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    What makes for a good session for you?

    I've been lurking on this and other review boards for some time, and some of the information I've picked up has really helped me to be more discerning about whom I spend my sessions with and how to get maximum enjoyment from the sessions. I'm not very new to this hobby, nor am I very experienced, but I would be interested in hearing what criteria other guys use to decide to continue with a session (beyond the she got nice tits check).

    Personally, the first thing I notice is eye contact. When I first enter the parlour, does the girl make eye contact, or does she stand in the door looking over one of my shoulders or down the hall? My second is flirting. If the SP isn't even sure I'm staying or not, and she's flirting with me... I'm staying. One of my greatest massages started when the SP took my hand and walked me to the room. That really got my motor running, but I haven't had an SP do that since (but I'd feel retarded sticking my hand out and asking the girl to take it).

    I find the girls coming on this board and posting to be incredibly sexy. It goes right back to point #2. Its their free time, and they're still playing the game (so to speak).

    In all fairness, I should ask those very girls what makes a session good for them? I understand a lot of the basic etiquette, but what do you most want a client to do?

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    I've said it before I am a pretty simple guy, all I really want is to be with a woman that makes me feel like for the time I am with her I am important. Lets face it there are two components to this Sex and Ego so of course I want the joy of sex, the fun of a bit of flirting, the eye contact that Bueller mentions and some spice, it is always fun to be a bit surprised during sex. It is also important to have you ego stroked which is hard to do or at least hard to do without being obvious, it's an art :-)

    That probably does not help much but it is actually a hard question since the answer for me varies a bit day to day..

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    I like...

    ... The girl to put me and her at ease. Humour is good. At least try to fake that you dig me in some small way. Eye contact is good. Some small chit chat.

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    I definatly like responsivness.
    I am quite creative in what i do, so i like to know what someone likes and what they don't like as much. A simple moan or something is perfect. Makes me try harder every time. The goal is to make the moan a little longer or a little louder or both
    Then ease off and make it happen again each time the rise gets faster.
    Ooooh!
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    Hmm...interesting question.

    Although looks are somewhat important I think the most important thing is attitude. A nasty, aloof, I'm having a bad day, I'm only here because I need to pay the rent, attitude is a real real turn off.

    The real turn ons: Someone that smiles, can make conversation, but know where to draw the line. Makes eye contact, makes body contact. Seems genuinely into what she's doing (even if she's not).

    I like to be creative, and I don't like to be rushed. So someone that's open to trying new things, and isn't overly restrictive (although I'm very respective of limitations).

    For real bonus points I like someone like Lisa who's creative. I like to try new things and anything that breaks from routine is a real plus.

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    Lisa?

    I love noisy sex. I like it when we both moan and scream. I also enjoy a little dirty talk, not vulgar just sexy. My last girlfriend said my moaning made her really hot. I also compliment the girl you know your hot, your so sexy and beautiful, you really turn me on. You drive me crazy and such.

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    I like for the provider to enjoy herself and my company or at least act as if I am a pleasant person to be around. I don't think that they all enjoy themselves in a turned on sexy sort of way, I'm not that naive, just provide me some feedback that the 30 to 60 minutes together is pleasant. Nothing worse for me than a provider who is uninterested in being there. Good conversation helps, and feedback from both parties is really good - consistent with what several of the previous posts have mentioned. Just my opinion.

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    A good session...

    I agree with you, Bueller, a good session starts when you first walk in the door. I like the girls to be friendly, have eye contact, and smile. Taking the hand to lead you to the room is great, or atleast taking the elbow.

    The lady must have a good attitude, looks come next. Make sure she comes back promptly after the shower. I like to have a firm massage with a lot of teasing and body contact. Let your fingers do the walking, especially down there. I also enjoy it when my anus is teased. Some guys make not agree, so ask first!

    The girl should be open to suggestions and have the appearance of enjoying the session as well. Don't look uninterested, watch the clock, or look bored. After the deed is done, I really like to be cleaned up with a hot towel. Don't just jump off and run into the shower, slow down and take your time.

    If the lady dries you off with a towel after, bonus! That and a peck on the cheek to send you on your way would end a good session.

    Have fun

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    Bueller, you're a genius for starting this thread. Everybody that reads these posts will probably learn a few things.

    I agree with Lisa when it comes to responsivness. I know when someone tells me that something feels good, it makes me want to try even harder to make them happy. The only thing that would make a session not enjoyable for me is if the person had bad hygiene problems. If its really bad sometimes I cut the massage a little short. Other than that I think there is potential to have fun with every session.


    I hope that there will be more posts from you guys on this thread. It's a golden opportunity to get some valuble information.

    Love Rebecca

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    What a great thread!!!
    No guessing for me what the guys like
    I can see some tips here!
    freaky, yes, i don't like LOUD sex, although with the chance, i definatly can be :x
    I giggle a lot.. thats how one tells that i like things hehe
    and the moaning stuff gets me going
    Rebecca, I've only had the poor hygiene problem once. The same person made some comments during the deed that i was not okay with. Nothing degrating to me, but just other things that im not okay with.
    In that case, no, i don't give my best becasue it turns me off totally. BUT i do do better than what i would w/o being paid of course hehe.
    I get nervous, EVERYTIME, so i small talk a tad then just kinda jump into it if the guy doesn't start off.
    My clock is turned the other way, the clock that is visible i can't read (i need glasses to see) And i've never not been interested. If i know im not gonna provide decent service, I'll tell that person and suggest a rebooking.
    Don't have the hot towel thing goin on, but i don't throw a towel on the guy, i gently do it myself.
    I feel very helpful if i can be most accomodating. I have some flaws in my appearance, but i certainly make sure my service makes up for it.
    The more improvements i can make, the better.
    Seems like you're a bit like me rebecca

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    One of the nicest things I've had happen to me during the massage was the girl massaging my ankle. I don't know why, but this was both extremely arousing and relaxing. I've also heard that a hand massage is supposed to be great, but I've never encountered one.

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    Wink Movement and moaning/purring

    Well, my two cents worth.
    They main reason why I choose to contact a lady is initially because of looks. They subsequent e-mails or phone calls are what I rely on to get a sense of the lady's attitude. I want the girl to be physically attractive, but, at the same time, if I don't feel an emotional contact or I feel like I am getting the cold shoulder, it makes it that much more difficult to keep it up (and I have a high sex drive).
    A good session for me includes my being able to make the girl have at least one orgasm (or at least a good, believable fake). That may be in the form of digits or DATY or intercourse. What really gets my motor running is seeing a girl moving her hips in pleasure and moaning or purring. I am very quiet when it comes to sex, but I say what makes me feel good and I like my partner to reciprocate. I really enjoy myself in a session when I go down on a girl and I have trouble keeping my head between her legs because of her "grinding" enthusiasm.
    I realize that every person has different turn-ons and turn-offs, likes and dislikes, so a little help in pleasing my partner (and seeing the positive effects) is very stimulating for me.
    In all honesty, although I obviously enjoy getting my rocks off, I am usually still very satisfied with a session if the lady gets off three times and I don't cum at all. As long as the SP seems to REALLY enjoy being with me. At the end of the session, I want to feel like she had her orgasm(s) because of her time with me, specifically, and not just because her clitoris was being stimulated.
    I have been in situations before where the SP was pleasant, great body and face, good price, allowed DATY and digits, and multiple positions, but wouldn't allow herself to cum. Everything else was great, but that one thing was a real turn-off for me, and made it a "non-return" event.
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    What really works for me is the playfullness factor of who I'm with. I don't mind chatting and getting to know each other a bit better, especially if it's the first time seeing each other, just as long as the talk doesn't get too depressing. I had a session a little while ago where the girl was talking non stop and about depressing shit like her special needs son or one of her ex boyfriends that comitted suicide. now I tend to be a good listener by nature but this is a situation where I definately don't want to be depressed.

    Generally I like to start the playing in the hot tub or body shampoo (Depending on the weather of course) and then continue it during a NR. Now I find that I get a lot of my pleasure and arousal tactually and enjoy seeing women that are less restrictive when it comes to letting my hands do the walking. Which is one reason I usually go for a NR and do my best to make the session pleasurable for both of us. Of course this all depends on the partner I'm with and how the chemistry is either real or perceived. Hell I'm no Brad Pitt (I'd be reluctant to call myself a Randy Quaid :-) ) but if I believe who I'm with is enjoying my company even if it's just a convincing act then I'm more likely to become a regular. And I'm not talking groping away like a virgin teenager during his first time I'm talking light gentle caresses.

    Anyways that's my input for a good session.

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    Something else that's great...

    One thing that really gets the session off on the right note:
    When you walk into the studio, the little doorbell goes off, you hear soft footsteps approaching, she turns the corner and looks and has an expression on her face which is halfway between her jaw dropping and between a huge ear-to-ear smile as if to say "oh, we're going to have fun today!"

    Not only is that a big ego boost, but it usually means the rest of the session will be incredible.

    Doesn't happen all the time, but when it does it sure is sweet.

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    Re: Movement and moaning/purring

    Originally posted by WhiteKnight
    A good session for me includes my being able to make the girl have at least one orgasm (or at least a good, believable fake). That may be in the form of digits or DATY or intercourse. What really gets my motor running is seeing a girl moving her hips in pleasure and moaning or purring.

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    At the end of the session, I want to feel like she had her orgasm(s) because of her time with me, specifically, and not just because her clitoris was being stimulated.
    WhiteKnight
    Oh oh oh yeah I should have said that Damn Well said...

    I don't care about screaming but moaning and purring (love that description) do it for me... an orgasm during DATY is it for me, probably a control thing or might have to do with my first girlfriend, they say the formative years have a lasting impression on you :-))

    It is a hell of a boost to your ego when the woman you are with has an orgasm, no denying that.. We all like to think it is because we are good at what we are doing :-)

    Also tell me what to do, I don't read minds, if it feels good say so, faster? slower? a little to the left ? :-) it does two things, maybe the woman enjoys it more and it shows she is into it. (hell I might even learn something)

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