I did not know where to post this this Its not a review but a concern. If any one has seen her ad in erslist will know what I am talking about. She writes in bold red letters no Indian punjabi men WHITE is RIGHT WTF how can someone write something like that in this day and age. I know everyone has the right to free speech but this is so racist it's unbelievable. if she does not like people of color then ask on the phone and tell them she does not see men of Indian decent. but to post a ad like that is just wrong. I know some indo Canadian men can be difficult to deal with. But to write white is right that is just wrong. Does erslist not screen their ads before they are posted ?? Am I the only one upset by this I hope not.
Skylar 0413 WTF
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Call her up and ask her why she feels so strongly about it. I saw a lady a few years back who told me she won't see East Indian men. She acknowledged that while not all are difficult to deal with, she had a significantly higher rate of issues with them...not respecting boundaries (even asking for BBFS), haggling over price, trying to stay longer, etc. she even told a story about how she used to open the main door for clients rather than buzz them up. I figured she did not want to share her buzzer number but she said that habit dated back to her opening the door and to her surprise there were 2 East Indian men that wanted to have a session with her.
All I am doing is relating what she told me. But after a few experiences like that, it is pretty easy to see why some may choose to take a hard line.
Many escorts only see White or Asian men but don't include the "white is right" comment. This Skylar obviously has her preferences and fortunately for you and other East Indian men, she is not the only escort in town so just brush it off and ignore it would be my advice.
All I am doing is relating what she told me. But after a few experiences like that, it is pretty easy to see why some may choose to take a hard line.
Many escorts only see White or Asian men but don't include the "white is right" comment. This Skylar obviously has her preferences and fortunately for you and other East Indian men, she is not the only escort in town so just brush it off and ignore it would be my advice.
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yeah thats a horrible add... I treat everyone as equal.. and see every one as equal based on the fact that none of us asked to be here to begin with !!!! we can not help what nationality we are or religion we were born into or class system... so why judge us on something we had no control over..... ITS NOT RIGHT !!!!
If I have problems communicating with you over the phone then the chances that we will connect when we meet is not likely. Just because you have money does not mean I am going to sleep with you. I am just as choosy about my clients as men are about there SPs. It is her ad and she can post whatever she wants. It's still your choice to see her. (And her choice not to see you). IMHO.
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ITS HER CHOICE TO SEE WHO SHE PLEASES YES ... however to write such a racist comment.... makes her pretty much a racist....
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no you are very right... however she could say that she perffers to see someone of a certain nationality.. than just saying "white is right ".. it wouldnt take away from her own personal preference of who she wants to see.. and sound so harsh against other nationalities.. 
I really don't get what the big deal is. She may or may not be actually racist but "in this day and age" there are racists teaching kids in school, they are cops and politicians. I am not sure if it is more rare than 50 years ago but it is certainly less accepted yet that won't change that there are still people out there like that.
At least she is open and up front about it rather than taking the OPs money and providing the worst service possible.
At least she is open and up front about it rather than taking the OPs money and providing the worst service possible.
I do not check up on other girls ads, but really, Native, eh! That is a bit of a surprise.
So what would be the preferred phrase then, diddy? "European Descent Only" "White Canadians Only"...just wondering...
This whole issue is pretty silly. This is a board where guys review women and comment on them having a loose pussy (I'm sure it has nothing to do with the guy having a pencil dick
) or make other demeaning comments that could have been phrased more tactfully while conveying a similar message. An inappropriate comment here or there in an escorts ad shouldn't even register. Some people just need to grow thicker skin.
I saw the ad and I'm Asian - but not EI. I'm offended, yeah but I will express how I feel with my wallet. I'm sure she is aware of the consequence (financial) of posting her ad.
Ladies, does Erslist have a Terms of Use language in their agreements when you sign up? Is this covered at all?
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Ladies, does Erslist have a Terms of Use language in their agreements when you sign up? Is this covered at all?
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I shake my head.... My parents are very mixed so I know about being put into a category... Honestly I feel we are all the same and if your rude it doesn't matter what color you are.... this is uncalled for and the girl shouldn't be so damn rude....:s
Perhaps she has had one too many bad experinces with this race or it is a lack of communication, sometimes it is very hard to communicate when someones accent is so strong or they barely speak any english.
However I do agree it sounds very racists, she should of thought her ad over some and yes rephrase her wording.
It sounds like it is coming from an angry person the way she has posted it and very disrespectful. I am sure someone has seen the ad and mentioned something to her. But then I hate to say perhaps she could be racists.
I have an aboriginal friend and she drives me nuts as she was adopted and raised as she puts it from a "white" family and she is very prejudice against her own race. She is working on that, but yes she is rude when speaking of them I choose not to hear her.
However I do agree it sounds very racists, she should of thought her ad over some and yes rephrase her wording.
It sounds like it is coming from an angry person the way she has posted it and very disrespectful. I am sure someone has seen the ad and mentioned something to her. But then I hate to say perhaps she could be racists.
I have an aboriginal friend and she drives me nuts as she was adopted and raised as she puts it from a "white" family and she is very prejudice against her own race. She is working on that, but yes she is rude when speaking of them I choose not to hear her.
You're sounding a lot like Al Sharpton.
Women on ers make all kinds of ridiculous comments in their advertising to lure prospective clients. "Come smash my holes" or "make love to my ass"...gimme a break. Other women like to create the appearance that they cater primarily to upscale businessmen (on one website of a touring lady, the intro shows a private jet and rolls royce with the comment "for the gentleman who knows true luxury"). But I am sure she would take an unemployed security guards $300 for 1 hour even if her preference is a weekend in New York with a businessman almost old enough to be her grandpa.
The "white is right" comment is exactly as you described it...tactless, tasteless and ignorant. But your rant about her being a racist is way over the top. All we know is that she won't see EI people and that choice should be respected whether her reasons make sense or not. She wants to see white men and she made a comment that comes across poorly.
As someone else mentioned, she is not white. If she wanted to join the KKK she would get some funny looks. I don't take her "white is right" comment as irrefutable proof that she is a racist.
You need to grow some thicker skin
.And for all those who think her poor advertising will hurt her financially, she may as well be a perb advertiser with all the attention she is getting on a board where most had probably never heard of her before today. Some will be offended and never see her and others won't care.
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I WON'T SERVICE INDIAN/PUNJAB! *WHITE IS RIGHT*
How is this NOT proof of "racial discrimination"? Sure, freedom of speech I get it. However, this is NOT speech...it's a business ad. She is outright discriminating against so-called "indian"(which is laughably her own kind) and "punjab!". Punjab is a state in the country of India. In it, there can be muslims, hindus and sikhs at any time. Punjab! are not a race of people on this Earth. The proper term "punjabi" is applied to any person who lives or hails from Punjab in India. I have travelled the ENTIRE country of India 7 times by train, bus and air.
I take the "white is right" comment as racist because without explanation or cause, she is saying "indian/punjab" is wrong. What else could this statement mean?
I have thick skin and I am proud that it is brown as chocolate. I am NOT bothered by her ad, but it IS racial discrimination. There are a lot of different ways she can screen clients before seeing them. A lot!!! The racial stuff does NOT need be there.
For example....her catch phrase "I WON'T SERVICE INDIAN/PUNJAB! *WHITE IS RIGHT*" would be better read and received if it read "SORRY GUYS, I WON'T SERVICE INDIAN/PUNJABI"
I have seen other SP ads that word it this way. The reality is that she is a hypocrite to write it anyways...as a Native. Her IQ cannot exceed more than 2 or 3 points and I am being generous.
How is this NOT proof of "racial discrimination"? Sure, freedom of speech I get it. However, this is NOT speech...it's a business ad. She is outright discriminating against so-called "indian"(which is laughably her own kind) and "punjab!". Punjab is a state in the country of India. In it, there can be muslims, hindus and sikhs at any time. Punjab! are not a race of people on this Earth. The proper term "punjabi" is applied to any person who lives or hails from Punjab in India. I have travelled the ENTIRE country of India 7 times by train, bus and air.
I take the "white is right" comment as racist because without explanation or cause, she is saying "indian/punjab" is wrong. What else could this statement mean?
I have thick skin and I am proud that it is brown as chocolate. I am NOT bothered by her ad, but it IS racial discrimination. There are a lot of different ways she can screen clients before seeing them. A lot!!! The racial stuff does NOT need be there.
For example....her catch phrase "I WON'T SERVICE INDIAN/PUNJAB! *WHITE IS RIGHT*" would be better read and received if it read "SORRY GUYS, I WON'T SERVICE INDIAN/PUNJABI"
I have seen other SP ads that word it this way. The reality is that she is a hypocrite to write it anyways...as a Native. Her IQ cannot exceed more than 2 or 3 points and I am being generous.
I have to fully agree. I do not support racism at all but just be happy that she shows her views up front and in big bold letters. It's her choice to see who she wishes and the Indian gentlemen should just be happy to save a few minutes of their time by not feeling the need to call and possibly have something worse said to them over the phone.
I will say though that she should find a new industry though if her preferences are that strong... Or move to a different province. It may be just me, but in the 3 years I've lived in Van, I've noticed that whites are the minority. I don't have any issues with that but some do and I don't agree with racist women being in this industry if that's their deal.
I hate racism!!! As others mentioned, we didn't have a choice of where we were born, what color.. Etc. Unless someone is disrespectful, color shouldn't matter. Maybe she is only looking for a quick buck and will be gone before everyone knows it.. With comments like that, I can't see her lasting long term.
It's a sad thing to see, but like people have said, it is her body, and her choice to see who she wants. No different than some SP's who refuse to see men under 40, for example. Just not a race thing in that case, more like an age thing. But I agree, it didn't need to be written so bluntly, and so crass...
I have a friend who's an SP, and she sees a lot of East Indian men - she's okay with them personally, but she told me a lot of them try & haggle down her prices, or ask for BB services, which is when she ends the appointment.
I have a friend who's an SP, and she sees a lot of East Indian men - she's okay with them personally, but she told me a lot of them try & haggle down her prices, or ask for BB services, which is when she ends the appointment.
I choose SP's on the basis of race, and have no problem if they want to include/exclude me based on my race. She's proud of her group, just like others in other groups are proud.
It's a girl choosing who gets to be inside her, there should be more options available to her than, say, a country club.
People are so PC. Being un-PC does not equal bigotry.
It's a girl choosing who gets to be inside her, there should be more options available to her than, say, a country club.
People are so PC. Being un-PC does not equal bigotry.
