Luxxxe Affaire

DATY or BJ?

Do you prefer giving DATY or receiving BJ?

  • DATY

    Votes: 34 54.0%
  • BJ

    Votes: 29 46.0%

  • Total voters
    63
  • Poll closed .

respectfulfun

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Pretty sure I'm in the minority here. I prefer DATY to BJ. I'm wondering how much in the minority I am so thus, the poll.
 

jgg

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What is wrong with both at the same time?
 

respectfulfun

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So far, I'm a bit surprised, but still a small sample set. I used to like 69, but I found the position to be a bit physically constraining to fully enjoy eating pussy the way I like.
 

badbadboy

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IMO the choice is not mutually exclusive. Though my ( and hopefully her) enjoyment of DATY does heighten my own excitement.

No choice for both?
 

Xxxguy69

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69 Preferred - there should be an option for both; concur with badbadboy....so exciting when she enjoys daty too.....
 

2bfair

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Daty always makes me rock hard way faster than a hj/bj after the first finish. If she is orgasmic and likes msog, get her to Queen you so she sees the rise which ends up often in a 69 before round two. Also, some gals adore good daty and desire the rod even more! Gotta say daty!
 

clu

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Which do you prefer: food or oxygen? :)

Edit to add: one might be more urgent (DATY), but in the long run I couldn't live without either. :)
 
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westcoastrider1982

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I could eat pussy for hours!
Don’t get me wrong I also enjoy a good bj too. I prefer to go slow exploring an entire woman’s body with my mouth, then gently licking every millimeter of her vagina with my tongue before going for the clit.
Almost every woman I’ve been with absolutely loves this.
Watching a woman, moan, wiggle and move her hips around is pure heaven for me!
Getting a bj makes me hard(which I’m usually already at full mast when I’m with a hottie anyways) and feels good for a bit, but the feeling of a nice vagina is better for me also!
 
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I actually prefer a nice long bj to fs, let alone daty. Might be that it’s just too much effort to try and stay in control in a tight pussy for me. By the time I finally squeeze in there...
 

Big_Guy_Rye

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Not sure if this topic is about oral in normal relationships, or the SPs we visit....

Rather get a BJ over giving DATY, and it's not just because I'm selfish it's just the lack of reciprocity from my previous (normal) relationships.

I love to DATY, it turns me on that I turn her on, and then watch her buck wild and lose herself as I watch her return the favor; as it has been in the few long-term relationships I've been in.

But later on, as the relationship advances, and you're established in your ways, I find the oral practices tend to start going one way before stopping altogether. I offer DATY, but then she's reluctant to give back, then later she just takes it but doesn't give back, then just doesn't want it anymore because she knows she'll have to give back so why bother wasting your time? It gets to the point where you say "you give first, before I do", and then delude yourself into thinking there is this stalemate when she's the one who doesn't have to do anything.

...until you start seeing SPs. Constantly pushing that reset position to every girl you meet. Where even then you have this "buyer's beware" mentality where you'd rather see the girl start first, before you put in the effort too.

IMO
 

respectfulfun

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Wow, lots of great responses. Some suggestions to include both, and I agree the choices are not mutually exclusive in the real world. However if push comes to shove and you had to pick one over the other, which one you would choose is a more interesting questions IMO. It forces the decision and reveals the ultimate preference. Perhaps it's possible to be exactly 50/50 in preferences, but if you *had* to choose, which would it be? Thus the binary choice in the poll.

To the person who asked if the question was based on with an SP or your significant other, I think I would use a scenario to avoid other kinds of bias that might come into play. For instance with an SP, one might choose BJ because they generally avoid DATY with an SP. On the other hand, one of the responders referred to some disappointment with a past relationship in that she ultimately avoided giving BJ. Thus his preference was for BJ. To get to a response that truly reflects your preference, it's best to imagine a scenario without any of the aformentioned predispositions confusing the choice.
 

Relax10

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No need to choose - 69 it is for the best of both worlds!
I agree but sometimes when she's really really good it can be "hard" to concentrate :bounce:
 
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