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First Time going to a SP - questions

screwdriver

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Jul 20, 2003
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Hello,
I have never been to a massage parlour or used an escort service. I would like to try it out however I am a bit nervous.

Maybe somone could give me an idea of what to do and expect when I go see a SP.
Will they automatically assume I want FS if I pay them their fee for 1 hour, or do I have to tell them exactly what I want? If so how would I go about this in an unawakward manner?

I am a shy person and have never been with a woman. I am worried that I won't know when the appropiate time is to remove my clothes and what not. Will she help me out by asking me outright to do these things or what?

I am not very good at carrying out conversations with others so it would make it awkward if she wants to talk for a while at the begining. Do SPs usually talk to you for a while before you get to the action or do they go straight to it?

Maybe if some of you could describe a visit to a SP or a MP in detail I would feel more comfortable and know what to expect.

One last thing, am I better off going to an independent escort or going to a massage parlour?

Thanks.
 

Kev

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Well screwdriver you come to the right board for your answers. Many will have there 2cents to give, myself included.

What you ask is kind of a loaded question, because there is no set rule as to how an SP will greet her guest.

If your shy then i would suggest you start out with a half hour session, then take it from there.

If you read the reviews you will get a very good idea how the SP is in her manner towards her date.

I could ramble on further but theres others who can contribute. --- Kev
 
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Weekender

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Screwdriver, welcome aboard.

I don't think anyone we be able to give you conclusive answers, but I would suggest a couple things:

1) Keep reading the board, there are a lot of tidbits of wisdom on this board. Myself, as a hobbiest in training, learn something new from the board everyday.

2) Go to a reputable provider. In your circumstances don't try and save a couple bucks, you may get taken advantage of. I noticed Saffire sent you a PM, she has had a lot of great reviews and I think she would be understanding to your circumstances.

3) Request a couple shots. As a newbie, it may be quicker than expected. You may want to reload.

Good Luck!!
 

sirlickheralot

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SP or MP

In your case if you are really shy I think a SP is a better choice than a MP. This way you can contact and communicate with the SP in advance of your session so it doesn't feel as much like your meeting a complete stranger.

Pick a well reviewed SP, no point taking one for the team at this point in your pooning career. I would either e-mail or PM her (If your choice is a board member) and explain your situation and how shy and nervous you are. If you just show up acting all nervous the SP may misinterpret your behaviour and become nervous herself. If she isn't relaxed around you then you probably aren't going to have a good time.

I'm sure there are a few SPs out there who would enjoy introducing you to the wonderful world of sex. Have a good time.
 

Lisa

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Any SP i think would be excited that its your 1st time.
Means they will be etched in your memory forever!
So find a good one.
Lisa
 

JohnnyC

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I remember what I said when I first started this hobby-

"That was the most expensive 5 minutes I have ever experienced."

Odds are you'll feel the same way. But once your nerves get steady, it'll be a lot better. :)

JC
 

Big Trapper

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You might have to jerk off a coupla times beforehand (sic!) just so you can keep it up longer! But good luck otherwise...
 

oberon1999

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JohnnyC said:
I remember what I said when I first started this hobby-

"That was the most expensive 5 minutes I have ever experienced."

Odds are you'll feel the same way. But once your nerves get steady, it'll be a lot better. :)

JC
I still get "nervous" at least a bit it is part of the fun but yeah first time I could not talk just sorta mumbled and smiled. it was a rooming house St Thomas with several girls working out of one room. When we went up stairs the room was not free yet, the lady gave me a quick BJ to keep me occupied... I damn near died right there in the hallway... and yeah once we got in the room 5 min sounds about right but I left smiling so that's all I ask really...

Seriously yeah try and pick someone with a bit of experience for No1, I would not do the MP route since I often find them rushed and not really worth it... Several ladies who post regularly on this board would be an excelent choice, some have even contributed to this thread...

Thumbs up for being smart enough to ask questions before diving in, most of us were not that smart, some of us were lucky some not...

Oh you also have to decide what you want most a hot body a intimate GFE both (don't we all) some particular fantasy???? decision decisions best to start simple and work up I think....

God that rooming house was 23 years ago, I still remember every curve of her body...

:))) oberon
 

sirlickheralot

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Do your homework

In some ways guys entering the hobby now have it better than in the past. Now at least its easier to find out if a SP allows MSOG or at least lets you stay the full hour once you have taken your shot.


JohnnyC said:
I remember what I said when I first started this hobby-

"That was the most expensive 5 minutes I have ever experienced."

Odds are you'll feel the same way. But once your nerves get steady, it'll be a lot better. :)

JC
 

rickoshadows

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Oh maaan!

These new guys have it easy. All this free advice, good info, recommendations and informative reviews. I don't think I can count the number of times I got ripped off before I figured out the routine in the bad old days. :)
 

happyjack

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Screwdriver, unless money isn't an issue (lol) don't go to MP cuz part goes to owner as I'm sure you know and we all rather it goe to SP for fun. Make a few calls and go with your instincts. Everyone's tastes are different. For instance if you like to play safe, certain SP's you should forget, I don't name bash so I can't say who. Just call them up and talk to them and go with your gut, if they sound friendly they probably are......if you have specific requests don't be afraid to ask although some might hang up if your rude. I agree with Lisa most SP's probably like that your a newbie, putty in their hands good luck!!
 
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