I've actually wanted to talk about this for a while now but never found the time. Now that I am home in this covid 19 time I have lots more spare time at my finger tips.
If asked directly I do tell men my home situation. But up to this point I have kept being married on the DL. Ive had more then one woman tell me I will ruin my business if men know that I am not eligible beyond there 1/2 hour apt. That part of the allure is possibly one day winning me over and that they could have me to themselves. Now that I am 4 years in I realize that if me being in a loving committed relationship is a reason not to book me then that is not the type of client I am after. I remember my husband telling me back in the day when we were dating when I was around 22/23 years old, that I was the type of woman where one man could never satisfy me and I would always need multiple men through out my life. Little did I know if I was to fast forward a decade later Truer words have never been said. Does him saying this or me being an escort diminish what we have, or make him a lesser man. Absolutely not. I still love him just as much today as I did before a became a pro. If anything I feel I am a better wife, I cherish the times we do have together. I tour and am away from home just about as much as I am at home right now ( well pre covid days) It also makes me a better provider. I have lots of love to give in my heart, I also understand where allot of my married men are coming from as well. Dont get me wrong I have had some of the best sex I have ever had with my husband but I was listening to Russels Peters ( a comedian ) and he hit the nail on the head with this statement : When your married there are 3 positions , the "us" position to get started, the "her" position to get her off and if your lucky you get the third being the "you" position to get you off. I had to laugh so hard because its so true, even though Ive had crazy good sex with my husband, I do get stuck in a comfortable rut like every other married couple and you tend to lean on what works each and every time. Even though Veronica does slip out for him , he defiantly gets more wife sex, although my blow job skills are off the chart now, practice, practice, practice . I totally get why people that are in loving committed relationships still want a safe avenue to let there inner sexy freak out, or just changing it up a bit with a new person that makes new noses and does things slightly different from the same old same old.
I was really worried at first about letting men know im married and off the market like that. But truth be told allot of them dont care or are very happy that I am happy. Or even more to my surprise , they think its super kinky and fun. This career is the best thing ever , but in the same instant can chew you up and spit you out. If I didnt have a stable home environment I dont know if I could be firing on all cylinders for so long like I have , since starting this I have literally been touring away in Alberta 1-2 a times month for the last 4 years. He wants me to do this far away from home bc there is still such an unhealthy stigma towards this industry. I am so glad I am able to live this adventure with all these men that bring so much life and light into my life , dont get me wrong there are times ive being balling in my hotel room by myself wondering what the fuck am I doing. The saying it doesnt get easier, you just get better applies. I am so so so lucky to have my cake and eat it too.
I want to be the most authentic provider I can, and being married in a loving healthy relationship is a huge part of my personality. I really kept it bottled inside for at least a year if not two and it slowly started to slip out threw pillow talk with certain people. So many men have shame and guilt for being in a loving relationship but wanting more sexually. I get it, there are still tons of times the last thing I want to do is have sex at times when I'm home. Life can really get in the way. Not every woman is sexual and its such a HUGE part for men to be sexual. I personally have never believed in monogomy, when there are so many people out there, to confine yourself to just one forever and always..... yuck , no thanks, that is not the life I choose to live. Even before escorting I was in an open relationship with my husband. And let me tell you escorting is a 1000 times better then any civilian guy. I love when clients take the time to research me, I put myself out there in the most authentic way possible so they can make a decision that is best for them. I have spent at this point literally hundreds of hours marketing myself and putting myself out there exactly how I am, I attract the right sort of people that are interested in exactly what I have to offer. So yes I am one spoiled princess, but I have put in the effort, time and work. I would take a client that has done there research any day over a civilian man. I totally get why woman hate dating and always complain about the lack of desirable men. I feel so so so lucky that I am an escort and have clients, I would never ever go back to dating/fucking random men. The amount of respect I get from my clients is 10 fold compared to a silly/stupid civilians.
LOL ok I got a little off track there. As of the last 3 or so weeks I have slowly started mentioning my husband on my twitter and that I am married. This was a conscience decision I did not make lightly. This might not ruin my business but decrease my clientele as your always trying to cast the widest net possible to appeal to the "masses" . You want to appear like the ultimate available fantasy 24/7 ( I swear some men think we are sitting at our in calls playing with our pussys just waiting for a call to come threw) I have a very stable clientele now and allot of confidence in what I bring to the table, and like I said earlyier if this truly bothers men then Im sorry we were not meant to share intimate moments in time together. I have however found I am attracting exactly who I want/need to attract in my life. There is a certain type of clientele I am getting who are fitting in how I could only dream in my wildest dreams. That get and accept this type of polyamorous life style I lead.
Every one comes into this industry for different reasons, expectations, motivations and goals. There is a provider for any price point and skill level, you just need to research research research. Its funny I almost feel like I am "coming out" in a way. That being married in the sex industry is my dirty secrete I have to hold close. There is still so much stigma around sex workers and unfortunately for the bad. That they could not possibly be a stable human being and there is something inherently wrong with them. There is nothing more powerful then a woman that can harness that sexual energy and use it.
I have very clear goals and what I want from this industry in the end. I didn't have these thoughts when I first started but as a grew as a provider and got my feet underneath me, the more it became clear you can really get whatever you want from this industry. I have been flipping over rocks you could say for the last 4 years. I have fucked allot of men in that time, probably more then I would care to imagine... But threw it all I have always gone back to my husband, threw successes in this industry and some pretty devastating times as well. Like once and only once accidentally booking a tour on our anniversary, being newish and not getting any cancelation insurance for the hotel or airfare, realizing you have over $2000 sitting on your credit card for the hotel and flight .... yes I went away and karma did bite me in the ass for sure that day on our anniversary, it will be an apt I will never forget lol feel free to ask me about it in person if you like, it is funny after the fact.
As for the flipping over rocks, if you follow me at all or talk to me in person you know I am looking for a top 10 , dwindled down to a top 5ish over the next few years. All the men knowing my polyamorous life style and fitting into it. And what a better way then to collect men up threw escorting. Don't get me wrong I still am building a very stable career off of 15, hh and hour apts. These are helping me build my dreams in the country. But I will be sharing the best part of my life with my husband and the 5ish men I met threw escorting. The universe has a crazy way of making people meet that were supposed meet. I am open and willing to share so much more to those that are wanting it and fit into this life style. You cannot be afraid or ashamed to ask for what you really want. It will come about in some pretty unique ways if you let it.
Now more then ever I am so very happy/grateful that I am married and back at home during this covid, stay in your house, dont leave, moment in time. I realize for most I am just a fantasy, a good time, a get away from the stresses of life. 95% of the men I see have other priorities in this type of pandemic we are currently in, I am truly the last thing on there mind, although while in my condo during our session they constantly tell me of there un dying love for me and how they would do anything. So that leaves 5% , the top 5 will rise to the top, there are a very very small handful of men that are keeping those lusty promises they made in the heat of the moment. I am glad I don't have to reply on the empty promises of men right now in this troubling time. Now when its appropriate, I can go back to work relatively stress free and be that sex vixen of your dreams, be that for 15 minutes or two hours. It is truly a blessing to be a woman in the position to have her cake and eat it to!
xoxo Veronica Blake xoxo
If asked directly I do tell men my home situation. But up to this point I have kept being married on the DL. Ive had more then one woman tell me I will ruin my business if men know that I am not eligible beyond there 1/2 hour apt. That part of the allure is possibly one day winning me over and that they could have me to themselves. Now that I am 4 years in I realize that if me being in a loving committed relationship is a reason not to book me then that is not the type of client I am after. I remember my husband telling me back in the day when we were dating when I was around 22/23 years old, that I was the type of woman where one man could never satisfy me and I would always need multiple men through out my life. Little did I know if I was to fast forward a decade later Truer words have never been said. Does him saying this or me being an escort diminish what we have, or make him a lesser man. Absolutely not. I still love him just as much today as I did before a became a pro. If anything I feel I am a better wife, I cherish the times we do have together. I tour and am away from home just about as much as I am at home right now ( well pre covid days) It also makes me a better provider. I have lots of love to give in my heart, I also understand where allot of my married men are coming from as well. Dont get me wrong I have had some of the best sex I have ever had with my husband but I was listening to Russels Peters ( a comedian ) and he hit the nail on the head with this statement : When your married there are 3 positions , the "us" position to get started, the "her" position to get her off and if your lucky you get the third being the "you" position to get you off. I had to laugh so hard because its so true, even though Ive had crazy good sex with my husband, I do get stuck in a comfortable rut like every other married couple and you tend to lean on what works each and every time. Even though Veronica does slip out for him , he defiantly gets more wife sex, although my blow job skills are off the chart now, practice, practice, practice . I totally get why people that are in loving committed relationships still want a safe avenue to let there inner sexy freak out, or just changing it up a bit with a new person that makes new noses and does things slightly different from the same old same old.
I was really worried at first about letting men know im married and off the market like that. But truth be told allot of them dont care or are very happy that I am happy. Or even more to my surprise , they think its super kinky and fun. This career is the best thing ever , but in the same instant can chew you up and spit you out. If I didnt have a stable home environment I dont know if I could be firing on all cylinders for so long like I have , since starting this I have literally been touring away in Alberta 1-2 a times month for the last 4 years. He wants me to do this far away from home bc there is still such an unhealthy stigma towards this industry. I am so glad I am able to live this adventure with all these men that bring so much life and light into my life , dont get me wrong there are times ive being balling in my hotel room by myself wondering what the fuck am I doing. The saying it doesnt get easier, you just get better applies. I am so so so lucky to have my cake and eat it too.
I want to be the most authentic provider I can, and being married in a loving healthy relationship is a huge part of my personality. I really kept it bottled inside for at least a year if not two and it slowly started to slip out threw pillow talk with certain people. So many men have shame and guilt for being in a loving relationship but wanting more sexually. I get it, there are still tons of times the last thing I want to do is have sex at times when I'm home. Life can really get in the way. Not every woman is sexual and its such a HUGE part for men to be sexual. I personally have never believed in monogomy, when there are so many people out there, to confine yourself to just one forever and always..... yuck , no thanks, that is not the life I choose to live. Even before escorting I was in an open relationship with my husband. And let me tell you escorting is a 1000 times better then any civilian guy. I love when clients take the time to research me, I put myself out there in the most authentic way possible so they can make a decision that is best for them. I have spent at this point literally hundreds of hours marketing myself and putting myself out there exactly how I am, I attract the right sort of people that are interested in exactly what I have to offer. So yes I am one spoiled princess, but I have put in the effort, time and work. I would take a client that has done there research any day over a civilian man. I totally get why woman hate dating and always complain about the lack of desirable men. I feel so so so lucky that I am an escort and have clients, I would never ever go back to dating/fucking random men. The amount of respect I get from my clients is 10 fold compared to a silly/stupid civilians.
LOL ok I got a little off track there. As of the last 3 or so weeks I have slowly started mentioning my husband on my twitter and that I am married. This was a conscience decision I did not make lightly. This might not ruin my business but decrease my clientele as your always trying to cast the widest net possible to appeal to the "masses" . You want to appear like the ultimate available fantasy 24/7 ( I swear some men think we are sitting at our in calls playing with our pussys just waiting for a call to come threw) I have a very stable clientele now and allot of confidence in what I bring to the table, and like I said earlyier if this truly bothers men then Im sorry we were not meant to share intimate moments in time together. I have however found I am attracting exactly who I want/need to attract in my life. There is a certain type of clientele I am getting who are fitting in how I could only dream in my wildest dreams. That get and accept this type of polyamorous life style I lead.
Every one comes into this industry for different reasons, expectations, motivations and goals. There is a provider for any price point and skill level, you just need to research research research. Its funny I almost feel like I am "coming out" in a way. That being married in the sex industry is my dirty secrete I have to hold close. There is still so much stigma around sex workers and unfortunately for the bad. That they could not possibly be a stable human being and there is something inherently wrong with them. There is nothing more powerful then a woman that can harness that sexual energy and use it.
I have very clear goals and what I want from this industry in the end. I didn't have these thoughts when I first started but as a grew as a provider and got my feet underneath me, the more it became clear you can really get whatever you want from this industry. I have been flipping over rocks you could say for the last 4 years. I have fucked allot of men in that time, probably more then I would care to imagine... But threw it all I have always gone back to my husband, threw successes in this industry and some pretty devastating times as well. Like once and only once accidentally booking a tour on our anniversary, being newish and not getting any cancelation insurance for the hotel or airfare, realizing you have over $2000 sitting on your credit card for the hotel and flight .... yes I went away and karma did bite me in the ass for sure that day on our anniversary, it will be an apt I will never forget lol feel free to ask me about it in person if you like, it is funny after the fact.
As for the flipping over rocks, if you follow me at all or talk to me in person you know I am looking for a top 10 , dwindled down to a top 5ish over the next few years. All the men knowing my polyamorous life style and fitting into it. And what a better way then to collect men up threw escorting. Don't get me wrong I still am building a very stable career off of 15, hh and hour apts. These are helping me build my dreams in the country. But I will be sharing the best part of my life with my husband and the 5ish men I met threw escorting. The universe has a crazy way of making people meet that were supposed meet. I am open and willing to share so much more to those that are wanting it and fit into this life style. You cannot be afraid or ashamed to ask for what you really want. It will come about in some pretty unique ways if you let it.
Now more then ever I am so very happy/grateful that I am married and back at home during this covid, stay in your house, dont leave, moment in time. I realize for most I am just a fantasy, a good time, a get away from the stresses of life. 95% of the men I see have other priorities in this type of pandemic we are currently in, I am truly the last thing on there mind, although while in my condo during our session they constantly tell me of there un dying love for me and how they would do anything. So that leaves 5% , the top 5 will rise to the top, there are a very very small handful of men that are keeping those lusty promises they made in the heat of the moment. I am glad I don't have to reply on the empty promises of men right now in this troubling time. Now when its appropriate, I can go back to work relatively stress free and be that sex vixen of your dreams, be that for 15 minutes or two hours. It is truly a blessing to be a woman in the position to have her cake and eat it to!
xoxo Veronica Blake xoxo