How Do Some Guys Do Multiple Shots?

For me the chemistry w the lady is key. If I hope for X2 I book for an hour and express my desire. I like to get the first one out of the way with a fun quickie. Then mutual chill and massage, light touching etc for 15 mins or so after to recharge and then dial up the intensity for round 2.

I need her to want me to get there. Not just willing (ie "go ahead and get hard again and I will let you" just doesnt work for me).

Communication is a big part of good sex for me. If you are nice, clean, friendly and communicate your desires you will be amazed how many SPs will try very hard to deliver.

Some dont care and would prefer the 45 min pay off and out the door. I dont repeat those.

Lefty

Fiona said:

It’s as individual as we are ☺ I’ve had young men who can only cum once and that’s it “give me a sandwich & a nap & I’ll get back to you “! And some 65 year olds who can go 2-3 times in the session.
It depends on all parties involved. I love to play , so even after you cum I’m very likely not going to stop touching you , I’ve heard a lot of men say , Jesus , I didn’t think I could get hard that fast again , never mind cum “ 😗 I’m relentless.

The heightened excitement of an encounter with a new lover can give that exact boost . That’s very common. So many factors “cum” into play , as long as your having hot n horny fun and your time is full of giggles and lust who cares about the number 😘

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Find Fiona.
Book session.
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Lefty said:

For me the chemistry w the lady is key. If I hope for X2 I book for an hour and express my desire. I like to get the first one out of the way with a fun quickie. Then mutual chill and massage, light touching etc for 15 mins or so after to recharge and then dial up the intensity for round 2.

I need her to want me to get there. Not just willing (ie "go ahead and get hard again and I will let you" just doesnt work for me).

Communication is a big part of good sex for me. If you are nice, clean, friendly and communicate your desires you will be amazed how many SPs will try very hard to deliver.

Some dont care and would prefer the 45 min pay off and out the door. I dont repeat those.

Lefty

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Yes, exactly!!

Well, I'm a sample size of one, so take it for what it's worth.

I've always had a very high sex drive. In my twenties I have little doubt I could have accomplished three (or more) in an hour without breaking a sweat. Someone on here mentioned helping oneself three times a day and I almost laughed out loud simply because for me that might well have been in a half an hour. I don't remember a "record in a day", but I'm sure it would have been well into the double digits. I don't say that to boast - it was just my reality. In fact I remember times when I wished I had LESS drive.

BUT... I am much older now, and my body had a pretty rough fight with cancer for a few years. Now I'm one-and-done. It's common for me to be ready to finish within the first fifteen minutes, but I know if I do that's it - I won't get another and I won't have the energy to keep going. I can easily get hard again a second time, but there's no way I'll finish so I don't bother trying. So I put off my one shot so I can enjoy more of the time. The downside to that is if I put it off, it's not unusual for me to have difficulty finishing at all. Having trouble finishing isn't ideal, but overall it's still better (for me) than finishing too soon and being done for the night.

The cool thing is that I've met some very lovely ladies who have gone above and beyond when I have trouble finishing. Those are now the ladies for me!

I've been blessed with a very active libido and high sperm count. If I don't cum at least twice, I find it hard to relax.

In my early to mid 20's the idea of getting off two shots in an hour wouldn't have been a problem at all, but as I have moved into my mid-30's I've already noticed a significant difference in my ability to pull this off.

I've had multiple sessions where a second round was initiated and I had no problem getting it up, but in the end I just wasn't able to get there and fire off that second shot. It was honestly a bit frustrating, but in the end I realized that a lot of it was due to the pressure I was putting on myself to perform. I also realized that after a quick turnaround from that first pop, my sensitivity isn't nearly the same and as a result FS isn't my best avenue to go when looking for that second shot

With my regular SP we have now found a good setup where the first shot is FS and if we are going for that second shot it is a combo of mouth and hands with ample dirty talk which almost always gets us to the finish line a second time. In the end it all came down to understanding what worked best for my body and realizing that that didn't necessarily mean a second shot in FS.

With that being said, nothing is ever a sure thing and if it's a day where we get started on that second shot and I just don't feel like it's going to happen I'm fairly quick to let her know.

I'd also reiterate what others have said, communication is such a key in things like this. The ladies are service providers and in my experience are more than happy to accommodate what you need as long as you are respectful, clean and kind.

Hard for me, the 1st pop ALWAYS feels best anyway, most intense & biggest load.
2nd i cant do that easily within the hour & doesnt feel as intense, just a "squirt"...I also cant get how some guys do msog.

Hmmm... interesting thread.
Mid-50s here, healthy diet and regular exercise, no little blue pills needed... so I probably could still pull-off a second shot in an hour (I certainly have watching MFC & Pornhub LOL)... but my question is "why"?
The joy of seeing an SP is the sensuality of the encounter, the foreplay, the build-up, the climax and even the pillow-talk afterwards. I did a spontaneous MSOG not long ago during a 45 min. session, but it wasn't planned. I usually try to make it last until near the end of the session, but this time (new SP, amazing connection) I came closer to the midway mark, then while we were chatting I noticed that my erection had barely subsided... so, almost as a "lets see what happens?" we did a round 2 and it was fun. Was it "better" than a single shot? Not really, although the novelty was interesting.
That being said, this seems like a case study in the economic "law of marginal return"... forcing yourself to go for MSOG past a certain age (this conversation may not be relevant to dudes in their 20s or 30s) would be added and unnecessary pressure IMHO.
Having to "time" the first pop early enough to have sufficient refractory time, then watching the clock during halftime (which would distract from normally relaxed post-coital chit-chat), then the pressure to make round 2 happen and finish before the appointed time is up... all seems like a nightmare!
Like most things in life, quality over quantity.

Msog especially in a hour or less left my world of possibilities somewhere around my 45th birthday, at least with a sp. Now maybe in a group setting with a couple couples... with a little more time probably doable. I will get right back to you once I try, been out of that circle for awhile now, I miss Allure.

I can generally get off 2 shots in an hour session. The second one tends to be very quick though because I tend to rush it... If I was particularly more enthusiastic during the first shot, I sometimes respectfully decline the second shot if asked...

Actually no.. the question is not why. The question is quite literally: HOW. It's in the title.

Nobody is asking what you prefer, nor is anyone being attacked for wanting to do one shot an hour. OP is asking how. So far, relevant responses have seem to be: be young and have high sex drive, eat sleep drink exercise appropriately, use blue pill.

I don't get the appeal of MSOG.

I never opt for MSOG or use pills. Instead, I control my pace, practice my holding power and edge myself through the entire duration of the session and have one intense explosion at the end.

Like others have pointed out here, the intensity and desire to make the second pop don't quite match the first one, so why try to make two pops instead of trying to make one remarkable shot lol

Also agreeing with what some of you said: "It's about the journey not the destination." No matter how great the finale is, it only lasts a few seconds, but the entire play is what you pay for. When you focus on enjoying her body, her scent, you won't be thinking about popping, you just want the times where you are exploring and tasting her body to last forever, and that's how I am able to edge myself. Just enjoy the journey until you arrive at the destination. That being said, the chemistry and connection between me and the lady have to be great for this to happen. 🤷🏾‍♂️

How do you put off the first shot??? Do you mean, you just actively slow down, and turn to some more kissing or foreplay on her to get yourself a break, or do you mean, you can control telling yourself not to cum?!?

happycanuck99 said:

Well, I'm a sample size of one, so take it for what it's worth.

I've always had a very high sex drive. In my twenties I have little doubt I could have accomplished three (or more) in an hour without breaking a sweat. Someone on here mentioned helping oneself three times a day and I almost laughed out loud simply because for me that might well have been in a half an hour. I don't remember a "record in a day", but I'm sure it would have been well into the double digits. I don't say that to boast - it was just my reality. In fact I remember times when I wished I had LESS drive.

BUT... I am much older now, and my body had a pretty rough fight with cancer for a few years. Now I'm one-and-done. It's common for me to be ready to finish within the first fifteen minutes, but I know if I do that's it - I won't get another and I won't have the energy to keep going. I can easily get hard again a second time, but there's no way I'll finish so I don't bother trying. So I put off my one shot so I can enjoy more of the time. The downside to that is if I put it off, it's not unusual for me to have difficulty finishing at all. Having trouble finishing isn't ideal, but overall it's still better (for me) than finishing too soon and being done for the night.

The cool thing is that I've met some very lovely ladies who have gone above and beyond when I have trouble finishing. Those are now the ladies for me!

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Tina at Tiger...two shots every time in 45 minutes. First shot with no holding back sex in five to ten minutes. Then 15 minute massage. Second shot always after non stop crazy aggressive BBBJ with CIM.
Early 50’s.

Fnxmine said:

How do you put off the first shot??? Do you mean, you just actively slow down, and turn to some more kissing or foreplay on her to get yourself a break, or do you mean, you can control telling yourself not to cum?!?

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Yes, I've learned to control myself. I doubt I'm exceptional - I'm sure there are plenty of guys here that can. A huge part of it is, of course, practice. (It's also easier with age, at least for me.) However, there are definitely techniques you can use. You've already mentioned a few. Also, I assume you know that 90% (or whatever) is in your mind, right? It's one of the biggest reasons guys can have trouble finishing - stress or distraction or whatever. You can use that to your advantage. I'm not saying you have to think about something ugly or negative. Just slow your racing mind down by thinking of other things. For me it's often moving my concentration from the small head to making positive observations about the lady I'm with - things I like or appreciate. For me it makes the whole experience that much more pleasurable. I have occasionally had sessions with ladies that got me so excited I had to do more like pulling back (out), changing positions, or whatever, but usually I can manage mentally. Word of warning, though: if you're like me, if you put it off too much or too long you may have trouble finishing at all.

I'm sure you can do it too, with a little practice.

P.S. I've sometimes been tempted to challenge the lady I'm with to get a second one out of me, but I don't think that's fair pressure on her.

OneLuckyGuy said:

For me orgasm is not as important as the ride to get there. I love pre-orgasm play and sensitivity during the build up just as much as the actual orgasm itself if not more. It's more about the journey than the destination.

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I have to agree and the better the journey the more intense the prize!

Never mind MSOG I recently went for a massage and HE and it took me about 15 mins of straight jacking it to come. For me it's all about the connection, the mutual enjoyment and the setting.

A HJ on a table in a dimly lit garage while the lady doing the work is growing impatient is not going to help, if anything it'll make me soft. But a hot steamy session where the hot woman is ticking all your boxes - diamonds! I either last frustratingly long or pop a shot off way faster than planned.

I've gone for MSOG but only once I've managed the second shot (36 and in shape to answer those questions). But like others have said, a nice massage followed by a nice big orgasm and some cuddle time afterwards is as good as it gets. Why sully the first shot by stressing about getting out a second.

C’mon, msog is just goo rationing. I can’t ration—it’s a massive once-n-done till tomorrow for me, but the condom is half-full. No holding back. Every cell in my body ejaculates. One biggie!. I wouldn’t trade that for fuel injector sex. But hey, spurt-on you misers.

OneLuckyGuy said:

For me orgasm is not as important as the ride to get there. I love pre-orgasm play and sensitivity during the build up just as much as the actual orgasm itself if not more. It's more about the journey than the destination.

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That's my pitch to the ladies. Learn to live with disappointment if you're with me.

I'm capable of going multiple times with only a moment or two between, but each time it gets harder to get off. I've also found the last few years it takes the right woman and circumstance to keep me interested in going again. (37 btw)