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    Social time locally while I meet a provider half my age?

    I believe it get pretty awkward at times when going in public with someone who is twice your age. I did it a few times - I was on the sides of the femce - once I was the houngest part ( woman was twice my age) the I wa also the oldest party ( about 20years older than the girl). Those particular relationships were not business, we were just lovers.

    Both times I noticed the the person who seemed to be the most embarrassed (or should I say most conscious about people’s reaction when seeing us together) was mostly the woman or the girl. For the most part I was happy in both situations, I didn’t care much about what other people may think.

    Now I am thinking of taking out an sp for social time / date for an hour or two.
    Girl is half my age I met her once, not sure if it’s a good idea to do that, after all it may turn into a fiasco. My end goal is having a closer and personable relationship with an sp that I would like to see regularly.
    I hope not to tun into anyone either, neither professional acquaintances, nor friends or family. I would have no decent explanation for who the lady is and although my so knows that I am seeing other people, we like yo keep it discreet.
    Vancouver seems to be the place where you meet people you know where yoo expect the least and everywhere.

    What do you think of this idea?
    And where would be a good place to go while being able to get unnoticed? Is this a dumb idea under the circumstances?
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    Come up with a logical story in case. An intern you work with? Doing a job interview?

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    I think you're right - dumb idea. Follow your instincts.

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    I think you are wanting a sugar baby. But dating in public is just playing with fire.

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    Just make sure you date young women of your own race. Then you can just say you are her father (or grandfather - see below).

    Funny story. I was visiting a regular at her place and this very pushy guy she had met recently (and she tells me is no longer in her life) basically forced his way into her place. I was out of sight at the time and I guess she thought I was out of hearing range as well since she said her "grandfather" was visiting her. OUCH!!! Couldn't she at least have said her "father" ?!?! For the sake of our relationship I'm going to assume he had already met another of her clients who she introduced as her "father" lol. I never brought it up with her but may do so some day if she does something to really piss me off.

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    Go on a very short date first to see how she handles herself in public.

    Some women can blend in with any crowd, they can be very attractive and charming, while dressing inconspicuously.
    Others attract all the wrong kind of attention.
    Know which you are dealing with before going anywhere.

    One of my happiest memories: dinner with a gorgeous and classy lady. A guy in the parking lot says "Wow I'd be smiling too buddy!" I said stop looking at my daughter like that, and he was genuinely apologetic.
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    In these small interior towns, the young men leave for the oilfields before they're 20 , and only come back to visit family.
    The young women will stay, the population gender difference is very obvious.
    So young women end up with older guys,.....and it's not looked at as different.
    Shit ...I know two Sixty year olds that have girlfriends in their 30's and are pushing baby carriages.
    So being in a target rich environment for younger ladies, almost all my girlfriends have been 10 to 15 years younger than me. The only drawback is they are almost all looking for a husband to have kids with. Not a bad thing if that's what your looking for, but so far I'm not in the market.
    The only time I notice the age difference .....is if I travel below Hope, or if she listens to Rap music, and all my friends will say the same thing.
    I've actually had middle aged women voice an opinion right to both our faces...men hardly ever do....and why it would make a difference to them as a stranger, is beyond me?
    My point is......up here it's more common to have a 15 to 20 year age difference, than to be with someone within 5 years of your own age.
    I even know a few people who's wives are 20 years older...and really, who freaking cares?

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    If I was single and took a younger girl on a social date, I would not give two cents worth of s..t who thinks what. What kind of date would it be if you are constantly looking around. F' them.

    If you are so conscious about it all, may be just see them at their incall or do an outcall.
    At my age, they all look good and luckily there is a nerve that connects my eyes to my one-eyed monster.


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    Honestly I don’t understand the point of going on a social date with a sp if anything I feel it could end wrong because you might catch feelings when it’s strictly business. If your looking for social time with a women there are probably lots of women you can go for lunch or a drink with and be just friends. But as far as sp’s keep it strictly to the bedroom or what ever room you chose to get laid in

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    Quote Originally Posted by D12 View Post
    Honestly I don’t understand the point of going on a social date with a sp if anything I feel it could end wrong because you might catch feelings when it’s strictly business. If your looking for social time with a women there are probably lots of women you can go for lunch or a drink with and be just friends. But as far as sp’s keep it strictly to the bedroom or what ever room you chose to get laid in
    This is the correct answer.

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    I do this regularly, with both, sp's and civilians. My last serious, girlfriend was in her twenties. The reactions of people are hilarious and varied. Winks, nods and smiles, from the men,with the occasional, younger man getting his nose out of joint (I don't know why). Curiosity and some, surprise,from younger ladies, and frequent, glares of disapproval, from older ladies. I don't care what people I don't know think of me, and those that do know me,are not surprised or offended.

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    Iím socializing frequently with SP and sugar babies. Lunches, drinks and dinners. All of them are much younger and quite attractive.

    Now and then Iíll catch a knowing smile from the wait staff. Iím guessing they are seeing it all the time.

    Funny I was Ďinterviewingí sugar babies and arranged for four in a row to meet 30 min gap between each one at a downtown restaurant. All attractive and in every colour too. Same waitress for each meet and greet. By the 3rd one I could tell she wasnít approving of what she was witnessing. Oh well.

    I used to be a bit self conscious long ago and had a story all ready if someone I knew saw me. Thing is there are lots of young attractive women in my industry so itís not too much of a stretch to say they are colleagues.


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    In Vancouver, women spending time with men 20+ years older than them is normal. It’s part of the culture. Don’t worry, you’ll blend right in.
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    Quote Originally Posted by westwoody View Post
    Go on a very short date first to see how she handles herself in public.

    Some women can blend in with any crowd, they can be very attractive and charming, while dressing inconspicuously.
    Others attract all the wrong kind of attention.
    Know which you are dealing with before going anywhere.

    One of my happiest memories: dinner with a gorgeous and classy lady. A guy in the parking lot says "Wow I'd be smiling too buddy!" I said stop looking at my daughter like that, and he was genuinely apologetic.
    This is good advice
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    Quote Originally Posted by badbadboy View Post
    I’m socializing frequently with SP and sugar babies. Lunches, drinks and dinners. All of them are much younger and quite attractive.

    Now and then I’ll catch a knowing smile from the wait staff. I’m guessing they are seeing it all the time.

    Funny I was ‘interviewing’ sugar babies and arranged for four in a row to meet 30 min gap between each one at a downtown restaurant. All attractive and in every colour too. Same waitress for each meet and greet. By the 3rd one I could tell she wasn’t approving of what she was witnessing. Oh well.

    I used to be a bit self conscious long ago and had a story all ready if someone I knew saw me. Thing is there are lots of young attractive women in my industry so it’s not too much of a stretch to say they are colleagues.
    You rock buddy !!!
    At my age, they all look good and luckily there is a nerve that connects my eyes to my one-eyed monster.


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