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    Question friends and SPs

    i know that some rare times an SP can become a friend, where you actually go out and do non-work-related things... and you know her real name... and so on...

    here's my question. have any of you been in the reverse situation? where you have a female acquaintance (who doesn't know about your hobby) and one day she opens up to you and tells you she's an SP? not solicitiously (if that's a word... hafta ask the board's wordsmith), but just sorta sharing this part of her life with you.

    or even more interestingly, you go see a new SP and you know/recognize her from the "other" world?

    (is where i should be posting q's like this?)

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    I'm still waiting for that day when one of my friends from my "other" life comes walking through my door. What would you guys do if the SP you went to see ended up being someone you knew personally?

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    if it was a friend, then i think we would not go through with anything but talk about it then or afterwards.

    if it was some lil hawtie who sells coffee downtown, about whom i've been fantasizing for weeks... well... heh heh...

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    Worse yet she was a friend’s girlfriend and he did not know. … Yes we did do it … and yes I told him.

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    What if it was a friend's wife......? a friend's HOT wife *grin*

    No, never happened to me, but have thought about it a few times

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    Swguy beat me to it.

    I don't think I would go thru with the session with any of my single female friends I have today. But some of my buddies' wives I would definitely do. Not that they are particular attractive, but more of being attached to my buddies. Maybe it has to do with the fact that the chance of bedding them is less than zero makes me want to do even more.

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    breaking an SP's confidentiality

    If it was someone I knew beforehand , probably wouldn't go through the session but I certainly wouldn't break that sp's confidentiality to anyone else, boyfriend included, even if I knew him..not my place to start imposing some sense of morality all of a sudden, especially given the circumstances and what it was I was there for in the first place!...seems kind of hypocritical to me..just my 2 cents.
    Last edited by chuck1561; 07-12-2003 at 08:15 AM.

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    he was a street Bro. gave me my first taty, smoked my first spliff with me, baild me outa jail kinda Bro. This had nothing to do with morality

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    wouldn't really matter what the reason

    no offense...wouldn't really matter what the reason...all sp's are human beings and have a life outside the business and it shouldn't matter if we happen to know them or not...if we start breaking thier confidentiality what's to stop them from breaking ours..everyone has reasons for what they have to do in life..just think we shouldn't be judging them..imagine the shoe on the other foot.. confidentiality is a big part of participating in this hobby for both the pooner and the sp...that should be respected no matter what... IMHO
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    Originally posted by Swguy
    What if it was a friend's wife......? a friend's HOT wife *grin*
    SWGuy
    How about a friends HOT DAUGHTER ???? bwhahahaha - sorry, wishfull thinking

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    Back in college, I had a housemate for a couple months that was a real 'wild-child'..... she would walk around the house topless, and when she brought someone home we could all hear it (screamer).

    10 years or so later, I go to an Indi for the first time and when the door opens ...... holy crap, I'm pretty sure its her. But after 10 years, who can by 100%, I didn't think she recognized me anyway ..... so I go ahead and do the deed.

    This girl is a screamer ... and at the 'climatic' moment, she calls out my "real" name .... not the "pooning" name I had given her !

    We never talked about it, and I never went to see her again, but its a great memory ...
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    Sweet!

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    I figure it's all in one word: karma. What goes around comes around. Just like VanIslandGuy, there's a few women I know that I have a gut feeling of being SPs considering they don't have full employment & they drive nice vehicles. Nice women though...I've never asked them outright if they are...who knows...one day I might walk in the door & boom...there one of them is...

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    I have to agree with Chuck 1561. If I knew the individual as part of another family, I would gracefully bow out and later discuss the matter to clarify the situation. People should not feel beholden to one another. A bit old fashioned, perhaps.

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    the more i think of this topic, the more i realize it comes down to chemistry (101!?). if you and the chick have always hit it off then maybe it isn't such a big deal to take it a step further; whereas if you're merely acquaintances, then it would be sort of awkward... and it's her call too as much as it's yours...

    -x
    Last edited by XTC Fan; 07-13-2003 at 05:31 PM.

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    As for telling the gals hubbie if you know him..lose lose situation. If he's knows about it, he'll think yer a dick. And if he doesn't know about it, he'll think yer a dick (bearer of bad tidings...).

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