22 yr old student looking for his first time with sp

[Small pleasures]

Maybe AJ?

Dont worry about being put in the older age group Miss T your considered older to me but I'm sure not to most of the men who are on this board.

*sniff* Last week some young buck about your age sent me a message on one of those alternative dating sites and said he was looking for an experience with an 'older' woman. I was so miffed I didn't even email him back.

Seems silly when I have tended to go for men so young I joke with my friends they smelled like baby powder. Maybe a mid-life crisis? I just hate to admit that some would consider me 'older' when I feel so young. Ego.

I have another recommendation for ya. AJ (Arabella) who works part time has been feeling frisky lately. She's cute, older than mid 30's, fun, orally fixated and too tight for me to fist (which is a first for me). She only does this part time when she's feeling like some naughty fun...not really for the money. Semi-pro you could say. PM me if you'd like more info.

 

[sonoman]

Seems silly when I have tended to go for men so young I joke with my friends they smelled like baby powder.

Naughty girl, you...

AJ (Arabella) who works part time has been feeling frisky lately. She's cute, older than mid 30's, fun, orally fixated and too tight for me to fist

... she certainly doesn't look it; not at all a bad thing...

 

[darkstar]

*sniff* Last week some young buck about your age sent me a message on one of those alternative dating sites and said he was looking for an experience with an 'older' woman. I was so miffed I didn't even email him back.

Seems silly when I have tended to go for men so young I joke with my friends they smelled like baby powder. Maybe a mid-life crisis? I just hate to admit that some would consider me 'older' when I feel so young. Ego.

I have another recommendation for ya. AJ (Arabella) who works part time has been feeling frisky lately. She's cute, older than mid 30's, fun, orally fixated and too tight for me to fist (which is a first for me). She only does this part time when she's feeling like some naughty fun...not really for the money. Semi-pro you could say. PM me if you'd like more info.

lol you shouldn't take it too personally because he probably means older as in comparsion to his age not older as in old . baby powder haha I think you have to go a little younger to be craddle robbing . I can put some baby powder on if thats a fetish ahha jk jk . Another recommendation there is already too many good ones to pick from .

 

[AA_Train]

*sniff* Last week some young buck about your age sent me a message on one of those alternative dating sites and said he was looking for an experience with an 'older' woman. I was so miffed I didn't even email him back.

Seems silly when I have tended to go for men so young I joke with my friends they smelled like baby powder. Maybe a mid-life crisis? I just hate to admit that some would consider me 'older' when I feel so young. Ego.

Well Miss T if it's any consolation I think you look better than most 22 year olds I know and are probably a whole lot more fun to be with

 

[Arabella]

Blushing...

thanks for the hand.. um I mean referral.. lol

I have another recommendation for ya. AJ (Arabella) who works part time has been feeling frisky lately. She's cute, older than mid 30's, fun, orally fixated and too tight for me to fist (which is a first for me). She only does this part time when she's feeling like some naughty fun...not really for the money. Semi-pro you could say. PM me if you'd like more info.

 

[ChineseDude]

Well said. Do a lil research on Ada......Farts are included in her standard rates

I guess ada's a bad example, April would be a better fit. But my point is, young K-girls, which I have been addicted to, they are all so pretty, but I rather have dirty girls when I go massage. Escorts are too expensive for me, $$.50 way outta range, not much interest in white girls also.

 

[lenharper]

Here's the thing...

you need to know the road you are walking down.

if you are a 22 year old dude -- decide this now, do you want to be a guy who fucks girls for money or do you want to be a guy "who doesn't have to do that". it would have been inconceivable for me (at your age) to "lower" myself and become someone who needed to drop coin to sleep with a girl. that said, you make your own choices.

i "fucked" my first sp in my early forties. i had slept with all manner of civilians, got married fell in love etc but at a certain point decided i wanted/needed to sleep with a pro. i did and have enjoyed it --a lot -- but i wouldn't have if i was 22. at 45 i am old enough to understand emotional limits (and make no mistake, if you are with a good SP, those limits will be tested) and can relax and enjoy the pleasure of straight out carnality but even I wonder, at times. should i try and ditch my entire life and pursue this woman -- this whore, this slut, this pedal to the metal sex machine.

sex, even with a paid companion, comes with emotional risk. if you are going to do it you should know that you will "hurt". the decision you make has nothing at all to do with dollars and cents. that is probably the least important part of the equation.

 

[Small pleasures]

sex, even with a paid companion, comes with emotional risk. if you are going to do it you should know that you will "hurt". the decision you make has nothing at all to do with dollars and cents. that is probably the least important part of the equation.

OMG. Does anyone actually agree with this?!

Maybe there's some emotional risk, but it's certainly a calculated risk, like everytime you get into a car you know you may die. But c'mon.

I know you may think a female Pro Domme wouldn't be able to relate to a male who pays for sex, but don't be so sure.

I have been facinated with the concept of paying for sex for as long as I can remember. I've paid for a rub and tug from a man (whom I later found out was gay). I have given my boyfriend $300 to go sleep with an escort just so he would tell me every detail. I'm about as mentally and emotionally healthy/balanced as they come.

If Darkstar has thought about his decision enough to post here to find the right lady for his first, he's already taking mature, well-thought out steps. Don't pee on his parade with your own personal issues Lenharper.

 

[Small pleasures]

Rant part 2

if you are a 22 year old dude -- decide this now, do you want to be a guy who fucks girls for money or do you want to be a guy "who doesn't have to do that". it would have been inconceivable for me (at your age) to "lower" myself and become someone who needed to drop coin to sleep with a girl. that said, you make your own choices..

Apparently I'm not done with my rant.

'Having' to pay for sex is subjective. Many pay for sex because that's what works for them, not because they 'have' to. Maybe the act of paying for it turns them on, or the no-strings-attached/no games/no bullshit aspect works for them.

"Lower" yourself? Jesus Mary.

Again I'll say that Lenharper is projecting. Individuals make individual decisions. Lenhaparper I beleive you're coming from a place of concern about Darkstar, and nice of you to try to help but this sounds like your own stuff that maybe has nothing to do with him. I know your intention was good. Sorry to bust your balls.

 

[Small pleasures]

Rant part 3

if you are with a good SP, those limits will be tested) and can relax and enjoy the pleasure of straight out carnality but even I wonder, at times. should i try and ditch my entire life and pursue this woman -- this whore, this slut, this pedal to the metal sex machine.

Okay, you're probably sick of my rant by now, but everytime I read Lenharpers post I find something else to rant about.

"This whore, this slut, this pedal to the metal sex machine." Issues. Hello.

That's it. I'll lay off now.

 

[darkstar]

you need to know the road you are walking down.

if you are a 22 year old dude -- decide this now, do you want to be a guy who fucks girls for money or do you want to be a guy "who doesn't have to do that". it would have been inconceivable for me (at your age) to "lower" myself and become someone who needed to drop coin to sleep with a girl. that said, you make your own choices.

i "fucked" my first sp in my early forties. i had slept with all manner of civilians, got married fell in love etc but at a certain point decided i wanted/needed to sleep with a pro. i did and have enjoyed it --a lot -- but i wouldn't have if i was 22. at 45 i am old enough to understand emotional limits (and make no mistake, if you are with a good SP, those limits will be tested) and can relax and enjoy the pleasure of straight out carnality but even I wonder, at times. should i try and ditch my entire life and pursue this woman -- this whore, this slut, this pedal to the metal sex machine.

sex, even with a paid companion, comes with emotional risk. if you are going to do it you should know that you will "hurt". the decision you make has nothing at all to do with dollars and cents. that is probably the least important part of the equation.

ok stupid insomina wake me upto this.. First I understand you can't get too attached to the girl.. I am doing this more for the experince hopefully something I would not run into around the girls I see. I am not doing this because I have to get sex I am a student I could not afford to do this if it was my only means of getting sex .I am into the fact that you can pay and get what you want no head games no getting played around. I don't get nearly as many headgames anymore but still its a lot less headache when im worried about other things like tests. Pretty much you do spend money on girls in the end because you have to pay to drink or whatever you happen to be doing when you meet them and going out . I am intrested in this to experince try new things you only live once and I want to experince new things while Im still young. Partly the reason I'm looking for older I already experince my share of girls my age and younger . In fact the last girl I was with has desided she is going to keep my nice hoody and made up a crazy msn name about me and was a stalker all because I didn't want to see her anymore. I have never figured out how i would start talking to a women Much older than myself. I may find the situation akward I would like to get a experince for it first see what its like.Don't go to the bar often I end up getting drunk and spending too much$$ lol... I think your taking this too seriously I am by no means planning on becoming a weekly vistor this is more when im in the mood to try new things.

 

[darkstar]

Apparently I'm not done with my rant.

'Having' to pay for sex is subjective. Many pay for sex because that's what works for them, not because they 'have' to. Maybe the act of paying for it turns them on, or the no-strings-attached/no games/no bullshit aspect works for them.

"Lower" yourself? Jesus Mary.

Again I'll say that Lenharper is projecting. Individuals make individual decisions. Lenhaparper I beleive you're coming from a place of concern about Darkstar, and nice of you to try to help but this sounds like your own stuff that maybe has nothing to do with him. I know your intention was good. Sorry to bust your balls.

thanks Miss T i think you understand why I am doing this a lot more ... I in no way find it to be lowering myself... People do what they do who am I to judge them as being lower than myself.They arn't hurting anyone with what they do. The people who i think are lower than myself are people who take advantage of other people and that can be someone in poltics.. I find those people to be lower than a SP. Some people like to spice things up it doesn't mean they go to a SP becaues they have to. In no way would I find them to be a gaspeddle.. you must think pretty highly of yourself if thats what you consider them to be and your thinking about running off with them. I find them to be on the same level as me you should treat them the way you would like to be treated

 

[lenharper]

at the risk...

of looking further the fool I'll try and be clearer. Firstly, I pretty much agree with your POV on everything, Ms T. I know that might sound like I'm contradicting myself but let me try.

1. "Lower" yourself -- that was in quotes because I don't believe it to be true, but in my peer group when i was in my twenties that was a preconception about people who paid for sex. As I got older I saw that wasn't the case.

2. I've had a lot of sexual partners, some long term, some casual, some paid. I think I'm pretty balanced but I do find myself. from time to time, mistaking lust and sexual fulfillment for love. All I am trying to say is that the SP's I have been with have been such great people that i find myself wondering "what it". Again, maybe it is just me projecting, but I think it takes time and experience to learn how to compartmentalize one's feelings. If one can do that great -- but it is an emotional risk.

3. "this slut, this whore etc" I meant that as the highest possible compliment. Seriously. Being with a woman who can access their sexuality to a high degree is one of the most fantastic feelings on earth.

 

[Small pleasures]

Okay, take him down...

of looking further the fool I'll try and be clearer. Firstly, I pretty much agree with your POV on everything, Ms T. I know that might sound like I'm contradicting myself but let me try.

1. "Lower" yourself -- that was in quotes because I don't believe it to be true, but in my peer group when i was in my twenties that was a preconception about people who paid for sex. As I got older I saw that wasn't the case.

2. I've had a lot of sexual partners, some long term, some casual, some paid. I think I'm pretty balanced but I do find myself. from time to time, mistaking lust and sexual fulfillment for love. All I am trying to say is that the SP's I have been with have been such great people that i find myself wondering "what it". Again, maybe it is just me projecting, but I think it takes time and experience to learn how to compartmentalize one's feelings. If one can do that great -- but it is an emotional risk.

3. "this slut, this whore etc" I meant that as the highest possible compliment. Seriously. Being with a woman who can access their sexuality to a high degree is one of the most fantastic feelings on earth.

Okay, take Lenharper down off of the iron maiden. Put the tools or torture away. We'll let him live. This time.

 

[ChineseDude]

you need to know the road you are walking down.

if you are a 22 year old dude -- decide this now, do you want to be a guy who fucks girls for money or do you want to be a guy "who doesn't have to do that". it would have been inconceivable for me (at your age) to "lower" myself and become someone who needed to drop coin to sleep with a girl. that said, you make your own choices.

i "fucked" my first sp in my early forties. i had slept with all manner of civilians, got married fell in love etc but at a certain point decided i wanted/needed to sleep with a pro. i did and have enjoyed it --a lot -- but i wouldn't have if i was 22. at 45 i am old enough to understand emotional limits (and make no mistake, if you are with a good SP, those limits will be tested) and can relax and enjoy the pleasure of straight out carnality but even I wonder, at times. should i try and ditch my entire life and pursue this woman -- this whore, this slut, this pedal to the metal sex machine.

sex, even with a paid companion, comes with emotional risk. if you are going to do it you should know that you will "hurt". the decision you make has nothing at all to do with dollars and cents. that is probably the least important part of the equation.

So TRUE. Newb pooners got to understand this. This should be in the pooner's tenth commandment!

 

[FortunateOne]

I think it's quite reasonable for a younger guy interested in older women to choose this route: the chance encounter with the best friends mother or lady in the supermarket is pretty rare. Also, as a younger guy, he may realize the possibilities more of the pitfalls of seeing a young hot girl his own age: no, she doesn't want to date you. Younger single (or otherwise) have more opportunities to hook up then older, not-single people, so yes this is a conscious choice to find something different. If single, he fulfills a fantasy with only a little effort and will not be hurting anyone, experiences something many guys his age will continue to dream about, and goes on with his life.
At worst, he becomes addicted to the nsa aspect of sps and lives a happy fun-filled life.

 

[Aerts]

if you are a 22 year old dude -- decide this now, do you want to be a guy who fucks girls for money or do you want to be a guy "who doesn't have to do that". it would have been inconceivable for me (at your age) to "lower" myself and become someone who needed to drop coin to sleep with a girl. that said, you make your own choices.

I'm sure charlie sheen and dennis rodman need to pay to get ass too... What's wrong with spending some extra $ to fuck the girl that you want? Not everyone is keys to the VIP material who goes out and gets to sleep with random hot women every weekend, and not every young guy wants to or is able to be in a serious relationship that yields sex all the time. Just because you're young and not fat and ugly doesn't mean it's easy to get casual sex with a hot girl. I don't think it's a healthy hobby or something that's good to invest a lot of time and money in, but just because a young guy has done a little pooning doesn't mean he is some pathetic degenerate who could never get laid "for free".

 

[d_Duck55]

, do you want to be a guy who fucks girls for money or do you want to be a guy "who doesn't have to do that".

Well ... he could just be a guy who wants to fuck hot girls for free, but he gives them the money so they go away and don't call him every day.

 

[sonoman]

'Having' to pay for sex is subjective. Many pay for sex because that's what works for them, not because they 'have' to. Maybe the act of paying for it turns them on, or the no-strings-attached/no games/no bullshit aspect works for them.

Yup. A lot of it for me has had to do with the (near)complete emotional detachment and mutual physical satisfaction with a (hot) girl of my choosing, whenever I desire.

just because a young guy has done a little pooning doesn't mean he is some pathetic degenerate who could never get laid "for free".

Again, true. [emphasis added]