My Tale

[Markl]

of woe really.

I met Cherry while I was trying to get over a bad infatuation sometime in February of this year. She helped me get over it quite quickly honestly. She has some health problems and I found myself instantly attracted to her because she had a bad session with someone who ripped her off. I felt protective of her.

What I didn't know then, I do know now. Every time I saw her, and used her for sex, it took a bit more of her respect away from me. I thought I was helping her financially, but I was just taking a little bit of her soul each time. I apologized today when she told me this. I fell in love with her, and will probably be for a long time, hence the white knightism. Someone said on here once that falling for your sp never turns out well.

She broke up with her fiancee the weekend past and being me, my mind was racing 100 miles an hour. Mainly I just wanted to know she was okay, so I called in sick to work today and went to talk to her. To make a long story short, she will never see a client in her personal life, no matter how nice they are, or how much they make, or how they feel.

So I decided for the fourth time to try get over her and called her back to tell her and she told me she'll refuse to see me as a client from now on, for my own good, which I agreed to and thanked her for it. I apologized for paying her for sex. I see now that it was wrong, however good my intentions were.

So, yes, falling in love with an sp never turns out well. I thought if I loved her enough, hung in there enough, she might change her mind. I know that will never happen now though.

I am left here, stuck with my love for her, can't see her again, not even as a friend, which she had become to me.

Life sucks, I should have gotten the helmet.

If you read this Cherry my dear, I'm sorry, I really do wish you all the best, and hope you do have a wonderful life. I will remember that last Wednesday forever.

I won't be partaking of anyone's pieces of souls anymore.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G999thE5UOo

 

[golfer_88]

Amen brotha....

I can feel you pain because I've been there, but in the end it is for the better.

 

[HB40]

So I decided for the fourth time to try get over her and called her back to tell her and she told me she'll refuse to see me as a client from now on, for my own good, which I agreed to and thanked her for it.

So, yes, falling in love with an sp never turns out well.

I'm sorry to hear that Markl, it's going to be rough on you I'm sure. I recently experienced something similar.
I was told the same thing from a long time favorite, except it was for her good.
It sucks getting dumped by an SP but I fucked up so I couldn't blame her. Sure was humiliating though and hurt like a bugger, but what are ya gonna do....

 

[Markl]

Just need to keep on going I guess. I don't really care about myself as much as I care about her, and that's just pathetic on my part.

Ah well, thanks for the words gents.

 

[DQ Guy]

Speaking from experiance.
Have no fear, the world works in very strange ways.
as they say there is someone for everyone.
who knows, you might meet that one tomorrow at a store shopping
for carrots...

 

[Fort MacGuy]

So does that mean...

that each client she sees takes away a little part of her soul every time? Please correct me if I'm wrong, but does your post tell us that she doesn't enjoy her work and that every time she gets paid for sex, she feels a little bit worse?

 

[woozie]

Tale

stick with the asian micros...service is better and there is NEVER any emotional attraction...christ we can't speak to each other...

 

[slamma]

Observations regarding pooning

1. SPs allow guys to bang them for the money and only for the money. They really don't give a flying fuck about you. Some guys are real saps and they are easily led to believe that there is some magical connection. There is none - guys like this are just easy to extract money from. Behind their backs they giggle about what an easy mark such guys can be.

2. Every relationship an SP enters into is doomed to fail. They bounce from boyfriend to boyfriend, sometimes get married, but ultimately these relationships get flushed down the crapper. If you are the kind of moron that is waiting for your fav to break up with her boyfriend / husband, the good news is that you won't have to wait very long. Which leads to:

3. After yet another SPs relationship hits the skids, and some pooner thinks that he is now going to date her - the best thing that can happen to him is that she turns him down. The pooner would have just end up like another one of those guys in point 2 above with nothing but a legacy of wasted time and wasted money to look back on.

Never lose sight of the fact that this is a business transaction. Enjoy the NSA sex that pooning allows, select a wide variety of ladies, but at the end of the sessions take great comfort in the fact that you get to leave being down only a couple of bills and be glad that you are not sticking around for the inevitable train wreck and drama that most SPs lives entail.

 

[high-end hottie]

2. Every relationship an SP enters into is doomed to fail. They bounce from boyfriend to boyfriend, sometimes get married, but ultimately these relationships get flushed down the crapper. If you are the kind of moron that is waiting for your fav to break up with her boyfriend / husband, the good news is that you won't have to wait very long. . . .

Kind of a generalization, don't you think? Many SPs are in long-term, happy, healthy stable relationships. Having a supportive and secure, love-filled home life can enable an SP to enter into a client relationship free of any hang-ups, bitterness, desperation, etc. so that she can give of herself physically and emotionally during the session and draw the line at where it starts and ends without paying a psychological price for it. You seem to imply that all SPs are f---ed up and are less than human. Not true.

 

[TooMuchFun22]

of woe really.

I met Cherry while I was trying to get over a bad infatuation sometime in February of this year. She helped me get over it quite quickly honestly. She has some health problems and I found myself instantly attracted to her because she had a bad session with someone who ripped her off. I felt protective of her.

What I didn't know then, I do know now. Every time I saw her, and used her for sex, it took a bit more of her respect away from me. I thought I was helping her financially, but I was just taking a little bit of her soul each time. I apologized today when she told me this. I fell in love with her, and will probably be for a long time, hence the white knightism. Someone said on here once that falling for your sp never turns out well.

She broke up with her fiancee the weekend past and being me, my mind was racing 100 miles an hour. Mainly I just wanted to know she was okay, so I called in sick to work today and went to talk to her. To make a long story short, she will never see a client in her personal life, no matter how nice they are, or how much they make, or how they feel.

So I decided for the fourth time to try get over her and called her back to tell her and she told me she'll refuse to see me as a client from now on, for my own good, which I agreed to and thanked her for it. I apologized for paying her for sex. I see now that it was wrong, however good my intentions were.

So, yes, falling in love with an sp never turns out well. I thought if I loved her enough, hung in there enough, she might change her mind. I know that will never happen now though.

I am left here, stuck with my love for her, can't see her again, not even as a friend, which she had become to me.

Life sucks, I should have gotten the helmet.

If you read this Cherry my dear, I'm sorry, I really do wish you all the best, and hope you do have a wonderful life. I will remember that last Wednesday forever.

I won't be partaking of anyone's pieces of souls anymore.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G999thE5UOo

Sorry to hear about your situation MARKL.... but just to clarify "I would never get involved with ANY client" is just SP speak for "SORRY no DICE, and I am trying not to hurt your feelings".

This is right from the book "she is just not that into you."

Sorry buddy but grab a clue. It is her job to have sex with you for money. With out the money she has no income.

If anyone isn't sure of how this industry works, try this.

Go to your favorite MP, ask to see your favorite SP but leave your wallet at home. Tell her that you would like to spend some time with her, and have sex, but you would rather it be based upon your connection, not the financial submission. See what happens.

If you happen to want to date or marry your favorite SP ask her for her number. Tell her you would like to call her and go for a drink. If she says yes, tell her you are going to stop seeing her as a client for a while, and wait to go for a drink. If all goes well, maybe you can hang out..... but remember if you hang out in real life.... it all depends on the attraction and your charm etc. etc. with no $$$ there is no obligation for her to be nice to you or even like you....

My guess is a lot of pooners really struggle with interacting with real women in the real world when they cannot buy attention or affection.

 

[rescue911]

lot of truth

although slamma goes a bit far with generalizations he is correct. this is a business for these ladies. the relationship begins when she enters the room and ends when you close the door after she leaves.

these ladies have lives outside of what they do for a living..and are happy with those lives. they may enjoy being with you as a client because you are respectful, fun, and a source of income without any grief but that is the extent of their relationship with you.

think of your time with them as an hour at the spa...fun, relaxing, recharging..but that is it...nothing too personal at all. i enjoy them as much as the next guy but i also know why we are both in the room together...to enjoy and to say goodbye at the end.

sorry you were hurt..but sometimes we are our own worst enemy and bring much grief upon ourselves.

 

[Vienna]

1. SPs allow guys to bang them for the money and only for the money. They really don't give a flying fuck about you. Some guys are real saps and they are easily led to believe that there is some magical connection. There is none - guys like this are just easy to extract money from. Behind their backs they giggle about what an easy mark such guys can be.

2. Every relationship an SP enters into is doomed to fail. They bounce from boyfriend to boyfriend, sometimes get married, but ultimately these relationships get flushed down the crapper. If you are the kind of moron that is waiting for your fav to break up with her boyfriend / husband, the good news is that you won't have to wait very long. Which leads to:

3. After yet another SPs relationship hits the skids, and some pooner thinks that he is now going to date her - the best thing that can happen to him is that she turns him down. The pooner would have just end up like another one of those guys in point 2 above with nothing but a legacy of wasted time and wasted money to look back on.

Never lose sight of the fact that this is a business transaction. Enjoy the NSA sex that pooning allows, select a wide variety of ladies, but at the end of the sessions take great comfort in the fact that you get to leave being down only a couple of bills and be glad that you are not sticking around for the inevitable train wreck and drama that most SPs lives entail.

Hate to say it, but not ALL SP's "bounce from boyfriend to boyfriend" and such. Also not ALL relationships SP's get into are "doomed to fail". Are you kidding me? I agree with the person who said "kind of a generalization".

Just because you're a "pooner" and you have "pooned" and have haid NSA sex with an SP(s), does NOT mean they are ALL the same. It's guys like you who seem to know it all, until you meet someone and they are not like the "rest". I'm not saying go ahead and be a "sap" as you call it or whatever, but please watch how you word things on here as it can quickly make one look ignorant by easily just stereotyping and thinking you just KNOW all SP's are relationship failures so to speak.


Please next time open up your eyes and most importantly your MIND and realize to understand that not everyone in any given line or work is the same. I've met many men from all lines of work and could sit here and easily stereotype many, but I don't. And this is the TRUTH. Because not all doctors are the same, not all lawyers are BORING(LOL!) and not all men who work in the oilfield("riggers") are losers/have rough hands/and have substance abuse problems. I know this because I've met MANY from MANY different lines of work.

So once again...just learn to open your mind. Not everything or everyone is what it/they're "supposed to be".

 

[HB40]

Wow, for someone who likes brain teasers and puzzles so much you sure aren't trying very hard. Hint: it's literally spelled out for you in his post, sure the letters are jumbled up but that shouldn't be a problem for someone like you.

Two things:

1.) Who exactly is Cherry (at which studio?)

2.) Are you still a frickin' teenager or something? Do you ALWAYS feel like this over women whom you hardly know and just have paid sex with? Grow up already!

Aw shucks, that's one of the nicest things you could say about us....now excuse me while I go for my manicure, visit my dealer and stop off to see my fave SP to express my undying love.

and not all men who work in the oilfield("riggers") are losers/have rough hands/and have substance abuse problems.

 

[praxis]

This Cherry. . .

Who exactly is Cherry (at which studio?)

Cherry at velvet touch

I thought she was quitting the business (as their schedule suggests:

http://velvettouchspa.com/schedule.html)

and as Markl says on Nov 4:

... Since she'll be leaving the province at the end of this month, ...

- or is this just a line she's using to blow off Markl?

 

[schizo_man]

frankly I think that markl should have left this whole thing private. no wonder she doesn't want a relationship with him. He outted her as to getting engaged, outted her break up, kinda like posting private info, no?

I do hope that this doesn't turn into a stalker type thing. He's said he's tried four times to get over her...... but had to call and try "one more time". Buddy, leave her alone. Stop posting about her, stop dedicating songs to her on a public forum. That's just creepy.

Whatever happened to Chuckie?

 

[luvpussy]

Here's a slightly different twist on this topic. I had a favorite SP for some 6 or 7 years and we got together and have had a wonderful relationship for three years now. After two marriages I believe I've found a relationship that has meaning understanding and a future. My desire to see SP's no longer exists probably just because if want to go I can, though there's no need when I have the best right beside me in bed every night. Frankly I think it depends on the people involved as many ladies in the busness are normal people doing what they have to just to get ahead and not all appointments are boring for them either. Not all are druggies or problem people, granted on a percentage basis there are likely more screwed up persons in this business than many others. Just don't tar all women with the same brush. They are in a business to meet the desires and needs of us guys and while service may vary from girl to girl over all they do a pretty good job and if you don't agree just read this board on a regular basis.

 

[magic]

Tale

Did any SPs ever fell for their clients with an/un happy endings?

Care to share the tales?

Lets have more comments from SPs on mr.markl's tale....besides ms VIENNA....

 

[HB40]

So, yes, falling in love with an sp never turns out well. I thought if I loved her enough, hung in there enough, she might change her mind. I know that will never happen now though.

I am left here, stuck with my love for her, can't see her again, not even as a friend, which she had become to me.

If you read this Cherry my dear, I'm sorry, I really do wish you all the best, and hope you do have a wonderful life. I will remember that last Wednesday forever.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G999thE5UOo

frankly I think that markl should have left this whole thing private. no wonder she doesn't want a relationship with him. He outted her as to getting engaged, outted her break up, kinda like posting private info, no?

I do hope that this doesn't turn into a stalker type thing. He's said he's tried four times to get over her...... but had to call and try "one more time". Buddy, leave her alone. Stop posting about her, stop dedicating songs to her on a public forum. That's just creepy.

I can't comment on the privacy thing although that does seem logical in hindsight, it probably wasn't wise to talk about those personal things here. But I doubt very much he is a stalker. His relationship has been well documented and anyone who has read his posts knows he has decent feelings for this girl. I think he is harmless, just a hopeless romantic. If you read his post I think you can see it was mostly in hopes Cherry will read it and the song I'm sure has meaning for them both, they shared an interest in music. He has accepted it's over, he makes that point. Nothing creepy, it shows the gentleman he is.

Markl, you are a grown man (I don't know your age but that doesn't matter) but based on what you've wrote in your post, you're making it seem that you have the emotional stability of a 12 or 13 year old experiencing his first pangs of puppy love for the first time. You're not a child anymore. Grow up, get over it, and move on. Your behaviour and feelings would be fine for an adolescent but for a grown man to feel this way, well, that's just pathetic and creepy.

That's your problem sperminator, you're basing judgement on this post. You don't know what you're talking about and throwing insults without care. That's why I made the comment about your love of puzzles, you should have investigated things a little first before spouting off like a fool.

 

[Markl]

I thought she was quitting the business (as their schedule suggests:

- or is this just a line she's using to blow off Markl?

She was never quitting, she was moving out of province, but would come back to work a week a month.

 

[Dark_Knight]

I wouldn't say this situation is the same as mine, but for me after every time I saw a SP, I felt a little more hollow inside. Hell, I always enjoyed the sex but I missed the emotional aspect. I decided to retire from the hobby and focus on meeting girls out there that I don't have to pay directly for the sex (It seems almost every girl you have to pay indirectly... gifts, suppers, etc...) Well since that time I have been on several dates and even have had sex with some of them. I feel much more fulfilled after having sex with someone that I am not paying directly and that I can spend time with aside from the sex... watching movies, eating, it is a pleasant change.

DK