Sex burn out ??

Annalise Lane

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I was chatting with a regular of mine and he mentioned he's had more sex in the past few months then he has in years and is finding himself not that horny anymore. Well ... ummmm .... you know the animal NEED to tag something RIGHT now kind of feeling.

SO ask as you all ... do you get that way ?
 

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Well I have to say that I've been a busy boy, at least for me, and I'm getting a little saited, is that the right spelling? Not to say that sex ain't great cause its almost never bad but I'm not feeling that urge to really search out and pounce at the moment. I do however really enjoy the slower cuddle time etc. with my regular grrrllll and sex with her is always mind blowing. But burn out, hmmmmmm wouldn't put it like that. Just kind of like right after a big meal and your really happy and giving it a little break before the dessert......
 

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over the warmer months this past year, i had four regulars that i tried to see every week. not to mention the pocket book, after a while i wasnt enjoying the sessions as much as i should. it was partly me and partly the level of service from couple of them. now that i cut back, the sessions are great.
 

athaire

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Hmmmm

wonder if I should cut back a little and see if that makes it more exciting?
 

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Yep, the higher the frequency, the more noticeable that the sex is bought. That, along with the absence of emotion connection (although maybe some Perberts are talented in fantasy in this area) dulls the horn. Some space between seems to fix it as the libido gets really juiced from temporary abstinence.
 

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oh nooooo!!!

athaire said:
wonder if I should cut back a little and see if that makes it more exciting?
I'll make it more exciting, I promise!!:eek: I have all my fish in my tank trained to do this whole cheerleading routine for you next time you come over! I only lost one of them in the process...but hey, if he wasnt fish enough to do backflips at the top of the pyramid, he was expendable!!!:cool:

Hehehe see you soon, sweetie;)
 

athaire

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Cheerleading fish...........well I won't be missing that today. Snow or no snow.........:D
 

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I went through a similar situation after I split with my long time GF

I went balls to the wall pooning and visiting strip clubs for about 6 months and although it was never humdrum it did lose some of its lustre.

I guess it's like dessert, if you eat it for every meal you don't enjoy it as much.
Plus I was going through a hell of a lot of $$$$ and enjoying it less.
 

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Yes I think i many be OD ing." over doing it ".. i could easily see some one every day for a few hrs .. not just for the sex ,but just to have some one existing around .. naked and doing sexy things. is existing..
When you have gone so long with out ,as i have and then you get some .. The body and mind just craves more.
I can think of nothing better then to be with some one ,that at the drop of a hat .. when the urge come for use .. any time day or night .. we would be out of our close .. or they could stay one to ...and then we would just let go in passionate love make..Yes i am being a little romantice there ..all types of sex would be fine also.
Of course i love teassimg too .. if it goes some where..
As for cheerleader fish.. I don't know if I am comfortable with fish watching...There mouths moving open and closed...:rolleyes:
 

Annalise Lane

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I know for me sometimes to much sex just means I want more but then it gets kinda boring, probably why I like to spice up visits when I have regulars. The act itself is 10 - 25 mins depending on the dude but it's the build up that keeps it fresh.

Who's got a Orawwww for foreplay ?? Hands up now !!
 

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Thread burn out

It looks like a perb not only can loss interest in sex .but also in a thread talking about ........;)
 

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Sex burnout is for real, it's one of the reasons why I've curtailed the pooning. It's also apparent when I look at internet porn and it ceases to arouse me.

A brief abstinance does wonders for the libido. After the last time I spent 2 or 3 weeks of no-touching down there, my cock could have punched a hole through a brick wall!
 

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turn up the burner

One way i found in the past to start the hormones flowing again .. go to the gym .. work out .. run .. 2 ..3 days a week for a month or more .. you will start feeling horny again.. all those buff guys in there tiieght shorts ... thier sweety bodies thier.....oh ...so......... wait aminut ... that just ain't right...
Sorry.. i havent been to the gym for so long..:D
 

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wolverine said:
Sex burnout is for real, it's one of the reasons why I've curtailed the pooning. It's also apparent when I look at internet porn and it ceases to arouse me.

A brief abstinance does wonders for the libido. After the last time I spent 2 or 3 weeks of no-touching down there, my cock could have punched a hole through a brick wall!
I agree. I work in the "adult" industry (technical side) and you know its time to pack it in if you are more interested in whether the page elements line up properly...

This year has been one of extremes for me. On the one hand I've never gone out as much (I used to go once a week to BBC religiously) or abstained for so long (2 months in Florida - there is NOTHING going on there unless you like church).
 

georgebushmoron

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I found something more interesting than sex (yes, love). That in itself limits the enjoyment of physical sex when there is not an emotional component. When I do get a hankering for raw physical sex, I get enough of it from the S.O. and the G.F. But once in awhile I like to try something different, so I see an S.P. More often than not, I'm bored to tears even if I do get off. Then the next time I think about doing that again, I think about what else I can spend my money on that has a return of a more concrete form of gratification.

So the combination deeper emotional feelings and plenty of free sex makes spending money on an S.P. for more sex rather unnecessary most of the time.
 

georgebushmoron

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Sonny said:
No offence, GBM, but to me the latter three quotes in combination make the first quote surreal.
People confuse love with exclusivity. That confusion leads to delusions about relationships. Anyways, it doesn't matter. What one feels is what one feels, and to me it's real enough. The state of love is delusional anyways, that's what makes us human. So it's all moot, logically speaking.
 

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a practical question

georgebushmoron said:
People confuse love with exclusivity. That confusion leads to delusions about relationships. Anyways, it doesn't matter. What one feels is what one feels, and to me it's real enough. The state of love is delusional anyways, that's what makes us human. So it's all moot, logically speaking.

Where do you find the time, with both an SO and a GF, to partake in the hobby as well?
 

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I don't get enough:D Although I can say I had a regular I saw, but got bored of seeing him, oh well!
 

Sonny

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georgebushmoron said:
People confuse love with exclusivity. That confusion leads to delusions about relationships.
Then both your SO and GF know about each other and both know also you sometimes do SPs when you want someone other than them.

georgebushmoron said:
Anyways, it doesn't matter. What one feels is what one feels, and to me it's real enough. The state of love is delusional anyways, that's what makes us human. So it's all moot, logically speaking.
No doubt you are feeling connective emotion, but is it love? I would guess, from what you wrote on this board at the time, that the girl you dumped a year or so ago loved you. Are your feelings in the same category?

No need for a reply, it is not my intention to hijack this thread into a discussion of relationships, which is better off in a thread of its own.
 
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