Importance of ethnicity with your SP?

[MissSunisa]

Every client I’ve seen in the past always asks the question.. “Where are you from? What’s you’re background”

I am mixed (half Oriental half Another Exotic) ….and since I wasn’t born here, I have a faint accent.

This is where I am confused. I don’t want to false advertise myself, but I cannot publicize my actual mix because it’s much to obvious to anyone who knows me in real life. An example is saying I’m “half Chinese..“…..while I fit this perception for many guys, there are many who don’t think I look Chinese at all. I suppose race doesn‘t matter for most men…but I’m curious to know you’re opinions.

Do any of you ladies have this problem when you need to explain your background?

How important is race anyway ?

 

[LonelyGhost]

How important is race anyway ?

why not just advertise yourself as 'exotic'?

race isn't important, but its certainly interesting ...

 

[georgebushmoron]

Race is important, in two ways:

1) Attraction is cultural. To be more exact, it's not race but ethnicity that is important. Many people are not attracted to certain ethinicities and are attracted to other ethnicities. Case in point with me: I am usually not attracted to someone who is ethnically orthodox jew, or a caucasian from the mid-south-western US, or an aboriginal from latin america. But I am attracted to most caucasians, urbanized asians, some North American aboriginals, hispanics, and some urbanized blacks.

2) Many asian women seem to have a confidence problem because they compare themselves to the caucasian standard. Frankly they should realise upon themselves just how incredibly beautiful they are inside and out. However, those asian women who have the confidence problem frequently lie and say things like: "have some caucasian blood in them", or "hawaiian". The "hawaiian" thing particularly is such a joke, as it is rare to find a "hawaiian" in the mainland of North America, and to be "hawaiian" is to be an aboriginal of Hawaii and these people look very different from an asian.

 

[MissSunisa]

My other half isn't Asian at all though, so that's the problem.....I don't think I'm for a man who's into Asian sp's. I could very well pass for Bulgarian or someone from Uzbekistan for that matter. Varies on perception.

What you mentioned, GBM, is true about some Asian girls comparing to Caucasion looks. This "http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colonial_mentality" sort of explains it. I actually had an Asian girlfriend who went from being a black hair'd goddess to a blonde, blue contact lens, and DD's ..and she said, "That's what men like." She looks good, but my ideal of an Asian beauty is one in those tight Cheongsam or Ao Dais with long black hair...

 

[georgebushmoron]

My other half isn't Asian at all though, so that's the problem.....I don't think I'm for a man who's into Asian sp's. I could very well pass for Bulgarian or someone from Uzbekistan for that matter. Varies on perception.

I met some women from the far western provinces of China. The beauty was astounding. These women had asian eyes, high cheekbones, full lips, yet their skin was a golden ivory color and their eyes were tawny colored with flecks of green in them. They were all like that, just amazing.

 

[citylover]

Mixed parents? Must be tuff...

& don't get me started on Jessica Alba....

 

[tianna]

mixded background

I get the questions all the time.. I have a very different look as well.. with both parents having mulitple nationalities... I would just go for exotic.. as the story can take to long to explain as well...

 

[LaCreme]

i am canadian

Every client I’ve seen in the past always asks the question.. “Where are you from? What’s you’re background”

I am mixed (half Oriental half Another Exotic) ….and since I wasn’t born here, I have a faint accent.

This is where I am confused. I don’t want to false advertise myself, but I cannot publicize my actual mix because it’s much to obvious to anyone who knows me in real life. An example is saying I’m “half Chinese..“…..while I fit this perception for many guys, there are many who don’t think I look Chinese at all. I suppose race doesn‘t matter for most men…but I’m curious to know you’re opinions.

Do any of you ladies have this problem when you need to explain your background?

Hey Bella i do feel the same as well.
How important is race anyway ?

i do feel the same as well..my mixed used to make me feel confuse. just be your self "canadian chick are Hot!"

 

[MissSunisa]

i do feel the same as well..my mixed used to make me feel confuse. just be your self "canadian chick are Hot!"

=) Haha, I tried that one once.. doesn't work...

Pooner: "What are you?"
Me: "I'm Canadian."
Pooner: "No seriously, what are you?"

The race part is only a fascination when my client has a good sense of the world and other cultures. Mind you, I usually ask my clients about their culture (not that it matters) because I love studying other cultures myself.

 

[87112]

I think the most beautiful women in the world are from Taiwan and Northern China.

 

[Sir_frixalot]

That's how guys make conversation, we are lame... And if we were good at conversation, more women would screw us for free. So be happy we aren't, and think of something witty to respond and redirect the inevitable lame question to something non-lame that YOU want to talk about...

 

[slacker]

As a client ethnicity it is somewhat important to me. Not because I am trying to avoid any race. More because I'd like to explore every ethnicity. I like exotic women (and mixed women are very exotic). I don't get to see many women, so when I do get a chance I'd like to explore some area I have never had a chance to yet be it race, fantasy, fetish, or whatever (ideally multiple categories at once!).

That said if your ethnicity is private to you, you could just say you are exotic, mixed asian, whatever. I would respect your privacy. You could also just fib. Many women seem to do that already. As long as you are providing good service and I don't know any better maybe it doesn't matter. I would guess some I have seen do this and as long as they aren't lying to get more business I can respect why they are doing it.

As a customer it is unlikely I would ever see anyone without decent pics and reviews. So I would probably know a bit about an SP before ever seeing her. I'd get a good idea of the exoticness/ethnicity from the pics. It's unlikely I'd ever get into deep cultural conversations unless I was a repeat client.

 

[flyhere]

That's how guys make conversation, we are lame... ...

Exactly. It's just small talk, not important at all. Although I've been to a lot of places, and can tell where many people are from, from their look, accent, or language, and it's interesting to me.

I would suggest that you don't say "exotic", it's so lame, so corny...so silly.

And guys are turned off if they think the girls lied, to be something they are not. Many Blacks try to say they're Asian, for example, or some Chinese say they are Japanese (I don't know why). You are what you are.

Rather, if you don't want to make something up, or don't want to sound you're lying, give a broad region. Say Asian instead of Chinese or Thai or Korean, etc. Say Middle East instead of Iraq, or Lebanese, etc...You get the idea.

Again, it's just small talk. You're half Asian, and a third Black, hmm...interesting. You're a quarter Asian, a quarter European, may be with some South American blood...hmm...very interesting.

I wouldn't sweat it.

 

[littlejimbigher]

. You're half Asian, and a third Black, hmm...interesting. You're a quarter Asian, a quarter European, may be with some South American blood...hmm...very interesting.
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Just don't call youself a mongrel.

 

[coca_cola_bj]

In most cases it is just conversation that can lead to dialogue about family, travel, the pooners ethnic background ,etc. Some people have a preference or illusions about certain ethnic or cultural backgrounds ... eg. latin women are very hot and passionate ... french women with their pouty lips are great kissers ... japanese women are extra service oriented .. stereotyping is wrong but the illusion / fantasy is part of the fun .. just like the naughty school girl or the sexy librarian / school teacher ... I'm usually intrigued by "exotic" , "europian" or "latin" ... my $.02.

 

[Thelyhi]

Just say ,,,mixed,Euro-Asian,or Exotic(this one you need to explain)
Your nationality +Canadian.