Reputable Handle?

[JonnyBoi]

Heya Guys and Gals,

I am not sure where to put this so I am playing it safe and putting it under 411.

Here goes nothing: I've seen a few visiting or higher end SP's Ads asking for "reputable PERB handle and P411", whilst I understand P411 is the paid "verification" ID but at what point does your PERB handle becomes "reputable" enough so that the SP's would see you??

Thoughts, comments??

 

[jamasianman]

Im guessing you need to have seen 1-3 well known providers and have reviewed them. They dont want lurkers with no reviews or freshly added perbites i guess

 

[JonnyBoi]

Alrighty,

I hope I qualify then, hahaha.
Thanks a lot for responding Jam Asian Man!

 

[morementum]

Heya Guys and Gals,

I am not sure where to put this so I am playing it safe and putting it under 411.

Here goes nothing: I've seen a few visiting or higher end SP's Ads asking for "reputable PERB handle and P411", whilst I understand P411 is the paid "verification" ID but at what point does your PERB handle becomes "reputable" enough so that the SP's would see you??

Thoughts, comments??

Just pick one at random and use that. Any dude that "outs" themselves to a prostitute - particularly one that is board savvy - is a moron.

 

[JonnyBoi]

There's no clear line. it's likely a continuum and varies from girl to girl.

Given identity assurance is a key factor for an SP's safety, and whether she's wasting her time setting time aside for you, it's no wonder many of them take it very seriously. They should.

A few don't require it at all, but that's becoming the rare exception. Most will at least want to know your handle so they can do some online research of what you're like (assuming that the person calling is the actual person with the handle). Others still require additional references - sometimes including physical descriptions in case their spidey sense is telling them that the person purporting to use a particular handle may not be that person after all).

Not too many insist on P411 because that's a whole other level of disclosure and most men won't risk it (you have to disclose real names and occupations - I won't go that far so I've never subscribed to P411). If that's a deal breaker, so be it.

You're definitely getting there fast Johnny. Given the calibre of ladies you're seeing, and your well written reviews, as well as your other interesting posts, it'll only be a matter of time before guys start counterfeiting your handle (LOL).

Thanks for the vote of confidence there Sir "Lance a lot", I truly appreciate it. I am hoping to visit some SP's that I believe more discretionary than most? I can't give out my name or work info because that just might put an end to my career, lol. I guess I'll just give out my handle and hope my posts will speak for themselves.

I was just wondering what the SPs mean by a reputable handle (do they have their own boards and discuss about us and how there might be a soft post cap before engaging in their services? I keep thinking about all the potential process and systems in their business - it's a curse from my day job dealing with corporations, lol).

 

[JonnyBoi]

Can I consult a lot of them in exchange for services rendered back to me? Lol.
I am (mostly) joking of course.. Now I think about I don't do excel or PowerPoint, other people do it for me.. I don't think the presentation can be as powerful without those data.

Also, I can't ask my BA's and RA's to work on these.. LOL.

But back on topic; thanks for answering my question, Miss Hunter, it's good to hear from a SP to know their perspective as well. I think by now everyone that saw me know exactly who I am (in terms of relating me to my PERB handle).

I've been on a crazy bender and probably need some down time to figure some stuff out before I go all out again, lol. I was going at a pretty intense pace there..

Thanks all!

 

[morementum]

Just pick one at random and use it? Somebody else's handle you mean? Well if that's the case, I think doing so is decietful and moronic.

I understand that some reviewers want to be secret shoppers .. I don't have a problem with that. But giving false information to sneak through an sps screening protocol is wrong on so many levels. That's a scumbag move..

I just meant just pick something really random like "Driller John" or something silly. Your idea is devious - didn't occur to me nor perhaps many others. Hope you didn't start something!

 

[Man Mountain]

I just meant just pick something really random like "Driller John" or something silly. Your idea is devious - didn't occur to me nor perhaps many others. Hope you didn't start something!

It's actually been tried in the past. But the whole point of providing a board handle for screening is so the SP can PM the member on said board to confirm that's who she's actually in contact with.

 

[morementum]

It's actually been tried in the past. But the whole point of providing a board handle for screening is so the SP can PM the member on said board to confirm that's who she's actually in contact with.

No way I would ever do that. I would pick something random and if she "looked it up" and it didn't exist, tough shit. What Miss Hunter is suggesting some guys could easily do I guess too but that is pretty low. For all you know all sorts of dudes are booking with Man Mountain.

 

[Man Mountain]

No way I would ever do that. I would pick something random and if she "looked it up" and it didn't exist, tough shit. What Miss Hunter is suggesting some guys could easily do I guess too but that is pretty low. For all you know all sorts of dudes are booking with Man Mountain.

Sorry. I meant that what Miss Hunter is suggesting has been tried in the past. I tried to send you a PM with a link to a thread about exactly that in case you might be curious about it but your inbox is currently full.

 

[morementum]

Sorry. I meant that what Miss Hunter is suggesting has been tried in the past. I tried to send you a PM with a link to a thread about exactly that in case you might be curious about it but your inbox is currently full.

Thanks for trying. I get too many damn PMs. There is more info on action behind scenes than on board it seems as lots of dudes sharing but refuse to post on boards - at least they share in some form. Other thing is how many still want to know about the casual encounter post stuff - that still works crazy well but someone keeps flagging them too.

As far as the thread, didn't find it but it clearly could fuck with someone's handle. As I would never use my own, I suspect tonight a whole pile of dickheads named "Momentum" will be seeing about 10 different prostitutes - LOL.

 

[PerbMod]

Suffice to say that impersonating a perb member to see a lady would result in a permanent ban if you got caught at it.

 

[JonnyBoi]

Yeah I thought more was suggesting something like that but I just couldn't do it.. Lol.

Good thing he meant something else. Anyways, Jonny Boi ain't got nothing to hide.. I love women

 

[ddcanz]

Just pick one at random and use it? Somebody else's handle you mean? Well if that's the case, I think doing so is decietful and moronic.

I understand that some reviewers want to be secret shoppers .. I don't have a problem with that. But giving false information to sneak through an sps screening protocol is wrong on so many levels. That's a scumbag move..

Totally agree- a loser move for sure.
Either step up with the real goods or don't bother at all and move on.
Using someone else's handle is completely off-side.

 

[morementum]

Totally agree- a loser move for sure.
Either step up with the real goods or don't bother at all and move on.
Using someone else's handle is completely off-side.

Agreed - but making one up should be ok. If you really need to wait until someone checks every possible poster ever on Perb, then I suspect you will be wasting your time on someone anyway.

 

[morementum]

Suffice to say that impersonating a perb member to see a lady would result in a permanent ban if you got caught at it.

It would be a dick move but how on earth would you ever know? If someone was to go out tonight and say their were "momentum" how would you know who they actually were not as you don't know who I am or any other handle is. While I think the gallant words of support are great, if someone wanted to be a dick in that fashion I just don't see how anyone would know? Am I missing something?

 

[jamasianman]

Lie detector test. All providers have them, did you not know?

She could quiz the guy and ask him about his last 3 reviews, and see if he knew them by heart.

 

[PerbMod]

It would be a dick move but how on earth would you ever know? If someone was to go out tonight and say their were "momentum" how would you know who they actually were not as you don't know who I am or any other handle is. While I think the gallant words of support are great, if someone wanted to be a dick in that fashion I just don't see how anyone would know? Am I missing something?

You aren't wrong, it is highly unlikely we would know. Doesn't mean we wouldn't act in the event we did find out. Some dumb things have tripped up trolls before, like IP addresses, emails, etc.

 

[ddcanz]

Agreed - but making one up should be ok. If you really need to wait until someone checks every possible poster ever on Perb, then I suspect you will be wasting your time on someone anyway.

Making one up FOR FUN would be OK by me, if that's your thing. This hobby seems way too serious to some folks- a little levity now and then is good for body and soul. Maybe use "PANTIESNIFFINDAWG1" or "FVLOVER"? Oops- sorry- those were already faked and banned- my bad!
Of course, said SP would probably get pissed when she figured out she was wasting her time when searching for non-existent research data and cancel your ass- but of course from your point of view would seem to be no big deal. All in good fun, right?
I'm not one to succumb to a screening process in order to get some action. I have never booked a session with an SP and claimed my handle beforehand. If I can't set something up on my own truthful merits- which has NEVER been an issue- then I would simply move on to another. Of course, there are exceptions to every rule and there might be one or two ladies (who shall remain nameless for now) that I might be inclined to relax for.
Yes- I have shared my handle with certain SPs after the fact if a very comfortable rapport has developed. But only at my discretion. And an SP reading up on my postings has never impacted future visits. Truth be told, it is rare that my SPs even ask if I'm a Perbite- occasionally yes, but rare for sure.
And I have also had PM interactions with certain SPs- but not to book sessions.
Maintaining a certain amount of anonymity is important to me- and most others from what I can read on here.
Doesn't mean I have anything serious to hide- certainly not my posting history.
If an SP reads my posts and takes away that I'm a real sarcastic bastard A-hole then so be it. And if she chooses to put me on her "list" because of it then so be it.
But doubtful that she would know me as ddcanz were I to show up at her door.
"Reputable" handle? What does that even really mean?

 

[ddcanz]

Lie detector test. All providers have them, did you not know?

She could quiz the guy and ask him about his last 3 reviews, and see if he knew them by heart.

That only works if the dude actually POSTS a review.
Seems too many on here just lurk and leech off other's experiences, asking inane questions ad nauseam in the 411, chiming in to threads to glean intel, starting exhausting, mindless threads in the lounge (IMO, anyway) and otherwise not contributing to the implied true purpose of this REVIEW board- to see an SP/escort/masseuse/hooker etc. and put something on the table for digestion- even if just occasionally.