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Thread: Why do most escorts prefer men over the age of 40?

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    takesalotofsugar2bthisswt Taylor Maiden's Avatar
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    Lightbulb Why do most escorts prefer men over the age of 40?

    Iím not sure if in Calgary the ladies actually are able to choose the age of their clients. Iíve been asked why I only see older clients many times since I have been here.
    Everyone is different but this is basically what I have found after asking 12 of my friends.

    1. Older men appreciate a woman more than a younger man does. When we workout in the gym an older man is happy to have our fantastic bodies beside him.

    2. If a lady has something she would not like to try, an older man will usually respect that and not push her. Younger men are usually aggressive.

    3. An older man doesnít see a woman as ďlets penetrate every orifice- multiple times-hardĒ.

    4. Older men know what they want and how to provide it, amazing lovers!

    5. Older men see providers as actual people, with feelings, families other lives. Because of this we get a gentler touch, more romance and respect.

    6. A younger man is more likely to tell his friends who you are if he sees you in the real world. Older men have more class than that.

    7. An older man will book an appointment without attempting to make the lady grovel for the booking.

    I hope I havent made any younger men here angry. It's just how some girls think. Also dont you think that men over 40 should have somethings just for them?

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    Thats okay label us younger guys and choose your clients while you still have the ability to do so.
    I had sent you a PM to ask why I should drive down to Calgary to see you and your reply was "thats why I see older guys, they don't ask me questions like that." Well forgive me for asking however you have just been screened through me. You see I like a SP who has a personality not a "*************" You are unlike an Alexandria she has class and style and a personality, she will joke and laugh with you she understands your mindset and thats why she is the queen. How many hits to your threads get? Look at Alex's and then maybe you might have more respect for younger guys, by the way I am 31. And again good luck to you.


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    takesalotofsugar2bthisswt Taylor Maiden's Avatar
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    Oh no, here we go

    Sir,
    I have already placed you on my ignore list. I will not read your post here. I will not post any private messages you have sent me. I will not answer any of your calls/voicemail.

    Please forum allow me to add to my above list.

    8. An older gent would be less likely to become offended when he has been rejected *********.

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    Last edited by Taylor Maiden; 12-28-2003 at 04:33 PM.
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    Perhaps none of my business but...

    Is it possible that we have communication problem here again because the written message does not allow the intonations of a voice message?

    Is it possible that the gentleman in asking the lady, "Why should I drive down to Calgary to see?" was really saying, "Tell me more about yurself and why I should I come see you?'

    Is it possible that the lady took this, "Why should I drive..." as "Why the hell would I bother driving down to see YOU?

    Think about this. FIVE words...FOUR completely different meanings:

    1. I ...didn't say she's terrible.
    2. I didn't SAY she's terrible
    3. I didn't say SHE'S terrible
    4. I didn't say she's TERRIBLE
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    Thanks for all of the responses. I dont mean to say that ALL men under 40 are "bad men". I have met men here in Calgary under 40. I do agree that there is also a tone that is lacking just by typing messages BUT there are certain types we need to avoid to stay safe. After a few emails all sps get to know who they are. Then I can use it as a kind excuse not to meet them. No ones ego gets upset and I/we am able to continue working.

    Also why cant the providers choose who they would like to see? I am attracted to men who are older than me. That is who I like to see.

    The thing about being anonymous means that anyone can say anything they like in the forums.

    "I realize we're all operating on incomplete information" thank you for adding that

    "An older gent would be less likely to become...." lol that is true, Ill change that now.

    freddy- we can tell who are the sweet ones.

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    a younger perspective

    Taylor, i have never met you, but i feel compelled to at least give you my perspective/interpretation of your comments using your numbering, rather than re-quoting you:

    1. younger men see sps as more likely to manipulate older guys who are more vulnerable to the guiles of a pretty woman.

    2 & 3. younger men are more aggressive than older men because of greater testosterone levels. cannot offer anything other than you do have to be more careful with younger men. yours is fair comment subject to one caveat: most men have "formulated" whatever level of respect they have for women usually before they reach 24. so, if the guy is a jackass in his twenties, he will most likely be a jackass in his 40's and the rest of his life. most guys who respect boundaries have done so for basically their entire lives. 20-100.

    4. i believe that being an "amazing" lover is a subjective thing, but i believe that for the combination of stamina, experience, and caring/pleasing your partner, most men should "peak" between 28-44 on this point. i think it depends on how fit the man is and how he takes care of his own health as well.

    5. younger men are probably less likely to be "romantic" with a sp. fair comment. i like to believe i am respectful (always to women) and romantic (but only in real relationships), but i accept that i hope i will be more respectful when i get in my 40's. most younger men with any intelligence understand that certain wisdom only comes with age. yours is a fair comment.

    6. younger men are less likely to have to worry about you telling their significant other about it in public. younger men still have class, but older men usually have more to lose (ie. wife) in the real world and that is why they usually practice greater discretion.

    7. i do not know anything about booking practices as i have never seen an escort so i will take what you say as the truth on the bad attitude given to you by younger men on bookings.

    8. i have known some sps on a personal and real basis. i agree that their are greater risks about stalking younger men because they are probably less respectful of sps boundaries and the agression factor you alluded to in numbers 2 & 3 is inter-related to a man's behaviour.

    i am not necessarily in disagreement with all your points. i think you probably have some fair generalizations about younger men. i think that most of the respectful "younger" men who read your post on this board might also interpret your post as a touch self-serving and a wee bit of target marketing, but i do not know you well enough to make any conclusions about your intent. if that is how you feel, then great.

    the most important thing is for you to be as careful as possible with ALL MEN, regardless of age.

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    You are so right on

    your point about formulating opinions on women at an early age IceG. I think many males learn that attitude from their father's and how their father's treat their spouses (ie. the young males mother). They then probably carry that attitude for the rest of their lives.
    I remember that all through history the ways of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants, and murderers, and for a time they can seem invincible, but in the end they always fall. Think of it Ė ALWAYS.
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    Did i ever mention Kev is in his forties --- Kev

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    Re: a younger perspective

    Originally posted by IceG
    1. younger men see sps as more likely to manipulate older guys who are more vulnerable to the guiles of a pretty woman.
    I don't think that's necessarily an age-related issue because young guys can fall prey to that just as easily.

    I should know, because when I was young and just graduated from university, I was quite naive at the time. And most of all, I was a real nerd back then, so my experiences with women were still not fully developed. A pretty smile was all it took for a female salesperson to sell me an article of clothing I didn't need or couldn't really afford. And with one SW I picked up, I ended up getting extorted by her with that faint promise of sex. Sad, eh?

    If anything, a guy can be easily manipulated if he is sexually desperate enough. Perhaps there are more older guys in that category as part of that inevitable slide from youth to senility. But next time, check out that young and overweight Fred Durst wannabe leering at the girls at the bar or stripclub and think about how desperate he likely is.

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    < This notes tone is light and airy>

    You know I think this is exasperating. I posted what most SPs say to each other but never would post. Iím leaving in 3 days so I posted. If I was going to live in Alberta or being a Provider was my only means of income, I might say what I needed to attract the most business. I donít need to do that so I posted the truth. Honesty is a beautiful thing.

    I like older men. I feel safer with them. I feel more comfortable with them.

    Why should I lie?

    I think that the underlying issue is that Sps are supposed be available to everyone. It can be understandably upsetting when someone or something you are willing to pay for isnít available to you. We donít truly believe that not being able to see me is going to scar anyone. Every agency has at least one black girl. Iím sure she will allow herself to be called Taylor during the date

    I am available to men over 40. My reviews speak for themselves and my private conversations are going to stay private.

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    not sexual desparation, simply loneliness

    wolverine, my point is that anyone who wants a 6 hour $1,500.00 session with a sp is looking for gfe. not suprisingly, the escorts who offer such sessions are always gfe.

    most "younger" guys with that much dough to throw around would just ask the sp out and if she just wants to keep it business, then fair enough, the guy can decide his next step and session length.

    i am guessing that the 6 hour session clientele is predominantly the "older" dudes. and we already know that most escorts have indicated they prefer "fewer clients, but longer sessions" generally on working days. this is why i have never booked an escort.

    further, one of the sps i know used to escort before MP and she told me (since TM says to keep it real here-this was at her house watching movies and just hanging out) that it is easier to sucker older guys into said longer sessions. business is business. if she doesn't play him, then some other girl will. she used to talk them into trips to various spots (just weekends at the special 3 day rate), jewelry, loaning of vehicles, whatever the sugar daddy could afford. it is why it is called "da game."

    you also have to factor in that most guys do have more money when they get older.

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    Originally posted by Kev
    Did i ever mention Kev is in his forties --- Kev
    Kev you don't look a day over 39 ... must be the hair..

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    Get with the program Eh!!! ~Alex~ just put you back in the cage and I get to pull you around (gee, maybe I should re-phrase that. But then again we are at the gay-pride parade. HEY! Quit staring at my ass VM).
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    Well I don't know if I'm disappointed or relieved that I'm under 40...if it means that I won't be able to see Taylor. Wait, was that sarcasm? I can't really tell...

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