Is there such a thing as a type of girl you'd bang vs girl you'd marry?

haigum141

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I'd never marry a man who's had more than five previous lovers. I don't want a dick that's been crushed by a pile of vaginas. Or the idea of other people having slept with my legal property... Yuck.


We call this the monthly "are women who have sex still people" thread, by the way. It's a trope.
Is this sarcasm or being serious?
 

jamasianman

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I guess a lot more guys out there are pessimists. But if you think about the numbers, they are right. For every viviacious sexual charged adventurous woman, there are hundreds who don't make sex a priority. I had a friend whose girlfriend would allow him to mount her as she watched tv or as she ate chips because that was all she was willing to allow. And he was okay with that because that was all he could get. Some women view it as a nuisance or are asexual or like to have it now and then make it less of a priority when the career takes off or the kids get made. A lot of guys see marriage as a ball and chain rather than a bond between two people.

And I can see where the thread begins too. Just because you have a lot of good sex with an sp, it doesn't mean you two are compatible outside the bedroom. You are only together for a few hours a month or two and its a business transaction in which she is supposed to make you feel sexually satisfied. I'm sure you'd want to marry an sp just for her sex skills, which are better than a civilian, but it doesn't guarantee chemistry or long term compatibility. That is why a lot of people on this thread say you can't have it all. I wish we could all have sexually adventurous girlfriends and wives, but the numbers are simply against it.
 

poonerboi

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I'm sure you'd want to marry an sp just for her sex skills, t.
A mechanic drives the most beat up piece of shit, the Chef is the one with all the pizza boxes and mcdonalds bags in his trash, the cleaning lady's apartment looks like a cyclone swept through. Most folks don't like to "work" once they are done for the day. Just sayin' ;)
 

rlock

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FYI nightswhisper, the 16 personality types come from the pop psychology Myer-Briggs test populised by management types, and created by non-psychologists based on a distortion of Carl Jung's work. I cited it because it was another example of misguided simplification. It's not legitimate psychology.

Anyway while I believe your three things are what matter to you, I dispute that they are all that encompasses "the norm" unless you contort yourself to fit everything under personality that might be put forward as a counterexample while somehow keeping sexual behaviour it's own thing.

Hell, from what I've read, it seems Sybian would admire a woman with significant farming or livestock skills. Aligning with someone who has similar or complementary life skills to your own because it helps you "fit" is or isn't personality just as much as aligning with someone with compatible sexual skills.


Some SP's even use it in their ads, which I find quite funny. Who thinks of themselves that way, outside of a job interview / application?
"I'm INTJ".
"OK, I'm VW GTI , let's fuck."

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A mechanic drives the most beat up piece of shit, the Chef is the one with all the pizza boxes and mcdonalds bags in his trash, the cleaning lady's apartment looks like a cyclone swept through. Most folks don't like to "work" once they are done for the day. Just sayin' ;)
Completely agree with this statement. I'll even add professional ass washers don't even like washing their own ass when they get home.......wait what did this guy just say. Yes, I said it. Ok their not labeled as professional ass washers and do a great service. I'm speaking of hired help that care and wash old people. After a medical conference we meet a group of ladies at a bar used to be in that profession. One said when she first started the job after washing old cracks all day she was so tired and traumatized once she went home she couldn't hoop in her own shower. We thought she was exaggerating but she wasn't the only one that said that. Although they were a lil drunk so :lol:
 

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Put a nickel in a jar every time you have sex before you are married. Take a quarter out every time after...
 

jamasianman

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It might also have to do with specific standads as well. Most guys would want to bang hot celebrities or singers. But there's a huge difference between banging Katy Perry and marrying her for the rest of your life.

My all time faves are a bodybuilder, a 42 year old, and a curvy euro stripper looking lady. Its nice to see them for an hour, but its a whole different ball game to marry one of them. First off you don't know much about them and when you learn more there could be incompatibility.
 

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the reason why I've lost interest in sleeping with male partners is because they're not interesting to sleep with. sex ends when the dude cums whether I have or not. sex never changes. despite me articulating my needs, they never get met. or the guy lets other parts of the relationship lapse and I become less attracted to him. I definitely keep masturbating just as much though. so ask yourselves this: WHOSE FAULT IS IT REALLY???
 

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Or the wives of 7 dwarves: Milky, Candy, Cherry, Pinky, Juicy, Daisy, Tasty, and Swan.
I thought their names were Bitchy, Cranky, Moody, Spendy, Picky, Drunky and Hillary......
 
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the reason why I've lost interest in sleeping with male partners is because they're not interesting to sleep with. sex ends when the dude cums whether I have or not. sex never changes. despite me articulating my needs, they never get met. or the guy lets other parts of the relationship lapse and I become less attracted to him. I definitely keep masturbating just as much though. so ask yourselves this: WHOSE FAULT IS IT REALLY???
You need to date more girls....Boys are dumb- throw rocks at them.
 
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