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oberon1999

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hhmm, just started thinkin about the last 3 ladies I've been with... They were all young enough to be my daughter (ok one just barely) they all had kids of there own meaning I could be grandfather (I have no kids in case you are wondering) Last night for the hell of it I was checking out LiveLinks and found myself lieing about my age to women and had a woman 41 say I was too old for her aaarrrggg....

OK it's official men do have midlife crisises...I have this urge to go buy a convertable probably a corvette and find a nice 19yr old GF...

I'm not sure if hobbying now is helping or hurting, most of the girls I see are under 25 so it kind of makes me feel older when i see them, of course after I feel great ;-) but one can only spend so much time having great sex with younger women before coming up for air... right???

I really have to stop taking days off to think and relax, busy busy busy that's the answer....????

anyone else feeling this way or am I the only one this f**ked up, oh well I'll survive for a few more years I guess :)

oberon:confused:
 
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dittman

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as an official member of aarp what more to life is there then having great sex with a 19 yr old (my daughter turns 23 on monday) and playing golf.
BTW my daughter also knows what my hobby is
 

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Good thread oberon1999.

Look at the bright side if you were only 22 than most Sps wouldn't want to see you, because they only want mature men in there 30s, or older.

If the fact that your seeing younger girls bothers you, then go seek out some of the more mature SPs that are out there.

If you got the cash go and buy that convertable Corvette or Porshce. How about a Cadillac Escalade SUV with 28 inch spinner mag wheels? With the latest hip hop song blaring out of the sound system. A total chick magnetic, if you lik'em young. You can use the spare mag as a test for future dates. If they can spin without there butt dragging on the ground, there in. LOL --- Kev
 

oberon1999

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OK I admit when I was 22 I was an assh**e and I would not have wanted to see me sexually, I like to think I have matured, some days it's debatable I think..

Kev
Not sure if it bothers me or not I guess what I found out is while I have not changed the age of SP I pick I appear to have aged myself!! Yikes.

No money in the budget for a convertable or Caddy, the Ford Explorer will have to do, hip hop tends to give me a headache, I'm still a classic rock guy moving into more Blues and Folk (another sign of aging ;-) For some reason Springsteen's "Glory Days" is getting a lot of air play aroung my place now :))

Little Alex
My favourite Indiana Jones line "its not the years, its the mileage"

I will say that once you learn that in life if the person you are with is happy/enjoying themselves you will get more enjoyment out of things to and that applies to a lot more than sex but it certainly does apply to sex.. You need to know a bit more than your firends told you in high school to really have a good time with a woman...

Never read the book you mention, might have to look it up, who says you can't teach an old dog new tricks. Me I was lucky my first real girlfriend was very particular about sex and knew exactly what she liked and was unafraid to tell you or show you, man those were fun times! :)))

stephi_bryn
RIGHT!

By the way I was re-reading my post and I am not as down about all this as it might seem, I understand why I feel this way I accept it the fact is I think after 40 some years I just realized I'm mortal

oberon

PS aarp = American Association of Retired People I think you have to be 55 to join...? Ok I aint there yet, I also doubt I'll ever retire
 

oberon1999

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Hey Dittman clean out you PM's, your mailbox is full!
 

dittman

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I hate to disagree with you Obern, but im 53 not retired and am a member of the aarp, no big deal though just a sign that i am getting older, but with the help of the blue pill who cares right
 

oberon1999

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I was aware of the Shakespearean aspect of my nic, I actually am quite a fan of olde Will, I usually manage to make it to all the Bard on the Beach plays... I actually picked the name for a totally differnet reason to do with my past. I use this nic a lot of places on the web or at least some form of it; here I am of course actually oberon1999, one thing about this board nobody thinks I'm gay, sometimes that is the interpertation of King of the Faeries :)

I'm actually in my early 40s but the age/mortality thing has just finally hit me lately, just working through it, although I did not really plan to work through it here what the hell it's cheaper than therapy :)))

My htoughts on your thoughts

a) I love women, I love their smell, taste and feel there is nothing better than the intemate exchange between a man and a woman. I praise creation every day for making me part of a species with two distinct and different sexes (I also occasionally curse it). I do my best to hold up my end of the species.

b) Can't argue with that; there are women I met when I was young I wish I had known better, once had a girl give me a lock of her hair, I never saw her again, GOD JUST STAMP IDIOT ON MY FOREHEAD!!

c) What can I say...

have fun

oberon
 

oberon1999

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Dittman

Hey disagree all you want...I'm just having my little problem right now certainly not the end of the world for me or anyone else.

As far as that little blue pill, it has not been required, if it had been right at this second it would have been a pretty hard pill to swallow (man what a bad pun)...

oberon
 

rickoshadows

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The best part about being older is ...

When you divide the amount of money spent pooning by the number of minutes actually doing the deed.

I am getting way more bang for the buck than when I was 20. ;)
 

dittman

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well all i can say is that i went through that trip 13 years ago. thought i was dieing from everything under the sun, but now life is good all i worry about is when am i going to get laid again.
 

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At 58 and after 37 years of off and on (mostly on) hobbying, I find it ever more difficult to generalize. For many years I was stuck on 30ish SPs, who are usually talented, enthusiastic, still have firm bodies, and appreciate a more mature client. But I have found 21 year old SPs who are experienced beyond their years and highly talented and horny. They seem to genuinely appreciate having me. I see one a lot and I no longer think about the age difference. I just enjoy myself and please her. She assures me that my age makes no difference to her and that she likes my body, technique, and attentiveness more than most. Who knows what to believe, but the sessions are usually fantastic. I have also had some great experiences with providers my age, but in general I do not find them nearly as appealing in the looks department, so they have to be extremely talented to get me to come back.
 
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HowieMeeker

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"The older I get, the better I was"

...except in the sack.

Have had numerous girlfriends over past 10 years I would never have scored when I was their age....and it seems to get easier with age. Why? Money? Experience? Who knows - all I know is being older means not stressing about stuff and being more confident and I think confidence looks good on anyone. Also knowing how to allow a woman to have a good time in the sack takes a lot of practice (and practice we must!) so as we age, we are able to use that experience.

I can't wait until I have that move that the old guy in Remo Williams had (the oriental master). He could bring a woman to orgasm with one touch! Ah, love the movies.
 

oberon1999

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Howie

Totally forgot about the Remo Williams thing LMAO...


In general folks thanks for the support/laughs... Trust me I will survive :) and I hope have some more fun along the way...

I've let myself slip a bit of late so back to the gym, I refuse to diet since a good meal is one of the pleasures of life.. a good meal with a good woman and man you are on your way to heaven.. but that means I gotta work off all that enjoyment ... hey wait a minute if I some nice lady were to come to dinner with me then.......

oberon
 

bigmoe69er

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dittman said:
what more to life is there then having great sex with a 19 yr old
Good quote, Dittman! There may be more to life, but there certainly isn't anything better! I can't argue with you on this one!
----Moe
 

stephi_bryn

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I agree with that one on some part Kahuna, my best friend is fifty something, I'm still in my early twenties. I think about sleeping with him time to time but we're too good of friends. Smart women don't care about age but the eight inch thing does help.
 

oberon1999

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Hey Kahuna, yeah I hear yeah, I'm just heading down the loose 20# road, got a lot of things in life I enjoy a beautiful woman being one of them. I've been doing a lot of thinking and life planning of late and came up with basically your idea. Life is too short.

Personnally I'm on I think my 4th career (denpending on what you call a career, never got a degree just kept finding a new career and dropping out of school (i've actaually dropped out of all the universities in Vancouver and BCIT but ended up with a good job each time)...

enjoy

oberon