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Tim McGee

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This seems to be mostly when I visit Asian providers. Maybe it's just a matter of asking if I can use the washroom BEFORE a mutual shower. Any feedback is welcome. I JUST want to get this off of my chest (and hopefully be given good suggestions)

Fox Den, WCA, Luxus, it's practically automatic, that we can use the washroom before getting into the bed together.

I THINK that the Victoria Sweet VIPs and Seduction Unlimited has toilets in their shower rooms. (My complaint is that they didn't have any MIRRORS in the shower rooms--if I want to put in my contact lenses, for example).

I'm being serious here: It would be nice to be able to simply urinate before the date. Many of us drink water, which helps in several ways, including fresher breath. Plus, the man can wash himself off there, before going to the bedroom together.

Yes, mutual shower is great.....but it seems kind of like a "tradeoff." That being, likely no washroom chance.

We can talk about this like adults: I admit MY naivete here, and it's based on what an Asian provider told me a few years ago. To paraphrase, she said, "I like to give my clients rimming. But if I hear them flush the toilet, I fear that they [went number 2], and whether he did or not [go number 2], I am reluctant to give him rimming."

Totally understandable. And you JUST never know when and which SPs will offer that to you. Sometimes, it's "spur of the moment" on her part.

Back to basics: It IS nice and comfortable to [take a number 1] before the date. I'm naively afraid that if I ask an Asian SP "may I please use the washroom first," I MIGHT lose rimming by her (IF she was planning to, in the first place.) I honestly think that I might even lose BLS in this scenario.

Also, the Language Barrier (which is nobody's fault) CAN make it more difficult to ask for a quick ALONE washroom moment.

Maybe I should text the booker, "may I please use the washroom beforehand."

I'm being serious with this question (and I doubt that OTHER men have thought about this too), and hope we can discuss this civily.

Rrssed.....clhoha,
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clu

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The only suggestion I've got is for the contacts-without-mirrors problem: you can get contact lens cases with mirrors inside the cover. It makes the case a little bigger, kind of like a woman's makeup/powder thing (sorry don't know what that's called).
 

Tim McGee

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The only suggestion I've got is for the contacts-without-mirrors problem: you can get contact lens cases with mirrors inside the cover. It makes the case a little bigger, kind of like a woman's makeup/powder thing (sorry don't know what that's called).
Also, out of courtesy to the SP, as a male client, I want to make sure that my face is clean, too.

R-to-A,
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This is not exactly the topic here but it brought back a certain memory of mine, in my very early days, I once walked into a private condo where certain few ladies worked. I met the lady I had been communicating with a booker about, and as soon as we got out of our clothes, she excused herself, saying she realized she needed to use the restroom (which was attached to the bedroom we were in). Upon her exit after a good 5-10 minutes, I could smell #2 in the space. The thought of it even if it was not what happened in that visit to the restroom, was all it took for me to not be able to find anything remotely sexy about the lady and the experience. As natural a human function as this is, I have to say it would definitely ruin it for me now just as much.
 

Tim McGee

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This is not exactly the topic here but it brought back a certain memory of mine, in my very early days, I once walked into a private condo where certain few ladies worked. I met the lady I had been communicating with a booker about, and as soon as we got out of our clothes, she excused herself, saying she realized she needed to use the restroom (which was attached to the bedroom we were in). Upon her exit after a good 5-10 minutes, I could smell #2 in the space. The thought of it even if it was not what happened in that visit to the restroom, was all it took for me to not be able to find anything remotely sexy about the lady and the experience. As natural a human function as this is, I have to say it would definitely ruin it for me now just as much.
Actually Nwtl, your post is TOTALLY relevant. Only, kind of in REVERSE, regarding male clients. If I'M in the restroom (NOT for a shower), and I spend "a certain amount of time" in there, (smell or no smell of #2) I fear that the SP would have your exact same fear about ME, and cause me to receive lesser service.

Also, I can vaguely recall asking if i could use the washroom, the SP letting me....and not 1-2 minutes later, she walks back in on me! Awkward....

R-to-H,
Tim McGee.
 

Tim McGee

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Do you mean pee before or after the mutual shower? Why not just pee before the mutual shower and then rinse off and no problems.

I usually just tell them i need to go. They either wait for me outside the washroom till i invite them bavk in, or the just go ahead and hop in the tub and start the water while i do my thing.

It can get kinky too, once had a girl stand behind me and wrap her arms around me holding onto jr while i did my business. Kind of fun/erotic.

Just be non-chalant, its perfectly normal. Especially if it was a bit of a drive, cold, waited downstairs, etc.
Yeah, I tried to before the mutual shower, but the language barrier sometimes makes it tough. And, the "she accidentally walked in on me" mishap.

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Actually I had taken a dump couple of times after I arrived . While I was taking my dump, I turned on the shower making sure the ladies mistaken me taking a clean heavy rub. Of course after the business, you have better making sure you clean up your ass!
 

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I’ve never ever had a problem using the washroom, as soon as I take my shoes off I tell them I need to use the washroom. I do my business and washup and we are good to go. if I feel like having a shower or they ask me to I do that also, I come out with my clothes in a neat pile if I’ve done the shower. This has never been an issue, you are paying tell them what you want and do it.
 

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This is not exactly the topic here but it brought back a certain memory of mine, in my very early days, I once walked into a private condo where certain few ladies worked. I met the lady I had been communicating with a booker about, and as soon as we got out of our clothes, she excused herself, saying she realized she needed to use the restroom (which was attached to the bedroom we were in). Upon her exit after a good 5-10 minutes, I could smell #2 in the space. The thought of it even if it was not what happened in that visit to the restroom, was all it took for me to not be able to find anything remotely sexy about the lady and the experience. As natural a human function as this is, I have to say it would definitely ruin it for me now just as much.
Now that her rear barrel was cleaned out you should have done her #2 ha ha!
 

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I have never had a problem asking to use the washroom immediately upon my arrival. Never been refused or felt embarrassed that I had to go. On the other hand it was always for a Wizz and never for a Dump. Most places had a powder room near the front door too.
 

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Do you mean pee before or after the mutual shower? Why not just pee before the mutual shower and then rinse off and no problems.

I usually just tell them i need to go. They either wait for me outside the washroom till i invite them bavk in, or the just go ahead and hop in the tub and start the water while i do my thing.

It can get kinky too, once had a girl stand behind me and wrap her arms around me holding onto jr while i did my business. Kind of fun/erotic.

Just be non-chalant, its perfectly normal. Especially if it was a bit of a drive, cold, waited downstairs, etc.
That's a new one to try out! Seems fun.
 

Tim McGee

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I'll try that next rime: I'll be more ASSERTIVE in asking to use the washroom.

Note: Most of the places I'm referring to, the lady takes you by the hand and pretty much directs you and stays WITH you just about the entire time.

Again, I said that the LANGUAGE BARRIER (nobodys fault) has come into play.

R-to-A,
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Here's a thought, stop by a Starbucks before you Poon. Freshen up and then not having to think about going while at the incall.

#turningintoanotherallenkeythread

:p
 

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Because of the area I reside in, my bladder is usually about to burst by the time I get to the incall (in DT Van) usually two, two and a half hours after I have my breakfast.

I remember it being so bad that it actually started to hurt (because she decided to delay it ... twice).

But girls are pretty understanding. Take the last time for example. I booked *** ***** and ... it didn't work, i drove to another incall and by then it had been about three hours since I emptied my bladder. I was greeted beautifully by this ATF of mine and after the first kiss, first words I said were, "yea yea, happy new year.... I need to use the washroom."
 

Tim McGee

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Here's a thought, stop by a Starbucks before you Poon. Freshen up and then not having to think about going while at the incall.

#turningintoanotherallenkeythread

:p
Thing is, many places are "washrooms for customers only."

Using it at the McDonald's at Metrotown isn't a problem.

On the other hand, I went into the Uncle Willy's, and they were none too happy!

R-to-H,
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take8easy

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Thing is, many places are "washrooms for customers only."

Using it at the McDonald's at Metrotown isn't a problem.

On the other hand, I went into the Uncle Willy's, and they were none too happy!

R-to-H,
Tim McGee.
You would think that a place with "Willy" in its name would be more understanding................

Imagining you standing in the line up, looking at the male cashier at Willy's and thinking "Will he? or will he not?"
 

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Thing is, many places are "washrooms for customers only."

Using it at the McDonald's at Metrotown isn't a problem.

On the other hand, I went into the Uncle Willy's, and they were none too happy!

R-to-H,
Tim McGee.
Only time this is true at Starbucks is when they have to buzz you into the can.

I've used their facilities without buying a thing lots of times.
 
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