leave it at what it is, in that it's unacceptable to accuse your partner of infidelity when not only do you have no evidence of that fact, and they tell you otherwise and can back up there aliby with a withness that she has known for a longer period of time than I have.

Run.... .....................
 

Smoothmover

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Tell her if she's really sorry, to come over to your place right now and that her "ass" better be in play (if it isn't already, if the ass is in play tell her you want some steady ass to mouth) - see how sorry she really is....

When your done pounding her asshole, cum on her face and then tell her you got plans and she has to go

repeat this every day until she eventually stops calling and leaves you alone

This way your a winner either way
 

FloridaGuy

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1. Keep fucking her. You're both young and so long as you have a sure thing, enjoy it.

2. DON'T make long term plans with her. Yes she's young etc, but lots of girls her age don't have the same self-esteem problem she does. She may grow up, but she may not. If you marry this one, or get her preggers, you will deeply deeply regret it, as your life as a man will be over. She will most likely try and de-masculate you eventually. I know plenty of 30 and 40 something women who are just as insecure as her. Its painful and you do NOT want a woman like that in your life as you grow older. Lots of more rationale ladies out there.

So, keep enjoying her womanly charms, but keep your eye out for a normal girl who won't try and control you for the rest of your life. When you find her, dump this one, and be super nice to the new one. Bonne chance.
 

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So I've been goin' out with this Canadian girl for 3 months now, and I told her I love to smoke weed and go snowboarding, I had a season pass last year and not only do I love to show off, but I'm realy good at it so I enjoy goin' up on my days off. I went up Thursday for some night ridin' at cypress, starts at 4 I was there at 4:10, ends at 10, Thursday was ugly it was raining hard so I looked over the conditions and concluded I didn't want to destroy my phone so I left it in my car, a reasonable thing to do I persume. Long story short I had fun on the mountain with my buddy brian who just finished his 5th year of electrical and graduated from BCIT, since he's been on lockdown for the last 4 weeks studying I took him up my treat as a reward for finishing his shit. I get to my phone and I missed 17 calls, 4 texts all her, explaining how me being upset was no reason to ignore her, I was surprised because I didn't know I was upset with her. So I call her to explain I wasn't upset I was just away from my phone, I called 5 times durine the 1 1/2 drive home, and she never picked up, so basicaly she assumed I was upset so I was avoiding her calls, but when I tryed to call her she was upset and wouldn't pick up the phone. So I texted her explaining what had happened and she responed with "I'm so sure, how's you're girlfreind", I said she's realy upset with me because I missed her call while I was snow-boarding, to which she said, I'm not your girlfriend, how's the bitch you cheated on me with. and I was like fuck I'm gonna make it clear I was just showing a good friend who's a guy a good time cause he did something that's realy difficult so I had brian call her and explain it. she didn't belive him, so I texted her "have fun, delete my phone #, I told the truth from the start but you chose to read what you wanted into it, so I'm out don't bother calling, now I'm upset and will ignore your calls"

She's called me 12 times, texted me 18 times tryin' to appoligize in the last two days, but I guess that's how girls opperated, they pull these bull-shit games to try and take control of you so they can monitor you every second of everyday. But when you tell them something that's true they won't belive you, so you tell them off and all the sudden they're crawling back to you. If I ask my girl what she's upto and she says I'm eating dinner with megan from work, then I have no reason to belive she's not eatin' someplace with a girl named megan, I don't just jump up and say she's fuckin' some dude cause I can trust a person to tell me the truth.

Ohh and I call her a "canadian girl" cause I'm from Atlanta and she's the first Girlfriend I've had up on this side of the border, please tell me they're not all this crazy. Sorry bout the long read, and the gramatical error's I wasn't so good at payin' attention in school.
I can't help but think that you could have avoided all this BS had you given her a heads up before you went boarding. It takes two to dance!

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1. Keep fucking her. You're both young and so long as you have a sure thing, enjoy it.

2. DON'T make long term plans with her. Yes she's young etc,
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That is a very dangerious advice! Supposed an accident happened and she got pregnant. Then your short term plan will become a very long term plan!:confused::rolleyes::eek:
 

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Hey Buddy

I think trust and communication are so important. Hopefully you two can talk about it and reach an understanding. I hope it works out for you.
 

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I think trust and communication are so important. Hopefully you two can talk about it and reach an understanding. I hope it works out for you.
Yeah, since you're so honest why don't you just tell her you're only cheating on her with sp's. I'm sure she'll understand and you will be able to snowboard in peace then.

If she doesn't, dump the bitch. It's Christmas afterall. :rolleyes: This is a great time of the year to be alone. Besides you'll always have brian.

btw the best part of your story was the detail about how brian is doing in his life. I really thought that held it all together.
 
Please don't paint all women with the same brush. Some of us are the exact opposite...many girls may feel the same way as this girl but repress their feelings and play it cool. It does sound like this girl is a bit insecure, and if having friends outside your relationship is important you will have to let her know. It may be fighting an uphill battle. Best of luck:)
 

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She;s got issues...run now! You are young and life it too short for this nonsense.

If you apoligize and make it all good with her, you will just be reinforcing this behaviour. And it will repeat itself.

If you stay in this relationship, she will wear down your self esteem, and you will be fucked up for your next relationship. Break up with her asap, and don't give her, her Christmas present.
 

Smoothmover

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1. Keep fucking her. You're both young and so long as you have a sure thing, enjoy it.

2. DON'T make long term plans with her. Yes she's young etc,
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That is a very dangerious advice! Supposed an accident happened and she got pregnant. Then your short term plan will become a very long term plan!:confused::rolleyes::eek:
Only fuck her in the ass, and ALWAYS, ALWAYS cum on her face or in her mouth
 

bcneil

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We have all had girlfriends like this. Best advice is to get out.
They don't change, they will always start fights.
You will have one of those relationships were you continually break up, then get back together.

I have a coworker in his 40s who married one of these ladies.
I honestly feel bad for him.
We flew up to PG for work, and while we are with clients usually turn off our phones.
In 4 hours, he had 44 missed calls from his wife, with about 20 messages.

As soon as we left the clients office, he is calling her back, all ass kissy.
"Im sorry, Im sorry, I was in a meeting, Im sorry"

She was scolding him!

I didn't really know this guy that well, always though he was a normal guy.
After that week, I just felt really sad for him, and sad in general.

After we made it back to our hotel, and decided to go have a few drinks and some dinner downstair in the bar. He left his phone on vibrate. He told me he wasn't going to answer it during dinner. It literally vibrated the whole time we were there. The wife, just literally called him over and over and over and over for 2 hours. I told him to just answer it.
And you could see how flustered and upset he was....:(

When we got back another coworker told me, how that guys wife has always been like that. She needs to talk to him every few minutes or goes crazy.

Sounds like pure hell to me
 

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For the record...I meant that endearingly. I think we all are a little crazy in our own way. :)

I think all girls are kinda crazy, one of the things I love about them. ;)
Uhmmmm no. Not all of us are crazy like that.
Please don't paint all women with the same brush.


btw the best part of your story was the detail about how brian is doing in his life. I really thought that held it all together.
You crack me up overdone, I bet you're crazy as a loon. ;)
 
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