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How to get out of "friendzone"?

Feb 16, 2013
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hi again guys,

was wondering if anyone has managed to get out of the "friend zone" with the girls they know

im probably in 4-5 friend zones currently and would like to know if its even possible to get out of it

thanks
 

Unpossible

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Avoid the "friend zone"

If a girl says, "I just wanna be friends."

You say, "I have enough friends."
 

odonnell

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Complain about sore muscles and hope she offers you a massage. If not, come up the bright idea of exchanging massages and see where it takes you. Usually if people are attracted to each other, the connection never falls into the friend zone to begin with, but rather gets touchy pretty soon. Maybe you need to give more hugs and hand holding when you meet someone you think you might like a lot. Best not to let it get too far into the friend zone to begin with if you can avoid it.
 

Flanders

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Hey Tobe,

It's usually a one way trip. Very tough to get out of the friendzone once you are in. Especially when you have no self awareness, and shitty abs...
 

PlayfulAlex

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Hey Tobe,

It's usually a one way trip. Very tough to get out of the friendzone once you are in. Especially when you have no self awareness, and shitty abs...
hi again guys,

was wondering if anyone has managed to get out of the "friend zone" with the girls they know

im probably in 4-5 friend zones currently and would like to know if its even possible to get out of it

thanks
Every now and again, it becomes relevant to post the information on The Ladder Theory, so here it goes:

(sorry but no, there is no jumping ladders...)

www.laddertheory.com
 

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Just enjoy Friendzone, read somewhere the loneliest people are in big cities cause everyone is searching for the next best thing.
 

Unpossible

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No!! Pretending to be somebody's friend because you want to fuck them is stupid and will kill your self esteem!! Make clear that you see them romantically and that's it.
 

CLUB78

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hi again guys,

was wondering if anyone has managed to get out of the "friend zone" with the girls they know

im probably in 4-5 friend zones currently and would like to know if its even possible to get out of it

thanks
Be direct. If friendship isn't what you want from any of these girls, losing them as "friends" won't be much of a loss anyways. You probably have to do a lot of bullshit you wouldn't normally do while hanging out with these girls as "friends", things you do with a girl when she's having sex with you, like shopping and shit.

The key to getting women is to avoid the friend zone entirely unless that's what you actually want.

Fortunately or unfortunately, we live in a highly competitive, market-driven world where power is king. On average, women are drawn to strength, smarts, and size (as in the size of your ego). You fail the first challenge of the bizarre male/female mating dance when you allow her to dominate you. Dominate you without getting laid I mean.


Sit beside her on a couch or bench, something where you can touch each other, not at a kitchen table or anything like that, look her directly in the eyes and say in your most masculine, unwavering voice "I want to fuck you." Practice the line in the mirror until you feel comfortable and don't giggle. This way you can do it slightly inebriated.

* Also, women like sex way more than people seem to think.
 

CLUB78

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Hey Tobe,

It's usually a one way trip. Very tough to get out of the friendzone once you are in. Especially when you have no self awareness, and shitty abs...

Yet it's possible , and can be pretty hot when it happens.
 

PlayfulAlex

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Every now and again, it becomes relevant to post the information on The Ladder Theory, so here it goes:

(sorry but no, there is no jumping ladders...)

www.laddertheory.com
Btw (yes, I'm quoting my own post!) I have a friend. He started out on one ladder, it didn't work out, and I moved him to the other ladder. He never let's me forget that he wants back on the other ladder. I always let him know that he will never get back onto the other ladder. He continues to stick around. If he wants to stick around, knowing that there is no chance for him, and he doesn't pressure me, or make me feel uncomfortable, I can live with it. He IS a nice guy and he does care about me, plus he's honest about the wanting-to-get-back-into-your-pants part...
 
Feb 16, 2013
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From dating someone that works at McDonald's to friend zone?! :pound:
I never ended up going out with her. If you read the thread till the end, I asked her out but she said no.

Be direct. If friendship isn't what you want from any of these girls, losing them as "friends" won't be much of a loss anyways. You probably have to do a lot of bullshit you wouldn't normally do while hanging out with these girls as "friends", things you do with a girl when she's having sex with you, like shopping and shit.

The key to getting women is to avoid the friend zone entirely unless that's what you actually want.

Fortunately or unfortunately, we live in a highly competitive, market-driven world where power is king. On average, women are drawn to strength, smarts, and size (as in the size of your ego). You fail the first challenge of the bizarre male/female mating dance when you allow her to dominate you. Dominate you without getting laid I mean.


Sit beside her on a couch or bench, something where you can touch each other, not at a kitchen table or anything like that, look her directly in the eyes and say in your most masculine, unwavering voice "I want to fuck you." Practice the line in the mirror until you feel comfortable and don't giggle. This way you can do it slightly inebriated.

* Also, women like sex way more than people seem to think.
Really doubt telling a girl you want to fuck her is a good idea unless you want to get slapped.

and bolded part is not true at all lol
 

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Gotta be a challenge and not get into the friend zone in the first place. If your already in its too late, you better make a decision to either get out now as in telling her or just ending it. No use trying to keep that relationship going if its taking a toll on you (assuming it is taking a toll on something, feelings, money, whatever) that's my opinion on friend zones.
 
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hi again guys,

was wondering if anyone has managed to get out of the "friend zone" with the girls they know

im probably in 4-5 friend zones currently and would like to know if its even possible to get out of it

thanks

The one who takes it out of the friend zone is the woman. Otherwise she only sees you as a friend. Sorry. If you push your sexual advances on her you may lose her as a friend altogether. Or she may start to think of you as a creep if you keep pushing her boundaries.
 

Cami Parker

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Nope, sorry. I believe the nature of your relationship is established upon first meeting. And while it will almost always develop within that category (you will become closer friends if you're friends, better lovers if you're lovers, even more deeply romantically involved if you are romantically involved) you can't jump from your category into another...
 
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Nope, sorry. I believe the nature of your relationship is established upon first meeting. And while it will almost always develop within that category (you will become closer friends if you're friends, better lovers if you're lovers, even more deeply romantically involved if you are romantically involved) you can't jump from your category into another...
So basically be as sexual as possible on first meeting?

Inb4 sex assault charges
 

UhOh

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If you're in the friendzone who cares, use it to your advantage. Gives you more options of people to call for a ride when dropping your car off for an oil change etc. Sometimes hanging with one girl is a plus when trying to get into the pants of another.

She has friends, network that shit. I wouldn't kick her aside just because she won't do you
 
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