So.....

[moi]

Someone apparently told me to "dumb it up" with clients. I like to talk and learn and I believe I can ALWAYS learn something especially in this industry and I have a thirst for knowledge. HOWEVER.....it was suggested to me to "dumb it up" and be "blonde" in the room....

what do you guys prefer?

 

[terryfic]

I think it's best to just be yourself. If you act dumb it will show thru and most guys just want the real thing.

 

[Kashs]

I really don't agree with that. Personally I enjoy friendly intelligent conversations with the lady and believe it adds to the overall quality of the session itself.

The only time it will become a problem is if you come across as a know-it-all, or if you talk so much that it becomes annoying. As with any conversation, the key is to become an active listener, and if it looks like the gentleman is in way over his head, then maybe is time to change the topic or get on with the action.

 

[jim]

In my opinion

Intelligence is sexy.

 

[DQ Guy]

Dumb is dumb
and who really wants to f*ck a stupid girl?
I'll just fu*k yeah stupid

 

[Guardian Angel]

Time to talk and a time to get sexy

Both, with the right combination makes for a great session. To ask a guy what he thinks about the stock market while you are fondling the boys may not get the results you are both looking for, lol.

G.A.

 

[littlejonny]

If you can, try to read your client and customize your personality to what appeals to him. If he has a big ego, it's probably best to dumb it up a bit and make him feel good about himself.

If he is a regular guy and seems fairly intelligent, it's probably best to be more yourself. Dumbing it up will make you boring after awhile.

If he seems shy and has low self esteem, then you might have to take the lead a little more without being condescending in the process.

This is coming from someone who's had more years of sales experience than he cares to say.

 

[bigbill]

I'm not terribly interested in conversation while I cram my face into some beauty's perfectly shaped ass, but I do appreciate it once the sweaty act is complete and chores are being attended to.

 

[moi]

I'm not terribly interested in conversation while I cram my face into some beauty's perfectly shaped ass, but I do appreciate it once the sweaty act is complete and chores are being attended to.

lol...at least you're honest

 

[namssa]

No Shortage of Dumb in The World....

There are lots of "dumb" girls to talk to in the world (dumb guys too, yes I know). Finding a sexy intelligent woman to who knows something about the world is a treat to be sure. Talk is fine, but when it is time to play, we are not so much interested in the talk as we are in action. It is nice to know that the girl you are with has a brain to go with the sexy body.

 

[69guy]

I myself can't stand it when an SP acts like an airhead. if someone actually told you to "dumb-down", then maybe they need to get out of the business. sounds like total jealousy to me. why else would anyone say that kind of crap. i think intelligence is very very very sexy. if i can have an intelligent conversation with the girl i am gonna shag, than all the better. i have stayed with a few SP's that have either portrayed they are dimwitted, or they truly were, and i can tell you it made for a very boring un-fun session.

 

[wickedwillie]

it doesn't matter

Someone apparently told me to "dumb it up" with clients. I like to talk and learn and I believe I can ALWAYS learn something especially in this industry and I have a thirst for knowledge. HOWEVER.....it was suggested to me to "dumb it up" and be "blonde" in the room....

what do you guys prefer?

who cares if you do a guy good

If you want a thirst.... forget knowledge and thirst for the TAP

I go for the sex nothing else

If you perform i could care less if your dumb (had some great times with sexual airheads ) or smart (hmmm these girls wanna talk too much wasting valuable time )

then again i change my mind i think you should "dumb it up"

anyways

I am usually leaving out the door as soon as I am done

 

[chris2008]

Personally, I think intelligence is overrated. At work, I deal with people who are extremely brilliant. Some are awesome to work with and some to put it nicely are pathological egotists in that they treat people who they think are below them poorly. It's tolerated because it's all about getting results. Means to an end right? Company profits aren't driven by nice guys.

Here, this is a people/relationship business. To me at least, I would rather be with a person that is down to earth regardless of "intelligence".

 

[wolverine]

Personally I want any lady I'm with, SP or otherwise, to have a working brain in her head. I'm not asking for someone with a PhD, but she should at least be able to participate in a reasonably intelligent conversation, along with her own well-developed set of opinions, ideas, personality and sense of humour.