I have been a regular on AFF for several years. I'm not going to give out my handle for obvious reasons, but I am well known. If you want to fast track your presence on the website, go the chat rooms, espcially the BC Room.
I have met several women, most were nice, some not so nice and one is my best friend. I have never met a SP, but I did exchange e-mails with one, but I declined. I used to spend several hours a week on chat, but had to cut down as it was interfearing with my sleep the action starts around 10PM.
Try it you will love it.