New here and looking for feedback on first encounters

otter

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I am new to this hobby. Currently on the hunt for my first experience.

I had contacted Amy 4230 last night around 6pm and asked her to come to my place now. She said okay, told me the amount and I was left to waiting in anticipation. 2 hours go by and I text her saying I had to carry on with my evening.

Is this a red flag?

I asked her to text a selfie and she did, quite promptly too! The selfie matched the look in the profile on BP. I Google Image searched the selfie and couldn't find any other use of it.

I would like to see her, but after this 2 hour wait, do you figure I should stay away? Or this normal sometimes.

I figure I could drive to her area and ask if she can available within 30 minutes.

Any/all feedback appreciated.
 

t44

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I am new to this hobby. Currently on the hunt for my first experience.

I had contacted Amy 4230 last night around 6pm and asked her to come to my place now. She said okay, told me the amount and I was left to waiting in anticipation. 2 hours go by and I text her saying I had to carry on with my evening.

Is this a red flag?

I asked her to text a selfie and she did, quite promptly too! The selfie matched the look in the profile on BP. I Google Image searched the selfie and couldn't find any other use of it.

I would like to see her, but after this 2 hour wait, do you figure I should stay away? Or this normal sometimes.

I figure I could drive to her area and ask if she can available within 30 minutes.

Any/all feedback appreciated.
ur new to this hobby and TOFTT already? I appreciate ur contribution but I highly recommend do lots of HW here and see well established SPs.
 

PerbMod

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I am new to this hobby. Currently on the hunt for my first experience.

I had contacted Amy 4230 last night around 6pm and asked her to come to my place now. She said okay, told me the amount and I was left to waiting in anticipation. 2 hours go by and I text her saying I had to carry on with my evening.

Is this a red flag?

I asked her to text a selfie and she did, quite promptly too! The selfie matched the look in the profile on BP. I Google Image searched the selfie and couldn't find any other use of it.

I would like to see her, but after this 2 hour wait, do you figure I should stay away? Or this normal sometimes.

I figure I could drive to her area and ask if she can available within 30 minutes.

Any/all feedback appreciated.
If you have never seen a provider before, having them come to your home for an out call is outright crazy. Stick to an incall until you have someone you can trust.
 

jgg

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Never have a unknown provider to your home for a first visit.
 

westwoody

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asked her to come to my place now...if she can available within 30 minutes.
1: do not have anyone at your place unless you know them VERY WELL ie ten sessions at least.

2: learn patience and book a day in advance, don't expect someone "now" or "within 30 minutes".

3: find a review of someone who matches your desire and call them. Do NOT call someone with no reviews.

4: two hours late is unacceptable, period, move on to another
 

Claire Monet

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1: do not have anyone at your place unless you know them VERY WELL ie ten sessions at least.

And, yet, some potential clients seem befuddled when ladies won't visit their private residences on the first session

2: learn patience and book a day in advance, don't expect someone "now" or "within 30 minutes".

Good things are worth waiting for. The "right now" approach with someone new before doing any screening.... *shudders*....

3: find a review of someone who matches your desire and call them. Do NOT call someone with no reviews.

Especially real for ladies who visit clients' homes-- references are a must.

4: two hours late is unacceptable, period, move on to another

OP, I hope you didn't give her your address 2hrs prior to the date only to have her not show up. :(
 
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If you have never seen a provider before, having them come to your home for an out call is outright crazy. Stick to an incall until you have someone you can trust.
Perbmod is right. There are a dozen stories I can remember about deplorable escorts showing up at your home and causing havoc. Please stick to someone you get to know and trust. Claire Monets comment is also right on...
 

JonnyBoi

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part of me feels like this belongs in the 411???

Anyways, for your first experience, I'd definitely do some extensive research...
It would be helpful too to know your budgetary concerns and the type of ladies you prefer seeing (massage parlours? do they need to speak english? is BBBJ important to you?), and I am sure you can have your choices narrowed down real quick.

It's kind of like asking you've never been a restaurant before.. and I think the collective aren't sure you're hoping to get a McDonald's experience of a triple Michelin starred kind...




HAVING SAID THAT:

Try Tia Luxx, email her and explain to her your situation (along with a respectful, honest write up about yourself.. honest as in what you are expecting and what kind of person you are, no one cares about your job, SIN, or whatever.. lol) Keep in mind her incall is in Surrey and if you are a Skytrain newb like me, you'll get turned around and get all confused so plan ahead!!

Good luck!!
 

SDK

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1: do not have anyone at your place unless you know them VERY WELL ie ten sessions at least.

2: learn patience and book a day in advance, don't expect someone "now" or "within 30 minutes".

3: find a review of someone who matches your desire and call them. Do NOT call someone with no reviews.

4: two hours late is unacceptable, period, move on to another
I did this hobby for a couple of years in Vancouver (off and on) without knowledge of review boards. I used Leolist to book sessions and common sense to navigate the maze of ads - never had a problem beyond the occasional sub-par visit. I knew after ten minutes of navigating BP that it is to be avoided - though useful in small cities like Victoria (with sufficient vigilance) where LL is limited. Of course I would never book an outcall with someone new! I would study the ad carefully and how the SP responds to my initial contact. Did she respond promptly and polity to text? Did she sound stoned over the phone? Was she friendly when we spoke? I minored in psychology so I'm interested in observing human behaviour. Many times I would book with only half hour to an hour notice - never "a day in advance". I once saw Swedish Heidi in Metrotown because I liked her pics and her ad seemed genuine. She accommodated me within 30 mins of calling since I was in the mall. Great service. Much later I found out she's quite popular. It wasn't until I moved to Victoria that I discovered Perb and have enjoyed sharing positive experiences ever since. I now find reviews important, of course, especially with regards to scams and very poor service.
 

Claire Monet

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True, a lot can be gleaned from a phone call. A lady doesn't necessarily have to have a ton of reviews to be reputable nor does a gent require a long list of references to be deemed safe. Considerate correspondence, a polite phone call, and honest replies to important questions may be all it takes.
 

take8easy

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It has already been said already and I will say it again do not TOFTT for first few sessions.

First session was with Cherise who took an awesome care of me. Suddenly I thought, this is a piece of cake. For my second session, I tried to TOFTT and a lady (almost) pulled a bns on me, but I somehow mustered the courage to walk......( and again went to see Cherise.) Third time was at an Asian micro in Langley and again it was a disappointment. After that I decided to see only well reviewed ladies. Later I got complacent (and horny one day) and I tried another TOFTT with a black/latina mix young girl at a motel on KG and ............ well, no, it was a blatant scam. I think you know where I am going with this.

You have joined PERB and for a pooner it is a wonderful source of information.
 

ddcanz

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It has already been said already and I will say it again do not TOFTT for first few sessions.

First session was with Cherise who took an awesome care of me. Suddenly I thought, this is a piece of cake. For my second session, I tried to TOFTT and a lady (almost) pulled a b n s on me, but I walked ...... and again went to see Cherise. Third time was at an Asian micro in Langley and again it was a disappointment. After that I decided to see only well reviewed ladies.

You have joined PERB and for a pooner it is a wonderful source of information.
I disagree about only seeing well reviewed ladies for the first few times. I don't think it really matters unless you are expecting a more guaranteed experience (of which there really is no such thing based on many factors). Of course your chances are probably better but that may not be the prime motivator. Maybe the unknown thrill is what drives you forward.
I've been TOFFT steadily throughout my history of pooning- in fact even the casual sex with randoms, bar hook ups and one night stands of my youth could be considered the same.
I say just get out there and do what makes sense for you.
The board is great- I obviously use it as much as anyone. There is a lot of info if you take the time to look for it or have the foresight to ask legitimate questions. And I'm not saying to ignore it and just randomly dive into the first snatch that catches your eye.
But disappointments are going to happen, regardless.
Just use common sense and put yourself in a best position to succeed.
Asking for incall service from a complete stranger is not that- on any number of levels.
 

take8easy

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I disagree about only seeing well reviewed ladies for the first few times. I don't think it really matters unless you are expecting a more guaranteed experience (of which there really is no such thing based on many factors). Of course your chances are probably better but that may not be the prime motivator. Maybe the unknown thrill is what drives you forward.
I've been TOFFT steadily throughout my history of pooning- in fact even the casual sex with randoms, bar hook ups and one night stands of my youth could be considered the same.
I say just get out there and do what makes sense for you.
The board is great- I obviously use it as much as anyone. There is a lot of info if you take the time to look for it or have the foresight to ask legitimate questions. And I'm not saying to ignore it and just randomly dive into the first snatch that catches your eye.
But disappointments are going to happen, regardless.
Just use common sense and put yourself in a best position to succeed.
Asking for incall service from a complete stranger is not that- on any number of levels.
May be I was not clear in what I said. I meant that as an advice to a newbie. (Hence ... do not TOFTT for first few sessions). I don't think people listen to what I say anyways so ... t is up to the OP to do it or not.

I get your point about 'unknown thrill'. Each to his own I guess. I prefer seeing well reviewed ladies now. But that's just me.
 

JonnyBoi

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For myself personally, I opted to see people that were well reviewed and (as cliche as it sounds) I tried for people in their late 20's to mid 30's?
I also was upfront in my email introduction. I'd say Sydney Taylor and Tia Luxx made my initial experiences very non-intimidating and even natural. I was cautious but they assured me that "this is supposed to be fun! Just relax :)" which helped a lot.
Of course, anyone you see is a "risk" as you don't know if someone is behind the door with a baseball bat LOL. I am happy to report I've yet met a maniac that's wielding chainsaw on the other side of the door.. Hehe.

To each their own; I enjoyed my first few experiences and if I had to repeat I'd still approach it the same way. Please report back when you can Otter!!
 
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Officeguy

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With the help of this board Tia luxx was my first meeting in many years
She was amazing and I highly suggest you contact her through her website
Be respectful and you will always be glad you contacted her

Tialuxx.com
 

BaconNeggs

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I do not have anyone i do not know somewhat well to my home.
And if i haven't seen and SP before I much prefer to talk to them on the phone, over just emailing and texting.
You get a sense of her verbal skills, does she sound friendly, can ask her some questions.
If they sound grumpy, strung out on some substance, and avoid all my questions, I skip them and find someone else.
 
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