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Contacting an SP or S Baby that you have known in your personal life

LoadShooter

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I'm just curious, but has anyone ever contacted an SP or a Sugar Baby that they know in their personal life or social circle?

I know I've seen at least one SP ad from someone who was a friend of a friend who I had briefly met a couple of times. I've also seen a few Sugar Baby profiles, of people who I knew personally (FB friends, girls I've been on dates with, old co-worker) and wouldn't expect to have a profile like that.

Just wondering if anyone has ever contacted someone in this situation and if it worked out smoothly; or if it became too awkward because of the prior connection.
 

LoadShooter

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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwkward!!!!

Could get all weird and craziness but then again I did and do see a my personal loan/RSP representative from one of my banks I deal with.

This is a hard one!!
Haha nice. I could see that being exciting from his perspective. Getting to see someone he deals with on a professional level in a bedroom setting.
 

take8easy

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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwkward!!!!

Could get all weird and craziness but then again I did and do see a my personal loan/RSP representative from one of my banks I deal with.

This is a hard one!!
Did it cause any rise or fall in 'interest' and/or 'rate of return'?
 
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thetruth

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I have seen a couple of girls on Seeking Arrangements who I knew from my personal life when they were young. One I didn't contact or communicate with but would have if I had been a paid member at the time and the other one I did communicate. We talked as she figured out who I was through a distorted picture of me. We communicated and just were supportive of each other on there and never met up but in both cases if the circumstances were right I would have seen them both.
 

badbadboy

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I'm just curious, but has anyone ever contacted an SP or a Sugar Baby that they know in their personal life or social circle?

I know I've seen at least one SP ad from someone who was a friend of a friend who I had briefly met a couple of times. I've also seen a few Sugar Baby profiles, of people who I knew personally (FB friends, girls I've been on dates with, old co-worker) and wouldn't expect to have a profile like that.

Just wondering if anyone has ever contacted someone in this situation and if it worked out smoothly; or if it became too awkward because of the prior connection.
I suppose if you have no problem with everyone in your mutual social circle eventually finding out; go for it.

I'd say human nature is to talk and sometimes not caring if other parties are hurt by loose talk. I'd say most SP's lock up their personal details about clients very well like there is a code of honor in that regard. I've never entertained the SB world and have wondered if they also keep your info 100% to themselves. Messy terminations or breakups do happen and sometimes the fallout is devastating for all involved.
 

nwtl

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I suppose if you have no problem with everyone in your mutual social circle eventually finding out; go for it.
I've never entertained the SB world and have wondered if they also keep your info 100% to themselves.
I'd say they do not. Different world, different mentality. No professionalism / privacy in the SB realm. Perhaps because the established SP sees it as a profession, the SB does not, also, emotional boundaries are less clearly defined in the SB world.
 

giaebonyprincess

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I'd say they do not. Different world, different mentality. No professionalism / privacy in the SB realm. Perhaps because the established SP sees it as a profession, the SB does not, also, emotional boundaries are less clearly defined in the SB world.
Very true!!

In the beginning of my early days in this (26ish) it took me a while to understand the statement "it is what it is" I don't think SB would really understand that.
 

LoadShooter

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The reason I put this question out there is that I saw a couple of sugar baby ads where I knew the person but hadn't spoken to them for awhile. I was considering contacting them to talk business, but I was skeptical about how well it would go. I was hoping someone else had been in the same situation and it had worked out well. At this point, I doubt I'll follow through. I could put the awkwardness aside of knowing them...in fact it is probably what turns me on about the situation. However, I'm not sure they'd feel the same way.
 

stamina

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If you tell us who it is and pay their way, I'm pretty sure somebody will report back.
 

Chessmen

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The first SP I ever saw was a person I knew in high school. Didn't know it at the time of booking but once I walked threw the door we caught up then had the session
that sounds pretty hot actually, I wouldn't mind being pleasantly surprised by a girl I used to know
 

Ray

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A friend of my wife lost her cell phone, so gave her a temporary phone number to get a hold of her.

One night, wife calls her friend and gets a voice mail message. She had a confused look on her face, and asked me to listen to the message. It was for her rates to do outcalls to Richmond hotels, and leave a message for what costumes you'd like her to wear. (She was not on Perb, I checked her 'stage name'. She was listed on Eros List).

It was awkward when we saw her again, because she would have known though call display that we had called. 3 times. To confirm the message we were hearing.

I would have done her as she was stunning, but would have caused complications with the relationship.

Don't see her much anymore.
 
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