I agree with Clem on this one as it has me a bit perplexed.why isn't the girl you're sleeping with going to be the one you want to marry though? why? like can we really examine this?
also do or do not, there is no try
In my personal experience, I don't recall many times where I've ended up in a relationship with a woman without her being someone who I had slept with prior to entering into that relationship...I guess there was that one time in junior high where I asked that girl to go steady, but from that point sex has always been a part of the decision to start a relationship.