Awakward or not????????

[Pleaser]

I have one of my favorite girls I have seen repeatedly for years, however over the many nights I have visited her I have met another one of the sexy girls while waiting for my session.

I obviously decided to try a session with this new girl as she was very sexy and fun during our brief meetings. I then noticed however she only works the same shift as my regular.

I tried twice now just to drop in to see the new girl. I was hoping to see her at the door however my regular seems to answer the door and seems so excited to see me she just grabs me and walks me back. I have not been able to ask for the other girl....

Do any of you guys have this issue? It really sucks, I wish the shifts were different.

Comments from the the SP's would be great as well. I guess I am too nice I just find it hard to ask for a different girl after many awesome sessions.

Pleaser

 

[xxxbrian]

that is a hard one if it has been many years with a reg.

I went into Revive to just meet Malaysia and also met Ava and was wowed by Ava and a week or so later did have a visit with Ava ( and want more ).


One thing is SP's probably don't get too attached to "us" clients but I can see developing more with one you see more and more often. She should be fine with you seeing someone else but who knows. If she is busy then she has other income coming in regularly.


I was going to ask the question in here do you prefer to see more women ( different one's ) or do you prefer to see less many and repeat more.

I have repeated with Rebecca, Bella and Nikita ( same night, she was almost retiring - had to have more and first time was a karma/ nikita duo ) and the rest have been one time only and still have more i want to see. I only have 1 or 2 visits a month so I need time to see many that I want to see. I "could" get hooked on a few and see them more often, but then I want to "experience" more good looking SP's

Back to your topic, she should be fine for you to see others - it is not a relationship.

B

 

[69guy]

i think the easiest way for you to see this other girl is to book an appointment with her.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I would phone and make an appointment with the new girl, maybe explain to management your predicament. some girls are very possessive over their regulars. maybe management will mix up the schedules a bit so you can see her on a day when they are not working together.
I used to work in this one place where there was this guy who was in love with one of the girls. Every time he saw some one else, he would make us promise not to tell her. She knew he saw other girls though and never cared.
Good luck!

 

[HB40]

Yep, just make an appointment... or ... just talk to your regular about it.

What's wrong about talking about the other girls that interest you?
Especially if they work the same shifts, I often get recommendations from the girls, met most of my faves that way.
I always thought the girls like to share, or maybe they're just happy to pawn me off on the next poor soul.
Either way I think it's pretty evident that I'm a wanton rapscallion so it’s all good.

 

[namssa]

Book with the other girl.........

I say just book an appointment with the other girl. Your regular girl should see that you are on the list to see another girl so it will not be a big surprise for her.

You are not the only guy she sees and you are paying for a service, you should be able to choose who you have provide said service. It probably would be a good thing to mix it up a bit. That way, your regular girl will know not to take you for granted.

Maybe she will work a little harder when she gets to see you for fear that you will like another girl better. You know how competitive girls are, so it would be win, win for you to see the other girl and make sure your regular is aware of it.

dave

 

[jjack]

save up a book a duo

save up and book a duo

 

[Markl]

There is no way your regular won't find out about it. It will create cattiness amongst them also. So if you have any feelings for your regular at all, best to leave it alone. If you are seeing a regular, then she is probably what you want and why look to stray?

The new person probably isn't, or won't be, as good as someone who is comfortable with you.

Just my 2 cents.
And as my regular would put it, it would be "Awwwwwkard."

 

[Harmony-bc]

The professional thing would be for her to be happy if you're happy. BUT......

My experience is most girls are very possessive of their regulars. I've seen screaming matches over one girl "stealing" another girls client. Movies are even filled with girls fighting over their corners (same thing). It all comes down to money. I have met some scandelous women in this business, also some very down to earth nice ones too.
Theres a very good movie with Sandra Bernhardt in it, where she befriends a young 15 year old runaway and turns her out to work in this massage parlor with her and lives off of the young girl, telling her she will invest her money for her, feeds her candy, and gives her minimum spending money. Anyways theres a fist fight in this massage parlor between two girls over sandra's "regular". I can't remember hte name of the movie, but its kind of sad and funny. Its kind of a chick flick but still quite good because there is some very gritty reality in it.

 

[Extreme April]

I never assume.....When I see a client that I know that is a regular of mine.
I always say something like this..."hi hun, nice to see you, are you here to see me?" I never assume they are there to see me.

Something that you could do and I have had a few clients ask me this too.
They will ask what a particular girl is like or who else gives good service. This tells me they like variety and not to expect me to be their only SP they see.

This will give your intentions away to your regular SP, without hurt feelings or at least prepare her to what you are about to embark in in the future.

Hope this helps you.

love and laughs
April

 

[burnman]

It's funny, but the other day when I saw my ATF I mentioned to her jokingly that every time I see another girl, I feel a little like I'm "cheating on her". She laughed and told me that girls don't mind if I guy sees one of them mostly but occasionally wonders into other neighborhoods. For me, it just reinforced what a class girl K is.

 

[69guy]

It's funny, but the other day when I saw my ATF I mentioned to her jokingly that every time I see another girl, I feel a little like I'm "cheating on her". She laughed and told me that girls don't mind if I guy sees one of them mostly but occasionally wonders into other neighborhoods. For me, it just reinforced what a class girl K is.

burnman i have to agree with you totally. K is an awesome girl, and she doesn't get jealous. i have asked her about other girls that she works with, and she encourages me to check out other girls. that way her being the manager, she can get feedback. but i tend to stick with her as she is my ATF as well. we have awesome chemistry and its always a good time.

 

[praxis]

This summarizes the correct response. . .

to this predicament - short and to the point!

grow some balls, please!

BTW: I hope Mr. P realizes that his "regular" SP or MPA sees hundreds of clients every year and not get "jealous" over that fact.

 

[TooMuchFun22]

Seriously

Everyone knows that the SPs what to form relationships with their clients.... they like when that happens.

No Really.

Show up to see your regular with out cash and then you will be reminded of the realities of the PERBING world.

And please grow some balls. She may like you.... but she likes you because you pay her for sex on a regular bases.... just remember that.

 

[jim]

Don't Worry

Any gal who would get mad at you for seeing a co-worker has no idea of how to keep her clients happy. She should be happy that you will try out a co-worker and when you return if she understands that this is a business based on repeat clients she'll treat you even better than before.

That's my 2 cents.

 

[DQ Guy]

I too felt that way once or twice..
But trust me on this one..
all you have to do I say that you were hoping to see the other gal.
If she's a class act, It wont be a problem. If it is then shes not worth your time.
But I bet it waill be ok..
Or as posted earlier... Save and book a DUO

 

[jackcb]

I'm looking at this like its a product or a business. On one hand we have a product we've used repeatively over the years, and on the other we have a new product, offering different features and benefits. Like your favorite pizza delivery place, they know you, they respect and work hard for you, and everytime you answer the door, that deliveryman and you share that unique "friendship" between a customer and his producer. Then one day, you try a different pizza place, even though its just a new experience, your old pizza place and the old deliveryman might have a feeling of being betrayed or insulted. For an sp, I don't think its much different but they should also see it as a business, rather than personal and accept that there is competition out there. The only way to beat the competition is to be better at it, and keep your customers happy with you. (Little wonder GM and Ford haven't figured this out)

One thing I know for sure, is that my regulars, be that a sexy woman or a great pizza place will always see me return, if not for a great product, then for the amazing service I always expect to get.

 

[moi]

You spelled "awkward" wrong

 

[apple juice]

I tried twice now just to drop in to see the new girl. I was hoping to see her at the door however my regular seems to answer the door and seems so excited to see me she just grabs me and walks me back. I have not been able to ask for the other girl...

Comments from the the SP's would be great as well. I guess I am too nice I just find it hard to ask for a different girl after many awesome sessions.

Pleaser

It may be awkward for you but why deprive yourself of what you want?

Book an appointment and go have some fun. I doubt your regular will feel any way...she shouldn't. That's just the nature of the business...we all must learn to share...lol. I think that most of the ladies understand this and it's okay...we don't own you.

 

[Markl]

Was talking about this tonight with my regular about this thread. She assured me that she'd be happy if I saw someone else her in her studio.