Do you expect your SP to have an orgasm?

Do you expect your SP to have an orgasm?

  • 1. Yes

    Votes: 18 22.2%
  • 2. No

    Votes: 63 77.8%

  • Total voters
    81

OneLuckyGuy

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Oct 20, 2019
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i don't expect her to but I'm happy when she does. It's kinda like when you go out for dinner and you both enjoy the meal :)
 

Booker_E

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I read an article a few years ago (which may or may not have had adequate scientific evidence to substantiate its conclusions) that claim a woman’s ability to orgasm from the average man (of which average erection time would be under 10 minutes at most) was highly dubious. Add various factors between SP and client (lack of familiarity or chemistry namely) and it seems an unlikely scenario. That’s just my two cents though.

From personal experience, a few regulars have straight up told me they rarely orgasm. They do point out that doesn’t mean they aren’t enjoying the deed itself (maybe that’s just them being nice to me lol)
 

Odb

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Mar 5, 2019
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I never go in expecting her to orgasm, but often, I'd say 98 percent of the time I give the girl 1 or 2 orgasms in an hour visit.

The first time I got an Sp off many years ago...lol she jokingly said the first one was for you... she faked it.. I could tell and went on to give her a mind blowing orgasm as she said wow that was definitely for me..

Some great memories in this hobby.
 

take8easy

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Jul 27, 2014
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Yes, I love it when they tell me that I made them orgasm three times. First by just touching them during make out, second time when I oral them for two minutes and third time as soon as they cowgirl me.
 

sybian

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Dec 23, 2014
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Yes, I love it when they tell me that I made them orgasm three times. First by just touching them during make out, second time when I oral them for two minutes and third time as soon as they cowgirl me.
Yeah but to be fair.... you left out the fact that you have a backpack on, with a running Honda five horse motor in it, which turns you into a 185 pound human vibrator....and you look like George Clooney with a tan.
Of course every girl your with has a screaming triple.
 

Big_Guy_Rye

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May 7, 2018
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Depends on the SP.

If the SP specializes on giving a unique, above and beyond experience that a woman in a real relationship couldn't do, and the price reflects that, i'd put in the effort to make her orgasm with me if the chemistry is right between us.

But often times, there are those SPs who are just looking for a payday; even if the chemistry is there or not, if she's still willing to continue on the exchange then the session will be "about me".
 

Number17

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Dec 24, 2019
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If the session is an hour or longer, I’d be happy if she does but I don’t expect her to.

I usually use DFK at the beginning to gauge our chemistry. If she seems to be into me, I’ll move on to digit and/or DATY. That gives her a better chance to organism first. It’s like opening a door for ladies — ladies first. Whether she has a real or fake orgasm, it doesn’t matter as long as she enjoys it since I like to DATY anyway. After that, the rest of the session would naturally go quite well. If she happens to have another orgasm again, I would like to think that at least one of them is a real one. There were times that I could tell it’s a real one based on the difference in their reactions.
 
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PuntMeister

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Jul 13, 2003
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What! Women can orgasm!

Shit, this changes things.

...or does it??? Lol.
 

steverino

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Feb 15, 2004
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I don't care in the least. I hope she is having a good time as it will probably reflect in the experience I have.
 

badbadboy

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Nov 2, 2006
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I don’t have expectations that they’ll orgasm; It’s just nice when they do. Though I’m a pleaser who doesn’t quit easily.

:eyebrows:
 

2bfair

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Feb 1, 2018
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I tend to repeat with sp's who orgasm as they seem more into the session. I love to edge for quiet some time so it is a pleasure to please her as I love to see her grab the sheets, thrive, orgasm, then melt, which is unlike the ones who faked it. Or her eyes roll back in her head as she melts. I ask the gal, if she does orgasm, to tell me if i am on the spot and not to fake it . My flesh light just doesn't respond like an sp who enjoys a good cock with variable speeds..
And there is nothing like a gal who cums and gushes from 69 ing.. woe.. Thanks Veronica B and April S... great memories..

But I don't expect them to orgasm but hope they do. It strokes my ego as well.
 

cruefan

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Nov 18, 2019
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I never put these type of expectations on the escort that I am seeing.

If it happens cool and if it does not so be it.
 

VinVan

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For me it is a sign of chemistry, trust and synchronicity. I always have my best sessions with a dance partner who does cum. I almost always repeat with a woman who has reached orgasm and seldom with ones who don't (or who don't show the prospect of getting there). When a woman is able to orgasm it demonstrates an openness and presence in the moment. If a woman is interested in her own pleasure, as well as mine, the combined sexual energy always rises to a higher level. It opens up channels of communication that go beyond the the physical. Tonight a woman looked at me deeply in the eyes and thanked me for coming to visit her at the shop and said she really needed the orgasm, as if some unspoken burden had been released in the moment. Earlier this month another texted me after I got home in the evening and invited me out with her on a social adventure (which I had to decline, sadly). And I have been offered discounts or money back as I'm heading out the door.

I find it a fascinating process to open the mental door and to walk through the corridor of a woman's sexual desires - each different and unique. Yes, it is a commercial transaction, but a peculiar one where we wear no armour and speak freely about our deepest desires. This canvas of physical and mental nakedness affords the curious an opportunity to spill paint and get messy. By doing so, I've learned a ton about sexuality (mine and hers) that would have been stuck in a bucket otherwise. Sometimes I am the painter, and sometimes I am the canvas. I find that the giving of pleasure heightens the receiving of it, and makes for more beautiful art.

So expect, no; wish, yes.

And thank you Miss Vanessa for posing this and your myriad of other questions.
 
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jgg

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I think I have to start reading Cosmopolitan or GQ? I don't know which? Maybe both? Is Penthouse still published?
 

2bfair

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Feb 1, 2018
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Nicely put. I Totally agree with you. Love a gal who I have seen a bunch of times who knows how I ring her bell. Her smile is over the top!
For me it is a sign of chemistry, trust and synchronicity. I always have my best sessions with a dance partner who does cum. I almost always repeat with a woman who has reached orgasm and seldom with ones who don't (or who don't show the prospect of getting there). When a woman is able to orgasm it demonstrates an openness and presence in the moment. If a woman is interested in her own pleasure, as well as mine, the combined sexual energy always rises to a higher level. It opens up channels of communication that go beyond the the physical. Tonight a woman looked at me deeply in the eyes and thanked me for coming to visit her at the shop and said she really needed the orgasm, as if some unspoken burden had been released in the moment. Earlier this month another texted me after I got home in the evening and invited me out with her on a social adventure (which I had to decline, sadly). And I have been offered discounts or money back as I'm heading out the door.

I find it a fascinating process to open the mental door and to walk through the corridor of a woman's sexual desires - each different and unique. Yes, it is a commercial transaction, but a peculiar one where we wear no armour and speak freely about our deepest desires. This canvas of physical and mental nakedness affords the curious an opportunity to spill paint and get messy. By doing so, I've learned a ton about sexuality (mine and hers) that would have been stuck in a bucket otherwise. Sometimes I am the painter, and sometimes I am the canvas. I find that the giving of pleasure heightens the receiving of it, and makes for more beautiful art.

So expect, no; wish, yes.

And thank you Miss Vanessa for posing this and your myriad of other questions.
 
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