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BabyBelle

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I was a bit reluctant at first, to post this.. but someone reccommended I do so.
SO, here goes..
On Saturday, I saw a client.. he seemed very nice over the phone and such.. even for the first little while.. but he began to get a little rough with me.. we did not have intercourse, but he played down there a bit, with his fingers..
Well.. he just got rougher and rougher.. and it really hurt.. and even though I said "Ow!" several times, he didn't stop.
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Finally, an hour had passed, and he decided that he wanted a second hour.. and he also mentioned that he wanted to do greek..
I was okay with it.. I asked if he had enough money, and what he said to me was that he would pay me 280 for the rest of the session, including greek.. or so I thought.. it turns out later, he ripped me off.. but anyway,
we got to doing greek.. and he was so incredibly rough.. I was in so much pain.. said stop several times.. and "ouch".. but he just kept going.. when he was done I was in so much pain, and realised that he had .. torn me back there..
anyway, I didn't say anything about the pain I was in.. and he tried to go for more than two hours.. even though he didn't have enough money.. I was so tired and in so much pain, I just wated him to go home.. he handed me some money, and I didn't count it until I showed him out. He had given me 280 dollars *in total*. I was so upset. He not only left me in incredibly bad shape, but he ripped me off.

I now, as of Saturday, no longer travel to greece. I don't know if I ever will again.
SP's, please be careful. I don't want this happening to you too.

Please take care all of you,

-Sarah
 

bigmoe69er

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Yes, It Is Rape.

"Professional help" is very unlikely to be sought by this sadist, or to result in improvement in his behavior. He needs, at all costs, to be removed from the scene because he is a danger to the lives of the SPs he encounters. BabyBelle, it is courageous of you to post your horrible experience, but, at the same time, be careful not to deny the dynamics behind the attack. In the long haul, doing so will cause you more pain. ---Moe
 

sirlickheralot

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Disturbing Story

Sorry to hear your story hopefully you feel better soon. Hopefully it is the same asshole that Saffire met as one violent creep is more than enough.

If you haven't seen a doctor yet I would do so. Injuries in this area can be very slow to heal and there is a higher risk of infection.
 

Saffire

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Sarah, I'll be sending you my thoughts via PM, but I want everyone else to know that it is not the same "man" that assaulted me. Yes, I am positive it's not him, and no, I won't tell you why I'm so sure.

Saffire
 

Lisa

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I've been in this type of situation before, basically I said just a sec I need some water (sometimes this doesn't work, so just act aggresive like you can't wait to give him head), came back went for the oral, which of course he found great just comming out of the poop chute, and i bit down HARD.
I've done the police routine before. Was not worth it for me. Just 2 years of being pulled through the same shit by lawyers over and over. Now if a man cannot listen to a firm NO (or what i call safe words if there is role playing involved) then a firm jaw clenching on his jewel might teach him how to treat a gem in the future. With care.
 

HowieMeeker

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This is the part of the biz that SUCKS

Rape is rape. This creep clearly did not respect your "ouches" and "nos" - never acceptable unless in a prearranged play state for those who like that stuff (not for me, but I don't judge).

Lisa, I would think the biting would be a potential bad idea. Some guys could get even rougher. If this guy was that rough when having sex, think about the situation if he turned it to ass-kick time.

BabyBelle - you said he was going for a second hour. Do you have a pre-arranged someone call and check after an hour? Perhaps a speed dial to a 'buddy' that you can discreetly punch on a cell phone when you take a quick "break" (that was a good suggestion Lisa).

Guy's a creep - no question.
 

bigmoe69er

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Lisa

Your idea is bold, but it will often enrage a deviant and he will inflict greater damage. The emphasis needs to be on identifying the rapists and putting them out of commission. Your technique is good only if it is used to allow you to escape. ---Moe
 

Lisa

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yes, very much a last resort.
After that you definatly need to run and telephone your call man if you were unable to alrady. (personal friend near by who by pressing 9 on my telephone, will come right away)
 

oberon1999

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I have a couple of thoughts about this:

First: people like this don't get better they get WORSE, if they get away with hitting someone once next time they will hit them twice. The more they get away with the more they escalate the violence...

Second: As much as all of us here can say how much we dispise people like this there is really little we can do to help you ladies, it's up to you (I'm sure you already knew that). You need to do what Saffire and babybelle did, talk about it to each other. If you see fit take legal action, I'm not going to say you must you can decide that for yourselves, I doubt it will be fun so it is a tough decision. I'm not too well versed in forums for escorts only but if they exist find them and TALK.

Years ago when I was very active in the street scene one of the nonprofit groups in town put out a little one page memo to the girls on the street that listed "bad dates" things like vehicle descriptions, opening lines, suspect descriptions. Perhaps this is what is needed here...

The older I get the more stuff like this makes me sick!! Years ago I moved in a circle where I had a few friends who for the price of an hour with most ladies would insure that people like this walked with a limp for the rest of their lives. I am glad I am not there anymore BUT every now and then.........

oberon

oh yeah and at times like this my usual sig is NOT appropriate.
 

lynne

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i was wondering....

Why don't escorts have bad sheets? My pal, Alexandria, told me that "screening" clients reduces the risk of bad dates and getting ID helps too, but truly..... until you are in private you just don't know. Even if you had the courage to report a rape/assult to the authorities, the process is often one of revictimization by the cops and the judicial system. Girls not in the trade are reluctant to pursue charges due to judgement and a duty to "prove" an assult occured. This would likely be exponentialy difficult for SP or MP. The sexual assult center is a good resource for support even without charges being laid. I am sorry that you got hurt. Anal tears are difficult to heal... laxatives can help ease the pain of BM, but don't take for too long or you could get dependent on them.
 

naughtygirl

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I am so sorry this happened to you BabyBelle. I wish you the best and a fast recovery. I am new to the biz myself. I had my one and only bad experience shortly after I started. It was an outcall, and I got myself into a bad situation. There were more men than the one I expected, my cell phone was taken away. Got f***ed hard till everyone had their way, and my head had a goose egg from being slammed into the head board. After 9 hours I was let go and didn't get paid. But at that point was really just to be happy to be alive. I know how you feel to be totally disrespected as a human being, and to be ripped off on top makes it that much harder to swallow. Keep your chin up. Just a note to the men on PERB here, I have been treated with nothing but respect and I thank you for that. Respect for peoples limits are what makes the profession and the hobby more enjoyable. If you ever need an ear BabyBelle pm me, again I am so sorry.

Meaghan
 

sirlickheralot

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Holy Shit, Naughtygirl Too

Sounds like a bad date list is definately in order. A good muscle for hire service might also be a good idea. These cowardly creeps would probably crawl back into their holes if they were visited by someone who could do them some harm.

One girl I knew told me an amusing story about how the creep who pulled a knife on her actually burst into tears and begged the goons she hired, not to hurt him. They did their work then took the guys drivers licence with the warning that he had better stay far away from her.
 

Lee

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So sorry this has happened to so many

Comments in this thread by BB, Meaghan and others, stick in my mind. These are terrible things to happen to anyone. I am truly sorry that some men out there are eager to do these things to women in this business.

The women in this business need a security system. It is surprisingly hard to get one useful for these purposes. It needs to be a negative check off-that is, trouble is registered when they do not call after a specified time. It needs to have GPS built in, ideally. Then it needs to connect to some serious security dudes.
 

BabyBelle

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I've decided to take a little break, just so you all know. I'll still be on the boards and stuff.. but, I won't be taking any clients.. I'm in rough shape.
Thank you all for the support and such, it is greatly appreciated.

-Sarah
 

PiL

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Another perspective?

Okay, I'd first like to say that what happens to some girls is truly deplorable and should never happen to anyone. If the law were just, people like this would be castrated.

That all said, there are certain issues surrounding the keeping of a bad date list that I don't feel people are thinking about. What most "pooners" (I find it hard to say that as it's such a PERB specific word <eg>) don't realize is that a bad date list requires a great many more SPs to actively keep sensitive information on ALL their clients. As such, how does anyone know if that information is being kept or if it is being destroyed after a date? I don't know about many of the members here on PERB but I hold my personal info and my activities in this hobby as being very important to be kept private.

This came up months ago over on TERB in Toronto and the storm over it was fierce. The fact is that while I have no doubts there are a vast majority of SPs who could easily be trusted with such information, it would only take one vindicative SP to get her hands on a compiled list of any sort to wipe out a great many lives and thrust the clients into the public eye (which is generally not something we want, correct?). Then there is the problem of SPs being able to agree among themselves if they trust the next girl enough to believe they are adding truly bad clients or just people they don't like (maybe for something as simple as a perceived slight on this very forum). Regardless, what is being proposed takes a monumental amount of trust from people who typically are not very sure about who they can trust (or why would we be here looking for help?).

Perhaps there is a way to do a bad date list that will protect the clients interests as well as the SPs, but I just felt I should bring up the enormous potential for abuse so that people are not surprised later on. I really don't have any answers, just more things to consider. ;)

PiL
 

happyjack

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Hi Sara,

New user here, that's really shocking to here. If you aren't comfortable reporting it to the police then you should post all his details, along with date of attack, his description and phone # if you have it on the internet. I can't remember where but I have seen "blacklist" sites. I will check and get back to you. If you have time maybe mass email girls or when you do renew your ad ask them to pass on the warning.

take care HJ
 
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