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Urban_Male

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Miami BABY!!!!
Well I guess I am wondering what everyone here would do in a situation like I just happen to find myself in.

Last night while "working", I was bored and well I started looking through porn on the internet. I wasn't really checking anything or anyone in particular and then,I noticed something that blew my mind completely. A childhood friend of mine, a woman whom I see regulary, a really great friend of fine, a woman whom I have to admit, I have had plenty of fantasies about. She was spread eagle in one of those milfhunter type websites (Not Milf hunter, just a site like it). I have known this girl for the better part of 15 years and we have always been great frineds. She has told me a lot (I really mean a lot, more than I should know probably) but This is a complete surprise. I don't know what to do. I mean she looks so HOT in her spread, I am not the type to ever pay in those sites, but this time I had too, and I downloaded everything
of her. Movies (notice the plural), pictures, wow there was a lot. Now do I tell her I have it or do I act as if I have no Idea. From the pictures I'd say they were done within the past six months. Like I said we see each other almost everyother day, so I know what her hair is like now and then.

Anyways, this is totaly undiscovered country for me and well, I would love to hear what you all would do in this situation.

Thanks,
Urban
 

Chingada

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I think Urban_Male you should talk to her about it, but also reiterate that you're doing it as a friend. If she truly is a friend, remeber that your friendship is more important than wanting to have sex with her. She may want to talk to you about it but is afraid to bring it up. It's difficult for us to make the decision for you because we're not in a position to know what kind of a relationship you have with her. Be sensitive to her feelings.

If she's cool about it, has no problems with it, then go play my friend!!
 

hitrack

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Yah ya might aswell tell her, cause your gonna be busting inside everytime you see her if you don't. Like the others say if she's a friend she will understand and be able to deal with it.

If your lucky too this may move things to the next level and you may get some as much as she may wanna give you some. Sex is one hell of a kick ass ice breaker!!

PS: when it comes to the internet you better tripple check and make damn sure that is actualy her!!
 

AsianBrother

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Spill - don't spill - it's up to you... but burn the pics onto a CD and if you feel bad enough about it, all you have to do is toss the CD and that's the end of that - just a distant memory in a few years time...
 

SPinVic

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Talk with her. She probably has been wanting to tell you along but was afraid. She might even need a good understanding friend to talk about it with...that could be you. The worst part of this business it not being able to tell and talk with my friends about it.
 

jmac23

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I would tell her. Since if you really are that close she will notice you being different and wonder if you know, or if perhaps worse you are not intrested in her friendship any more. Besides she well may have had some of those Fantasies herself.
 

wolverine

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Does she walk? Does she talk?
Does she come complete?
My homeroom homeroom angel
Always pulled me from my seat

She was pure like snowflakes
No one could ever stain
The memory of my angel
Could never cause me pain

Years go by I'm lookin' through a girly magazine
And there's my homeroom angel on the pages in-between

CHORUS:
My blood runs cold
My memory has just been sold
My angel is the centerfold
Angel is the centerfold
(Repeat)

Slipped me notes under the desk
While I was thinkin' about her dress
I was shy I turned away
Before she caught my eye

I was shakin' in my shoes
Whenever she flashed those baby-blues
Something had a hold on me
When angel passed close by

Those soft and fuzzy sweaters
Too magical to touch
Too see her in that negligee
Is really just too much

CHORUS

It's okay I understand
This ain't no never-never land
I hope that when this issue's gone
I'll see you when your clothes are on

Take you car, Yes we will
We'll take your car and drive it
We'll take it to a motel room
And take 'em off in private

A part of me has just been ripped
The pages from my mind are stripped
Oh no, I can't deny it
Oh yea, I guess I gotta buy it!
 

Urban_Male

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Miami BABY!!!!
Thanks for the Input

Thank all for your suggestions,

I have been sitting here wondering what to do especially since she called me tonight and we will be meeting for lunch tomorrow (It helps that we work two buildings apart).

Brad Lee, I took your advise and I mentioned that I thought I had seen some one that looked like her on an internet porn site. She was quiet for a little while and it seemed that she wasn't sure what to say. I could tell from her reaction that it is indeed her. She suggested lunch and she did say that she wanted to talk to me about something anyways. I didn't pursue it any more so as to give her time to think about it I guess.

If she doesn't say anything though I think I will mention it to her, not in a bad way, just in a 'Is that you on there?' type question.

I personaly would NOT feel awquard and would just let it be. She can do what ever she wants I've been her friend this long, it's not something that would bother me. Personally I would love to make a movie with her, but.... I wonder how she would react to that suggestion.

It's not like we have never screwed around either, she a woman and I'm a man, and we have been drunk together MANY times. However we have never had sex.

Ohwell, I guess I'll just see how tomorrow goes.

I'll let you guys know. Once again thanks for the input, I had no idea who to talk to about this with out having someone ask me who she is. I know if I mentioned this to any of my friends they would try and drag it out of me.

Thanks to the ladies, i appreaciate a woman's point of view on this.

Later all,
Urban.
 

Urban_Male

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I told her and well not what I expected

OK. So yesterday I went to lunch with her. We had a great lunch. Ordered a pticher of beer (Man I lovee women that look great and love beer!) We ate chatted and ordered a second pitcher of beer. By this time my balls were the size of King Kong so I asked her. "Have you or are you in Porn movies?"

Amoment of uneasy silence went by. She then smiled and said "I knew you found something when I talked to you last night."

My jaw dropped, I was like "how come you never told me?"

She said she wanted to but she was sure how I would react... Understandable I guess. So we kept on talking and drinking. We had just ordered our third pitcher when I decided to call work and tell them I had just gotten food sickness, she did the same.

We finished off our third pitcher and somehow managed to get into a cab. First off drop her off. But when we got to her house she asked me to come in. I didn't realy think anything of it because I had been there so many times. Besides she has a three year old boy I love that kid to death. but he was at the baby

So as I sat on the couch she went and turnned on the TV. I saw her pop a movie in, and when the picture came on...... It was her in full action. She told me that this was made a few weeks ago, she said that she only has a couple, because generally they don't give them the movies they make.

Man I was sooo turnned on by it and sooo drunk that I just got up and grabbed her and started making out with her.

I wont get into anything else but WOW..... I couldn't beleive it.......

So now I am in another situation here. I stayed at her place last night and just now I am returning home.... We did not say a word about anything, just how much fun we both had. Has this 15 year friendship just become a 'friends with privilages' I don't want to mess up our friendship. We go back way too long....

Well got to go. Sleepy.

Urban.
 
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