i think a man can be too long, but too wide no. It is on the ladies comfort and what she feels comfortable with. If a baby can fit through there a mans wide penis with a little effort and lube will fit. But if your not comfortable with a large width penis then by all means it is your body.
I agree, I think length is one thing and girth is a different thing altogether. It can definitely be too long and too long hurts if the guy isn't careful or insists on some positions that may make it worst. Instead of taking a chance and hope the guy will be careful and not too rough, some girls might just prefer avoiding the situation altogether. Maybe shorter girls are proportionally less able to accommodate length? Or without having anything to do with height, it might still vary from one person to another. (I have no idea, I'm just guessing.)
It might even change at different times of the month. I remember one bf I had who was pretty long and I was ok most of the time but then some days it would be painful if he wasn't careful. I remember talking to gf's who knew exactly what I was talking about. It feels like it's banging against something - it doesn't feel good at all and seemed to be worse in certain positions.
But as far as girth goes, that is a muscle (unless we're talking extreme size) most vaginae (really, Alix?) are flexible and can accommodate. There are exceptions and preferences just like for everything else.
Maybe the sp's had a bad experience with someone who was well endowed and she just assumed it was size when in reality it was the guy being rough (intentionally or not) that caused it to be painful. It might be due to a medical problem that makes sex uncomfortable or painful and large size makes it unpleasant for her while she is able to cope with smaller size.
It could be due to her not being turned on enough so that beyond a certain size she knows it's going hurt. Being turned will not only produce lubrication but it also relaxes your muscles. If the girl is not turned on enough or if she's tense or worried, then chances of a large penis causing her pain is likely. Whereas a smaller size might just cause her discomfort, a larger size would be painful. It could be that she just doesn't enjoy the sensation of a large penis even if it's not painful. Or she may be a little dumb and think that might "stretch" her vagina and make it loose forever. lol
Hard to know, it could be lots of things...
Personally I will never complain about girth.
The only problem for me when it comes to girth is with BJ's. Passed a certain size, it might be hard to fit in my mouth because I have a small mouth. LOL But there's still lots more I can do and I'll just improvise if that's the case.
