Are Escorts Honest?

Reference3A

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Lurker for awhile but I do have a question.
Do you think legit escorts in general are
honest or do they say what we want to
hear for the money.
I'm speaking more of much longer dates
with a lady you think you might know very
well. Dinners, movies weekends & travel .
The reason I ask is I'm considering enteringl
into a long term agreement with a lady
whom I've known for awhile.
Everything is great but sometimes things
seem a little off with her.
Thoughts from SD's or gents entered into
a long term agreement would be appreciated.
PM is fine as well.
 
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Reference3A

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I'm not sure what you mean by a longer term agreement but I had a well known SP at the time, Honey was her name, about 10 years ago, rip me off for $3000 saying she was only taking clients on a monthly basis. I paid the money and got one blowjob for it. But remember one thing ,before you trust her, she is a whore and if she rips you off what is your recourse? Are you going to sue?
I was considering a six month agreement. I've travelled with the lady in question and
spent a ton of time with her. We have a lot of fun. No, she wouldn't take money and run.
Just other aspects kinda give me pause. More of a take me granted situation.
Not always being honest about other aspects seem to have come up.
Once I get to know a person really well I'm very open and always honest.
I kinda woukd appreciate that in return but don't think so.
Think she may play on ones emotions a bit which concerns me.
And before you say it, No , not in love. Just enjoy her company and
we always have a great time. But there have been a few not so great
weekends in the past. But I'm also of the mindset that nobody is
perfect either.
 

Reference3A

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I say if you pay more than a day in advance you deserve to be fucked over. Your money though. Not sure why your looking for advice on here Johnsmit
Paying month to month. Nots concerned about her stealing
so much. Never showed signed of that.
But has displayed signs of a bit of manipulation. Nothing crazy
but enough to notice. Haha
I don't understand your last comment. Figured get some
input from other gents.
Johnsmit? Don't get it ?
 

poonerboi

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I say if you pay more than a day in advance you deserve to be fucked over. Your money though. Not sure why your looking for advice on here Johnsmit
No way not johnsmit! Grammar is too good, besides he couldn't afford this type of thing. My guess would be Dickson or BadgerJohn.:decision:
 

Reference3A

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No way not johnsmit! Grammar is too good, besides he couldn't afford this type of thing. My guess would be Dickson or BadgerJohn.
Ok I understand what your thinking. No, not
a previous member or someone with two
handles. Admin is more than welcome to
check my URL. Just me, one handle.
Sorry if my question across as odd.
Was just looking for some perspective
from other members who possibly got
involved with a long term arrangement
and had it go sideways due to possible
manipulation or deciet on her part.
Thanks
 

MissingOne

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Are escorts honest? That's rather like asking "are human beings honest?" We all know the answer to that one.
 

Stamkos

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Your question makes no sense. You're paying for a female to provide you with a fantasy. You imagine it's a real date and she's into you, etc. Then you question if she's real? If you paid people to be your friends do you think they'd be your friends? It's no different if you pay them to fuck you or date you. They may well enjoy your company but they are supplying you a service you paid for.
Your answer, right here R3A....well said yvr....
 

johnsmit

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Yah it not me
I have had my day and given out a lot of money for no sex lol.
As for honesty.
Just be honest with your self and how you treat others.
We all live under some faults pretense and lie if we see escorts and most escort have to pretend when then see clients.
Also we all live two lives ..if any thing we can be semi honest here with each other about sex anyways ��
 

SDK

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No way not johnsmit! Grammar is too good, besides he couldn't afford this type of thing. My guess would be Dickson or BadgerJohn.:decision:
You're right about johnsmit's grammar! He reminds me of ChappyM on the Vic board.
 

badbadboy

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In Lust Mostly
Lurker for awhile but I do have a question.
Do you think legit escorts in general are
honest or do they say what we want to
hear for the money.
I'm speaking more of much longer dates
with a lady you think you might know very
well. Dinners, movies weekends & travel .
The reason I ask is I'm considering enteringl
into a long term agreement with a lady
whom I've known for awhile.
Everything is great but sometimes things
seem a little off with her.
Thoughts from SD's or gents entered into
a long term agreement would be appreciated.
PM is fine as well.
I did this years ago and if I did it all over again, I'd make the donation incrimentally throughout the month rather than all up front.

Once you get close to someone there are usually little arguments that occur that would never happen if you kept seeing them 2 hours at a time. Withdrawal of service while they are holding all the cash is a reality and one should never get to the point where you are uncomfortable with the situation.

You have highlighted some of the positive things like the weekends away, extended holidays etc with someone you are sexually compatible with over a number of days. Once on these trips it's important to communicate that the trip is paid for for X days. If you are not exclusive to her be sure to realize she will have other regulars also wanting her company.
 

Reference3A

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I did this years ago and if I did it all over again, I'd make the donation incrimentally throughout the month rather than all up front.

Once you get close to someone there are usually little arguments that occur that would never happen if you kept seeing them 2 hours at a time. Withdrawal of service while they are holding all the cash is a reality and one should never get to the point where you are uncomfortable with the situation.

You have highlighted some of the positive things like the weekends away, extended holidays etc with someone you are sexually compatible with over a number of days. Once on these trips it's important to communicate that the trip is paid for for X days. If you are not exclusive to her be sure to realize she will have other regulars also wanting her company.
Good tips, appreciate it.
But communication as you said is so very important.
We have talked about it in the past a bit as we generally do have fun. A lot of fun.
When not travelling we were talking week on week off.
The week off she is more than welcome to do what she see's fit. We talked of her
maybe taking some courses in something she is interested in just for example.
I mentioned already that her compensation will give her the option to work
or not to when we're apart. Her call.
As for some of the other comments by other members. No, not a fantasy. A paid
companion who's company i enjoy. She enjoys mine as well.We know one another
very very well. Just as mentioned looking for input as maybe there are some things
I haven't thought of. Sometimes things seem a little off with her, hence the honesty
question I had.
Its difficult to put a fine point on.
 

giaebonyprincess

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Good tips, appreciate it.
But communication as you said is so very important.
We have talked about it in the past a bit as we generally do have fun. A lot of fun.
When not travelling we were talking week on week off.
The week off she is more than welcome to do what she see's fit. We talked of her
maybe taking some courses in something she is interested in just for example.
I mentioned already that her compensation will give her the option to work
or not to when we're apart. Her call.
As for some of the other comments by other members. No, not a fantasy. A paid
companion who's company i enjoy. She enjoys mine as well.We know one another
very very well. Just as mentioned looking for input as maybe there are some things
I haven't thought of. Sometimes things seem a little off with her, hence the honesty
question I had.
Its difficult to put a fine point on.
Me personally I like the pay as go. When you give a monthly fee and things aren't laid out on the table there maybe HUGE issues. You may be expecting something more and she may not want to. Already you mentioned a pretty huge RED flag manipulation you have to be careful with that.

There's just too many hot SPs to choose from don't limit yourself, this is suppose to be fun exciting hobby not a headache.

It is what it is....don't confuse it or someone always gets hurt.:nono::nono:
 

UhOh

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You're looking for someone to tell you everything is fine and she's really into you or you can deal with reality and realize this this is temporary and will come crashing down eventually. Get a real girlfriend if that's what you're looking for. I don't get this thing where guys want long term relationships with escorts instead of just putting in the effort to find the real deal.
Don't look for honesty in this business, don't be a sucker.
 

diamondd5243

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You're looking for someone to tell you everything is fine and she's really into you or you can deal with reality and realize this this is temporary and will come crashing down eventually. Get a real girlfriend if that's what you're looking for. I don't get this thing where guys want long term relationships with escorts instead of just putting in the effort to find the real deal.
Don't look for honesty in this business, don't be a sucker.
Yes agreed.. OP is looking for some validation. It ain't gonna come from the people here. Take heed OP.
 

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Mmmmm, If you are planning to spend more time with her then you cannot expect her to be "ON" 24/7, we are real people who sometimes do have resting bitch face, or we want to meditate or not talk for 10 or 15 mins, especially if you have spent more time together, lol. I would suggest you ask her what is happening, casually, when or if you notice a change in her energy, just say what's up? Everything ok?? That will open the door for her to talk with you. Maybe it was something about her day, she had an issue with a friend, or work related problem and maybe she wants to talk about it, but doesn't want to discuss her work. It's a double edged sword. Sometimes being too honest has consequences as well. If she enjoys her time with you, most of the time, and has made this arrangement she must trust you, and if you have seen her this long she's obviously an amazing lady. Just try talking to her about it casually without prying.

Maybe if she was working in this industry full-time and suddenly stopped, it may have been too abrupt and maybe she's getting flack from her clients cause she's unavailable. I don't want to speculate too much since I do not know the dynamics of your situation. So basically are you paying her enough to take off work for 6 months to be exclusive to you?? Or not? Are you trying to change her? Does she want to change her work? In a situation like that, I know people who would be devastated if I just suddenly stopped being available.

Sounds like you guys have an open relationship where she can still work but as I said Idk your dynamics. Maybe she's worried you will fall in love too deeply. Those would be the first items that would concern me as an sp...

Good tips, appreciate it.
But communication as you said is so very important.
We have talked about it in the past a bit as we generally do have fun. A lot of fun.
When not travelling we were talking week on week off.
The week off she is more than welcome to do what she see's fit. We talked of her
maybe taking some courses in something she is interested in just for example.
I mentioned already that her compensation will give her the option to work
or not to when we're apart. Her call.
As for some of the other comments by other members. No, not a fantasy. A paid
companion who's company i enjoy. She enjoys mine as well.We know one another
very very well. Just as mentioned looking for input as maybe there are some things
I haven't thought of. Sometimes things seem a little off with her, hence the honesty
question I had.
Its difficult to put a fine point on.
 

Reference3A

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Mmmmm, If you are planning to spend more time with her then you cannot expect her to be "ON" 24/7, we are real people who sometimes do have resting bitch face, or we want to meditate or not talk for 10 or 15 mins, especially if you have spent more time together, lol. I would suggest you ask her what is happening, casually, when or if you notice a change in her energy, just say what's up? Everything ok?? That will open the door for her to talk with you. Maybe it was something about her day, she had an issue with a friend, or work related problem and maybe she wants to talk about it, but doesn't want to discuss her work. It's a double edged sword. Sometimes being too honest has consequences as well. If she enjoys her time with you, most of the time, and has made this arrangement she must trust you, and if you have seen her this long she's obviously an amazing lady. Just try talking to her about it casually without prying.

Maybe if she was working in this industry full-time and suddenly stopped, it may have been too abrupt and maybe she's getting flack from her clients cause she's unavailable. I don't want to speculate too much since I do not know the dynamics of your situation. So basically are you paying her enough to take off work for 6 months to be exclusive to you?? Or not? Are you trying to change her? Does she want to change her work? In a situation like that, I know people who would be devastated if I just suddenly stopped being available.

Sounds like you guys have an open relationship where she can still work but as I said Idk your dynamics. Maybe she's worried you will fall in love too deeply. Those would be the first items that would concern me as an sp...

I thought about what you wrote and it
got me thinking, We do alone time when
spending lots of time together. That is
crucial for both of us as we're both private
and enjoy what I call "me time".
So def don't expect her to be on 24/7.
But I do think she is quite used to being
connected with friends via phone texting
and what not, When we spend weekends
together or whatever it kinda throws that off
a bit.
It's interesting getting to know her and seeing
the dynamics change. Over time for sure walls
have come down on both sides. Some of what
I have learned is interesting. Some makes me
wonder, hence this thread.
We are very clear about my financial obligation.
So that's a non issue.

As far as love, feelings and stuff like that.
Well of course spend a ton of time with anyone
and some sort of feelings will develop.its only
natural. I've seen her pour them out and clam
up as well. Hot & cold.
But love, no. Jealousy if she's with another
client when not with me, no.
I do understand what some posters are saying
and will for sure heed the advice and be responsible.
I would be an idiot if I wasn't careful. And I'm def
not an idiot. I do understand fully what this is about.
She is a paid companion and I understand that.
She knows I am very open but also understands
me very well which is why we click very well.
Everything in life has a time frame. Where this ends
is tough to say as I don't think to much about it.
Just prefer to think about enjoying our time together.

Yes agreed.. OP is looking for some validation. It ain't gonna come from the people here. Take heed OP.
Um validation, seriously ? I'm a full on grown adult
and don't need any validation from anyone.
Sometimes a bit of guidance is useful. Everyone needs
a bit now and again. Nothing wrong with that.

Thank you all for your input and PM's.
Suggestions def noted :)
 

KingofClubs

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Are escorts honest?

Well, there are good ladies who have integrity, and there's others who will clean you out and burn you. Some are damn good actresses. Always remember you're paying for a service. I stick to 1hr dates, with my regular ladies. I always pay the fee in cash at the beginning of each appointment.

Years ago I did get into a habit of booking longer dates frequently, but found, for me anyways, the lines between fantasy and reality were beginning to blur. So I've learned to keep things simple.
 

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Escorts service providers , men , women , freinds etc it is all the same , if you really want to know who your friends are , lose your money lol ( keep your penis and wallet in your pants :) .... but remember service providers are people that YOU have approached with the intent to pay for a service from ,so you cant always expect a short or long term commitment or life long friendship etc from them,it will certaily depend on how they feel about YOU as a person .
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Reference3A

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Escorts service providers , men , women , freinds etc it is all the same , if you really want to know who your friends are , lose your money lol ( keep your penis and wallet in your pants :) .... but remember service providers are people that YOU have approached with the intent to pay for a service from ,so you cant always expect a short or long term commitment or life long friendship etc from them,it will certaily depend on how they feel about YOU as a person .
Well I know who my friends are.
My bubble is quite small on purpose.
Do I consider my companion a friend?
For sure I do. I've had oddness happen
with friends over the years. We all have.
This just happens to be a question about
an escort whom I also consider a friend.


Of course I sought her out initially.
But it is she often texting me with
questions of " when are we getting
together next", " We should go here for a trip".
So She approaches me for dates as well
and has ideas for adventures.
It's not all one sided as you suggest.
She says she appreciates, respects and
likes me a lot. Do I believe her, yeah for sure.
But there are some questionable things
just trying to sort out.
 

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Escorts are human, therefore some are honest and some are not. That's why this forum exists. We meet good and bad and share our experiences here.
 
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