Well HD, not all of us are bad girls. Sublime.... Since you asked, please don't give me hell for talking about my bf. It really depends on the man. If he can accept that his woman is out with other men, and trust that she will continue to return home to him, then there should be no obstacle that can't be overcome. If the man is unsure of himself, or has a hard time trusting that she will return to him at the end of the day, then problems will inevitably arise. If there is mature, open communication (not finger pointing) then the chances of things working out are greater than if everyone keeps their concerns to themselvs, then they stew then they get passive aggressive, next thing you know you're single again and you don't really know how it happened. By no means is it an easy thing to swallow, and my bf and I have often discussed what it would be like if the tables were turned. I know that it would really be a struggle for me to not get angry or possessive about it, which in turn helps me to realize what he is going through with me. As with so many things, I think this is a situation where communication and trust in each other is a must.