How much to offer an SP for a sleepover

tantalizeme

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I’ve been puzzled by the going rate advertised for sleepovers: around 15 to 20 browns. Now this seems a bit extravagant—an indication, perhaps, how much the ladies hate to spend the night with us??

On my recent trip to pooner-friendly China a lovely, cuddly lady stayed overnight in my hotel room, throwing in two intense SOGs, for ¥1300 (less than $.8).

A few days ago, wanting to repeat this kind of experience, I asked a favorite SP if we could spend the night together. She said yes, but only after 1 AM, at her place. When I asked, “How much?” she said, “You tell me.”

I’ve been feeling undecided about how much to offer. This is a lady who accepts $.5 for quality full service; and I imagine, about 8 hrs is all we would spend together, mostly asleep.

Ideally, what I would like to happen is sex before sleep, but she might be exhausted after working at the AMP. I’d certainly be happy with just sex in the morning, in that relaxed, deliciously drowsy state between waking and dreaming. But it’s not mainly sex I’m after here; I would enjoy simply cradling her in my arms, basking in her erotic radiance, and letting warm emotions flow freely—fondness, tenderness, nurturing…

I’ve seen this lady 3 times now, and there’s a sweetness along with easy passion every time I step in her energy field. I appreciate that spending the night beside a stranger can be stressful for an SP, and that it’s actually quite difficult, for two people who aren’t used to each other, to sleep comfortably in close contact—which may partly justify the steep rates.

But, in our case, we’ve already established familiarity, and I certainly don’t plan to make things uncomfortable for her. When I consider what this potential sleepover is really worth to me, I’d have to say about four or five browns, plus two more for each time we have sex. If this sounds stingy or unacceptable, well…I find better ways to spend my cash.:D
 

InTheBum

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What a waste of money!!!

I would never pay for a sleepover!!! Paying some SP probably min. 800 to stay the night and sleep? Retarded... She will probably cut farts most the night anyways... :D

You need to seriously get a girlfriend!
 

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You must not know the value of a dollar dude, once I come I lose so much attraction to the person. You sound like you would make a good husband if you want them to stick around after you shoot.
 

Sasha=Passion

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You must not know the value of a dollar dude, once I come I lose so much attraction to the person. You sound like you would make a good husband if you want them to stick around after you shoot.
That's even a turn off for me. Can YOU fake it a little?
 

Sasha=Passion

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Like I said

No-no I thought all SP's were just going to fart all night at a sleepover?? Or maybe that's what they just do at inthebum's place since nobody in their right mind could tolerate him all night.
Like I said garbage receptical.
 

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SexyBoy

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I only give a SP money for the times we have sex even if she is with me the whole day. I do pay for every other expense though. Seriously why pay that much.

I have done the dating thing a lot. Some SP's like to go out on dates with a guy you know. A lot of them don't have boyfriends because of what they do.
 

Bellaxxx

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Honey you're looking for an SP to do a sleepover in Canada, not in China (so no need to compare pricing structures.). And something that you are failing to consider is that when an SP does a sleepover arrangement for you, that means YOU are probably her only call for that day which means she is missing other business, so the pricing structure for a sleepover is designed with that in mind. $1500 - $2000 isn't unreasonable at all.
You said what I was thinking.
 

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I’ve been puzzled by the going rate advertised for sleepovers: around 15 to 20 browns. Now this seems a bit extravagant—an indication, perhaps, how much the ladies hate to spend the night with us??

On my recent trip to pooner-friendly China a lovely, cuddly lady stayed overnight in my hotel room, throwing in two intense SOGs, for ¥1300 (less than $.8).

A few days ago, wanting to repeat this kind of experience, I asked a favorite SP if we could spend the night together. She said yes, but only after 1 AM, at her place. When I asked, “How much?” she said, “You tell me.”

I’ve been feeling undecided about how much to offer. This is a lady who accepts $.5 for quality full service; and I imagine, about 8 hrs is all we would spend together, mostly asleep.

Ideally, what I would like to happen is sex before sleep, but she might be exhausted after working at the AMP. I’d certainly be happy with just sex in the morning, in that relaxed, deliciously drowsy state between waking and dreaming. But it’s not mainly sex I’m after here; I would enjoy simply cradling her in my arms, basking in her erotic radiance, and letting warm emotions flow freely—fondness, tenderness, nurturing…

I’ve seen this lady 3 times now, and there’s a sweetness along with easy passion every time I step in her energy field. I appreciate that spending the night beside a stranger can be stressful for an SP, and that it’s actually quite difficult, for two people who aren’t used to each other, to sleep comfortably in close contact—which may partly justify the steep rates.

But, in our case, we’ve already established familiarity, and I certainly don’t plan to make things uncomfortable for her. When I consider what this potential sleepover is really worth to me, I’d have to say about four or five browns, plus two more for each time we have sex. If this sounds stingy or unacceptable, well…I find better ways to spend my cash.:D
I more or less agree with you, except for the part comparing SP rates in China with those in Canada. The cost of living is so different in both countries, as are the pooning laws most likely, and both these things affect pricing.

To me, from a value for money standpoint, no one's conversational skills are even worth $100/hour unless that person is an expert in their field (ie., lawyer, financial adviser) or someone who is highly accomplished (ie., business leader, sports figure) where it would be kind of fun and life-enriching to pick their brain for an hour or two. To pay for someone to hang out with you is a bad investment, in addition to being kind of a dangerously slippery slope socially. That is, anyone who pays for someone to hang out with them really should be looking at working on becoming a more interesting person to hang out with :cool:

To pay someone to actually sleep is the above argument times ten. This isn't to say SPs aren't sweet girls and nice people; I just wouldn't pay anyone to sleep.

That being said, I would have purchased an additional hour of social time with Larissa in Montreal (Eleganza), because she was awesome, the hourly rate was only $180/h, and I probably could have managed another SOG if we did another hour. I have also had SPs spend the night at my place for free, though all they did was actually sleep and we were very familiar with each other to begin with. The sessions were paid for.

From a girls' standpoint there is some lost income, though it's a valid question how many other clients she will be doing between say 2AM and 8AM under normal circumstances. IMHO, any girl who charges fucking rate for sleeping is really using it as a deterrent rate, meaning she would rather not do sleepovers to begin with, but if someone wants badly enough and will pay enough for it, then ok.

Free market disclaimer: if girls out there want to charge it and guys out there want to pay it, more power to both of you.

P.S. I think your offer of $400-$500 for the night plus the usual session rate per SOG is fair. It sounds like you are paying for some "cuddle" time in addition to the sleeping, so that's worth something.
 
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rescue911

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simple solution

man are you ever dumb. just have her come to your hotel at 12:00 midnight for a 1 hr. session. have her close the door tightly as she leaves and you drift off to sleep.

next morning at around 6:00 AM have her return, knock on your door, ruin a very good sleep, and you let her in while in a very drowsy state. then you have another 1 hour session of sleep numbed sex with her and you have all you wanted without the paying for you both to sleep part. any combination of departure and arrival times will work if you are tired enough.

or....get a girl friend, just forget the whole sex part, give her $2000. to go shopping while you sleep.
 

Island Dude

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I've had a few overnighters, particularly with SP's who I have been regulars with and have become "friends". They are human too, and actually enjoy going out on dates (to movies, dancing, dinners, etc).

After the date, we eventually end up at my place (or her's depending on whether there is enough beds to sleep on... they are usually sharing the apartment with other girls). I typically have several SOGS, one when we get there, one three hours after, sleep, then another one for my morning wood!!

For this, the most I've paid was $4.5, but by the time you add in the dinners, dancing, drinks, etc. it can add up. I believe YMMV, depending on what type of relationship you have with the SP. By that, I mean how long you know each other, what chemistry you two have, whether she likes you or not, etc.
It is sort of like dating a girlfriend (but you are assured of this GF putting out!) Hope this helps.
 

tantalizeme

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Interesting responses

Thanks for sharing your perspective—it's (almost) all really helpful. A few brief thoughts:

1. To some of my pooning brothers: why be so harsh? People are interested in whatever interests them—for some it’s golf or car racing or fine wine, and for some it’s a night with a select SP once in a blue moon. I’ve noticed pooners seem to divide into two camps: those who seek raw sex in isolation and those who seek sex with various fancy trimmings. It’s obvious in which camp I belong. There’s no right or wrong about this, just different preferences. Why question my sanity for wanting the exhilaration, relaxation and emotional catharsis I imagine myself experiencing, potentially, during a night with a favorite provider?

2. About the “find-yourself-a-girlfriend” advice: ah, but who would want a loser like me?... Kidding aside, I’ve had my share of those. Let me just say: the right one to fit my circumstances isn't easy to find; girlfriends often come with major encumbrances—among them, making sex conditional on monogamous commitment; and, at this stage in my life, I don’t necessarily want to spend lots of nights with anyone and certainly not the same person all the time. I also find a bewitchingly lusty provider gives me quite a different emotional high than the average girlfriend.

3. About IslandDude’s example getting an SP as a “friend" to spend nights with: great for you. That takes special finesse—I can’t imagine that most SPs are eager to turn paying regulars into sexually free-loading friends…but hey, I’m open to it! Teach me how to make it happen.

4. What worries me isn't ridicule directed at me but some pooners' seeming hostility toward women. I imagine even most SPs don’t exactly relish being merely the target of an animal instinct on the part of a rather hostile pooner, instead of being appreciated as human beings with lots of interesting thoughts and feelings as well. Paying money for just closeness, tenderness or communication doesn’t seem to me any more shameful or pathetic than paying money for sex (which doesn’t bother me at all—because obviously, providers need, and deserve, to earn a reasonable living; and it seems to me the good ones give out far more happiness than people in most professions do).

5. Granted that Canada and China differ greatly with respect to pooning economics—still, I beg to disagree that pricing structures don’t need to be compared at all. It does give me pause when a single overnight stay with a Vancouver SP costs more than two return flights to China—where this service can be had for between 1/10th to 1/20th of the Vancouver price. The world has become small in many ways, and perhaps the Canadian escort industry will discover (as other industries have) that competition from China has to be reckoned with. I certainly know where I’m going on my next vacation…:)
 

Fullhouse

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Tantalizeme.

I always enjoy the lengthy reviews you write. They are very informative, polite, interesting, intelligent, arousing and classy.

Having said that, I want to extend my compliments to your polite and reasonable replies to the above threads.
Once a class act, always a class act.

I read your original post "How much to offer an SP for a sleepover" and didn't find it unreasonable or offensive.We all have different dreams or fantasies that would enrich our lives and I'm not just talking about sexual activities. You are entitled to try and make some of your dreams come true, (which happen to be sexual), and if you have the financial means to achieve them, go for it.

Tantalizme, none of us have the right to judge your fantasies, and less right to demean or insult you for asking a simple question about something you want to do.

And all of this evolves around money. Up to $2000 sounds like a lot of money to many of us (at least it does to me) to spend a night with an SP, hence a lot of negative comments. How many would jump at the chance to sleep with their favorite SP for FREE.?????? (yah, include me as well)

If tantalizeme chooses to spend part of his apparent large bank roll on his hobby and his fantasies, I wish him enjoyment and gratification.

I also would never judge a guy for spending $3000 on a Super bowl ticket, $10,000 on a Heli Ski. or $15,000 per night in a suite at the Burj Al Arab hotel in Dubai, and that doesn't even include an SP
 
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