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    Quote Originally Posted by PuntMeister View Post
    Well I got 1K+ posts and I think ID is creepy/risky for potential client abuse/scamming/extortion or LE data gathering too.

    Other better ways of screening.

    With you on that one KYG.

    -Punt!
    I only ask for ID as a last resort when someone refuses any other screening.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KYG View Post
    I was being totally sarcastic about that. Reference from an SP? Sure.... But the other requests for specific information was ridiculous
    Again, when someone refuses to provide any other screening then I ask for ID.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bad Santa View Post
    When it comes to being dominated, why not give your Dominatrix everything she asks for? The more power she has over you, the more of a slave you are and the greater the turn on!
    Thank you This kind of relationship is all about trust. The more the trust the farther we can go which is a turn on. Screening is a part of this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KYG View Post
    I was being totally sarcastic about that. Reference from an SP? Sure.... But the other requests for specific information was ridiculous
    Then send us an email with a reference. Simple.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mistermetro View Post
    I'm cool with references, even a deposit, but ID? No waaaaaaay!
    And if someone refuses references and a deposit then what should one ask for that would make her feel safe inviting a stranger into her private space?

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    I really respect TaraGreenís responses and explanations to our concerns.

    Both parties can and should be a little wary with first encounters.

    I can humbly say from experience that providing a reference can affect the relationship with the reference. It is of course polite to check in with them first, which brings itís own time burden and somewhat awkward loss of established intimacy. Then you donít know if or how they may be contacted, or if they may be fished for unwarranted information or implicated in a scam, etc. So I have provided references quite sparingly. Seems to be more an east-coast thing in my experience.

    The gift card deposit keeps things anonymous for the first encounter, and that can be be reasonable, but it doesnít guarantee anyoneís safety or genuine intentions. And yes, there have been ripoffs and abuses. And there have also been trolls and time wasters which must be infuriating. I have found the $50 coffee talk a better alternative for feeling things out both ways, when personal screening is a priority.

    The westcoast way seems to be more along the lines of feeling people out with texts and phone conversations before agreeing to see them, and then go into it with positive karma. Trolls and no-shows get blacklisted as they should, and scammers and flakes get reviewed as they should.

    Regardless, I respect any SPís right to establish protocols she feels are necessary, and I respect any clientís right to comply with them or look elsewhere.

    May all your adventures be wonderous!

    -Punt.
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