Let me provide some "insight" into to women. I wouldn't say I'm a player, a pick up artist or a man whore. However I have always had a girlfriends and do not have a hard time picking up women.
The number one thing you need to know how to do is create ATTRACTION with women. If you do not create ATTRACTION you will be put into the friend zone rather quickly. There are many different ways men create ATTRACTION with women; however I'm going to list a few:
-Girls love to laugh and if you can make a girl laugh this can usually help build some ATTRACTION.
-Mystery - Don't tell your whole life story to a girl; leave some mystery, act busy, make it seem like you have a life.
- Confidence - Know who you are and be confident; don't ask a girl what you should do, tell her what you are doing and if she wants to she can come along.
- be different - Don't try and follow the status quo, stick out, be different, be unique.
-jealousy- This works so amazing and not to many guys really utilize this tactic; most women REALIZE they are attracted to you when they see you with another women flirting or dancing or whatever the case may be.
In a nut shell if you are funny, confident and have some mystery to you, you will be successful with women.
HERE are a few things that kills attraction with women
-neediness - don;t txt or call every two minutes, give them some space, have a life and act busy.
-poor hygiene - if you have yellow teeth, horrific nails, stink, unkept hair, etc TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
-clothes - you do not need to be GQ- but don't wear dirty clothes with stains on them, buy clothes that fit
- routine - if you lay yourself out there are boring, the women is going to get bored with you real fast.
- nice guy - Don't be the nice guy, have you ever heard nice guys finish last, well its fucking true. It's a sure way to end up in the friend zone.
If you think having a six pack or driving a benz gets you ladies you are RUDELY mistaken. It may get a small percent of ladies but I don't think they would be the quality of ladies you would want to attract anyways. It is the wrong mentality to have and it will get you no where. The bottom line is before anything will happen with a girl there needs to be some ATTRACTION...unless you are paying for it lol.
There is a lot of material out there on these subjects and how you can be a guy who attracts women. I hate that its under the "pick up" genre because it makes it sound cheap but in reality it is much more then that. Learning how to communicate with women on a whole other level is truly an enlightening experience. There is a lot of self discovery along the way and I think learning how to communicate in a particular way, being aware of your body language can be applied to much more then just attracting women.
THE APPROACH
I would say keep short, simple, direct and be confident.... I'm going to tell you this and its the complete truth it honestly do not matter WHAT you say but HOW you say it. If you are shy, poor body language and come across as nervous it will probably fail. If you come across as confident, cocky and or funny it will work
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You " Hey, You look interesting and I had to come say hi"
You" What's your name"
HER" Brittany
YOU" No Way! thats my middle name..
HER" SOME RESPONSE MAY FIND IT FUNNY MAY BE WEIRDED OUT, DEPENDS ON DELIEVERY
YOU" Good chat Brittany but I have to go" take take a step, turn around, stop, look back and say..
YOU" Hey Brittany are you a stalker?"
HER " NO"
YOU" Okay let me get your email address", whip out you phone let her enter it into the contacts
YOU" While you are putting in your email put in your phone number too
YOU' Okay BRittany if I call you, you have to promise that you are not going to call me 5 times a day ok
HER" AHHA OK
walk away
YOU may not get an email/number every time but statistically play a numbers game!
If you want a 10/10 girl you have to pre-qualify her, keep in mind pretty girls get hit on 3-5 times a day easily, what this means is they are masters at weeding out the needy, boring, low self esteem, etc men. You need to act like YOU are the catch and SHE has to prove herself to you. What this means is you need to get her to qualify herself to you, you need to say things that most guys wont,
* Disclaimer - this only works on absolutely 10 out of 10s who get hit on all the time if you try these tactics on 6,7's or 8s they will take offense
YOU " Hey" Stop look at here with a giant stare
Her hopefully she stops and is like what?
YOU" Didn't you wear that outfit yesterday?
her" No
YOU" Whats your name?
HER" Tiffany"
YOU' It's okay Tiffany it will be our little secret..
YOU" HEY TIFFANY I don't have time for your lies, I got to go"... do the email/ phone thing
Its really that easy, txt her, have fun, tell jokes, if she asks what you are doing make up something completely insane.. my favorite is " I'm working on a plan for complete world domination..it's only a matter of time before I take over the word" .. how many guys do you think have said that.. the standard" not much" is boring.. be exciting..
That's basics of what I can offer you
Some really good resources is The Game by Neil Strausse/ NY Best seller, there is David Deangilo, Mystery, tyler durden, etc... The game is just a good overall book.. he tells the story of when he first learnt how to pick up women and he picked up this girl in a coffee shop using something similar as to what I described earlier, he went home and googled this girl and found out it was Playboy's playmate of the year...
or right. It's win win either way, but you'll be short a couple textbooks. Just borrow your buddy's.
