Not saying all "chiseled" men are goons..but if all a guy can bring to the table is looks.. he's most likely trapped in his own narssistic bubble... rendering himself useless to females.
Miss Hunter, well said.
I attended a bbq last night.
Large group and a mix of couples and singles.
The guy who by some peoples standards would have been considered the good looking guy, he tried to score with a few of the females, but got shot down by them.
The more average looking dude had a hot female all over him...one of the ones who shot down the best looking guy there.
I would say IMO she was the best looking single woman there.
The guy she chose was just average looking at best. But he was friendly to everyone and was helping to man a bbq and just overall a good guy.
He wasn't shallow like the other guy with his fancy hairdo, and trying to flex his arms as he held his beer etc.
In high school I think looks reign supreme.
But once the females are over say 23 or 24 years old they look for a guy who is more the total package than just the chiseled jaw good looker.
Those guys probably made out like bandits from age 13 to 23.
Only to then find they are now as they ave a lot less appealing.
He was around 30ish would be my guess.
And he is now more the Omega male.