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Dextoryer

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May 20, 2003
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Hi guys, well basically I wanted to ask how many of you still see SPs when you have girlfriends...this question comes because I've been going out with my girlfriend for a month and yes the sex is TRUE GFE hahah, but my perBert instincts (aka my penis) still tells me to go see an escort.

Do you count it as cheating?, do you feel guilty?


Having a girlfriend gives you tru GFE all the time but variety and "the thrill" stops!! I don't know what to do :(
 

CJ Tylers

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Jan 4, 2003
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Stay home

Yes it is cheating

If you ever stop loving her and you will be breaking up, then by all means go see a SP.
 

Dextoryer

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May 20, 2003
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LOL Good guess, yes I am Catholic...and thanks for the replies.

Sorry Ladies..... I will retire for a while then :( (but I will be saving a ton of money!! :D )
 

Dextoryer

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Now how about Married men?....I can't really imagine having ONLY sex with the same woman for 40+ years!, eventually you'll want some variety is in our male genes!
 

CJ Tylers

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That's when you approach your wife with the idea of getting into the swinger life style.

Either way, you have to involve your wife.
 

AsianBrother

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Here. There. Everywhere.
The way I see it is that life is like a buffet - you go up to the table and eat whatever you want and you always come home full.. but you can't always eat at the buffet because you'd be bored and occassinonally, you need a home-cooked meal...

Conversely, always eating at home gets boring after awhile so going out to a restaurant is a good thing once in awhile too...

So, to put it in another way, continue pooning. It's good for you. :D
 

chowhound

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Feb 11, 2004
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cheating?

It's cheating if it's outside of the boundaries of your relationship. If you're not sure if it's cheating, ask yourself if it would be cheating for your GF to be getting some on the side. Would it be different if she was paying for it? Would it be different if she was being paid? Maybe you should ask her!
 

R the Man

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Of course it's cheating. But, do you know the statistics on cheating? The majority of married people have affairs. At least with an SP, you can get the variety that many men crave, without the emotional garbage that comes with having an affair.
 

Chingada

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Feb 15, 2004
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Believe me, from personal experience, I can tell you that women think it's cheating even if men don't. I lost my wife because I got caught pooning. We had been together 19 years and I loved her more than anything in the world - and still do - but when I started to see SP's it escalated into more than an infrequent occurance. She found out but gave me a second chance. Then when I screwed up again, or got screwed again, and she found out a second time that was it. We still talk to each other almost every day but the likelihood of us getting back together is virtually nil. So if you're in a committed relationship and you're pooning, the woman will see your activities as cheating, there's no getting around it. Now that I'm living alone and can do what I want, the buzz I used to get from pooning isn't as great. But it still doesn't stop me from doing it!!!
 

RaeAnn

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Hi
Sorry to hear about your prediciment. That is a real drag. (addiction maybe...we all have some form or another, that word just doesn't sound so appealing...lol)
I had a guy from the board get caught not long ago, his SO got into his e-mail and gave me a call...(voicemail) understandably very angry! My suggestion is if you are caught (no proof of anything physical...admit to nothing) is to call the SP first thing to warn her, if the SO has the #. Most ladies can be very creative in helping tone down the situation a bit (thought he wanted to came here and felt to guilty cause he was married and loved his wife) Can take a lot of the pain away.
Anyhow, that's my 2 cents!
Take Care and look to better days ahead!

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