I am sorry you are having trouble with this concept. You can say something like "she crossed one of my boundaries" or something equally non-revealing. You mention BBFS and it gets deleted. It's not a grey area. If you get pms about it, you can do as you please, but public posts will be removed.What about, and I mean this seriously, an SP who is BBBJ BLS DFKing you, has you hard, you're flat on your back, and SHE on her own accord, sits Cowgirl on your penis boner?
Isn't it fair to warn other GUYS that she MIGHT do that to them, too?
I mean, I've FANTASIZED what BBF feels like with certain women, hobby and real life. But if staring down the bararrelle, I still would be scared out of my mind.
And, I'm NOT just referring in this scenario to DTES streetwalkers and car dates.
I mean possibly a LL or BP date out of Grouse Creek Inn type of place on King George? Or even an AMP?
IF there is a time and place to warn, isn't this one of them?
Respectfully,
Tim McGee.
Totally agree with apl15 if you ignore it or disallow discussion of it you are merely hiding your head in the sand, or if you will up yourI disagree with any censorship. Take all postings with a grain of salt. Some posters are believable. Many only to a degree. Use your head or hide it in the sand. Your choice.
At no point did I advocate doing any specific behaviour. The point I did make obviously flew completely over your head - but that tends to happen to the puritans of this world.Right. That's like supporting the return to open sewers and ignoring cholera. Or ignoring food safety practices. Or people in the 40's saying "nah, I don't need this small pox vaccine". I give zero fucks if you want to sit at home and partake in behaviour that might kill you. Be my guest. But this is a public health issue. It affects more than 1 person.
You're gonna love this one yvr, did you know that the 1950 chevy two door coupe had a 15 dollar option?Right. That's like supporting the return to open sewers and ignoring cholera. Or ignoring food safety practices. Or people in the 40's saying "nah, I don't need this small pox vaccine". I give zero fucks if you want to sit at home and partake in behaviour that might kill you. Be my guest. But this is a public health issue. It affects more than 1 person.
You might think I'm being a prick by making this point, but there is alot of irony in this comment of yours.LOL, if I'm a puritan than Satan is one evil motherfucker.
No, sorry that is not going to happen. This is not a democracy, not even close. Read the TOS and rules again. The rules surrounding BBFS discussions not being allowed are not going to change. If you like, send a PM to the board owner via the Fred Zed handle and take it up with her. Until the ownership changes the rules, they will be enforced. By the way, if the ranting and raving about this topic continues, Quarter Miler is correct, the thread will disappear. I posted this for a rational discussion. Huggzy among others is well past that standard into dangerous territory. Warning to all, discuss topics like an adult, or be prepared for the inevitable consequences.I agree.
This should be a poll...
Yes, we should allow BBFS discussions.
Or No, we shouldn't allow it.
Who in favor of alerting the public for everyone's safety.
Who in favor of ignoring a sad reality of the hobby... and sometimes of the real world.
My reactions would be: meh. Or, perhaps feeling lucky to have remained protected.Out of curiosity sake, I wonder how pooners would feel if their regular favorite SP had offered BBFS to other clients except him, would he be offended, hurt, angry about the exposure to STDs, unfazed? Would he confront her, let it go and cut off contact, or try to get BBFS?
Or if it was a favorite retired SP would all the great memories become tainted? Wouldn't mind starting a thread about this just to see some feedback.
I agree to have open discussion about it. It's out there and we all know it.I think it should be allowed as a TOPIC for discussion,such as this thread. What should be censored are the threads naming sps or clients or what have you. Nothing to harm reputations or drive business to bbfs providers.
They do! That is why so many ads are written in "hacker" ( ie gr33k) .Leolist blocks many words and acronyms . I have personally sent them a detailed complaint and have nor received a response. It would seem they removed bbfs from their blocked list.They could easily develop a system that blocks posts with specific words in it.